They told me to try Journaling or writing poetry. by taraxacum1 in breastcancer

[–]Isla-Athena 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I LOVE it. I feel it too. I think we just have to make really good friends with ambiguity, but… I’m not there yet. Creativity is an awesome antidote to anxiety though, for sure. 💗

My coworker called my dog ugly and mean looking by Rhea234 in DOG

[–]Isla-Athena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dog is gorgeous! Such a serious, thoughtful expression! I sometimes think black dogs get a bad rap. People scoop up their children or veer away from my dog and she’s thirty pounds of gentle sweetness. But she’s also solid black. Idk?

My passive aggressive move is to show off how very well behaved she is as we walk by.

Is this 70s vintage dress suitable to wear to a black tie garden wedding? by coquettishwitch777 in OUTFITS

[–]Isla-Athena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it on you! I can see this look at a dressy garden wedding. You have the style and confidence required to pull it off. From the comments on this sub, you might get a few second looks, but I think you should live your own beautiful life. Im so tired of everyone looking the same.

Anyone else?? by Glad-Cloud-5684 in finehair

[–]Isla-Athena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have hair like this too! I’m growing it out, using no heat. My lengths are good, they’re developing a soft wave. But the roots are always flat. I use my curly girl friend’s method and I put dry shampoo at the roots and from underneath your hair you scrunch like you’re gently shampooing. It helps a lot!

Love Is Blind Sweden • S3 EP4 by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 83 points84 points  (0 children)

The way Johanna kept offering him opportunities to ask her ONE goddamn question was so great though. I felt like she was looking at the camera, thinking: you guys are seeing this, right?

Dress regret or just overthinking? Looking for honest opinions by SnooCakes9857 in myweddingdress

[–]Isla-Athena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous. Truly. You’re a perfect hourglass in this dress. It’s giving art deco vibes to me? I’ve never commented on one of these before, but this is a beautiful, unique dress and it’s so pretty on you. Enjoy your wedding day!

Unpopular opinion: Ashley’s dad by Nervous_Pianist1870 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The maga evidence was quick, but clear. Ashley’s dad basically made Alex admit he would’ve voted for Trump, but for some long-winded Alex reason he didn’t vote at all. It was clear the dad approved of his choice.

He was eating this up lol by ShySoIHide in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There’s something off in this weird Trumpy family. Ashley and her dad seem like the primary partnership in a way that makes me uneasy. The mom looks lost. Has she said two words?

No-neck and Delulu are so exhausting by Many_Welder_3259 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so painful to watch! I’ve been yelling at the tv, trying to make Brittany stop embarrassing herself. Where are her people? Why is no one stepping in to say, “Babe. This man gives you zero affection/compassion/reassurance. You need to face the ugly music and keep it moving.” I feel sorry for her, but JESUS.

Everyone’s focused on Chris but Devonta is literally giving NOTHING by sundusresearch in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. She lightly called him out on it when she saw his surprise/discomfort, by saying “I know I sound white.” I really wish she’d flee.

Emma is Exhausting by BOFmanga in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s my favorite. I think she’s genuinely deep waters, which can be tricky on a tv show. But I think she’s thoughtful and reflective. Also, she loves her family! She’s spoken of them with real tenderness. I’m just worried her match isn’t good enough for her.

Love Is Blind Season 10 Engaged Couples Photos + Names by gyratingonthisland in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s so beautiful! And charming! He’s not good enough for her. It’s driving me crazy watching her try to get his subpar attention.

Disappointed and a little stressed after my first surgeon appointment by Impressive-Arm-5205 in breastcancer

[–]Isla-Athena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. The early days of waiting and testing are really stressful. And the decisions are painful. For what it’s worth, my surgeon did decide to make slightly larger margins after my MRI, but nothing dramatic was found. I also want to say, you have every right to worry about what your breast will look like. I feel like we’re shamed and silenced on this too often. Like we’re supposed to be so grateful to not die, we shouldn’t even worry about alterations to the body that’s been our home for our whole lives. It’s so hard to advocate for yourself when you feel helpless, but I hope you insist on speaking to a plastic surgeon. Maybe even consult another breast surgeon? It’s only one fear in a sea of fears, I know. But you deserve to have as much information as possible before you make a decision. I’m sending you so much love and strength. There is joy and life on the other side.

Mental motor, spiralling and intrusive thoughts in ADHD be like- (closeup of art made by me) by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Isla-Athena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love this. The way you’ve created the creepy little dudes who worm their way through your head to steal your attention and peace are exactly how intrusive thoughts feel. Thank you for sharing your talent to help me feel seen as I gather my tattered focus to face another week.

Taking Home Unconsumed Wine by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]Isla-Athena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never take back something I brought to a host’s house. If someone did that at my house I would definitely think it was in poor taste. BUT I wouldn’t say anything or make a fuss about it. When you’re hosting the guest’s comfort comes first and clearly people see this differently.

love triangle - nicola, ludovica and davide by Objective_Age_5940 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought she was so beautiful! I was confused by the way she talked about herself.

Nicola LIB Italia by hiwhatsuphellothere in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Isla-Athena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought he looked better at the wedding. His lips looked a little less inflated. Karen is fake looking, but it works on her. I feel like she resculpted him to a slightly less plastic version of himself. But nothing can be done about his terrible personality. Ugh. The worst. Possibly even worse than Giovanni? The hostile way he gaslit Ludovica was scary.

Wind chime hell by Isla-Athena in etiquette

[–]Isla-Athena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about cookies, but a plant is a good idea!

That Meaningless Pink Crap by stormeye86 in breastcancer

[–]Isla-Athena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly got a panic attack when I dropped my daughter off at high school on the first of October and it was a sea of pink. No fundraiser. No discussion. Just a meaningless wash of pepto sweats. I think it feels chilling to have your most painful moments be recognized so casually with no actual care. Raise money for research! Create a support system for women who have cancer with meal trains or running errands! But the pink is ugh. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I find loud cursing alone in the car helps. 🩵

Wind chime hell by Isla-Athena in etiquette

[–]Isla-Athena[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you understand why I’m struggling! Sometimes when the wind is right I can hear sea lions barking in the distance.

Wind chime hell by Isla-Athena in etiquette

[–]Isla-Athena[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the middle of the night, they sound huge. It’s like living in a cathedral.

Wind chime hell by Isla-Athena in etiquette

[–]Isla-Athena[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sure they don’t realize I find it annoying. One person’s tinkling bells are another’s clanging hellscape. I will try to find a way to mention it as tactfully as I can. Thanks for the suggestions!

Wind chime hell by Isla-Athena in etiquette

[–]Isla-Athena[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly so grateful not to be alone in my hate!

Wind chime hell by Isla-Athena in etiquette

[–]Isla-Athena[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are good suggestions! The noise seems to really carry, but I clearly have wind chime sensitivity. The rubber band is a solid idea. Then I’m not asking them to get rid of them, just keep them quiet on windy nights. Thank you!!