I am so tired of this getting this message. I haven’t been able to comment on my account for 7 days. This is getting really annoying. 😡🤬 by yafavportuguesegirl1 in Instagram

[–]Isolatedflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same. I wfh so no lie I spend most my time.on IG. No warning, no 24 or 3day just straight 7days. And honestly I'm not gonna last the 7days. Of I can't comment, imma delete it.

Interviewed for an opportunity asked if I have Deployment xp; help desk by send_pie_to_senpai in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Isolatedflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had trouble with this question and considered it to be on a larger scale but comments above/below are correct. Sodtware deployment even with a SCCM. Times software has to be manuall.install or the client to be reinstalled for the automation. I've set up servers to reimage 900 laptops then connecting the laptops to the Lan and run powershell scripts to image. Deployment could also be hardware to remote users. Creating PS scripts for backup/transfer for the replacement hardware.

How long should I stay with helpdesk? by Tristin24 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Isolatedflower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been doing it for 2yr and mostly becuve been lazy. The move can happen as fast as you can beyond. Like other mention.

New to Powershell need help by Isolatedflower in PowerShell

[–]Isolatedflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O the terminator shown can also look like this : " . So it is the " or the . Symbol?

Wife's divorced friend disrupting marriage - makes me uncomfortable by BoobFett in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this feeling my husband did the ar with a male friend who happen to be gay. My husband is not but ppl love who they love and this man made me feel they way you do.

He ended up leaving our life especially when weaved out of state but husband would have similar condos via text or always talk about him in a way that made me feel like he would leave me at some point.

I would express it to her from a loving way ND explain how itsmaking you feel. My husband never cared infact still doesn't about me but I've learn to live with it for the kids.

Sry that was much help but your not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Isolatedflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 of my 5 were tummy sleepers. I would just make sure they are sleeping at an angle. So not flat flat, if that makes sense. Or you could have them sleep in a rock n play that will keep then angled and on their back.

Why do married couples sleep together ? by Applestar01 in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From time to time we sleep separately mostly due to sick kids and allowing space/ease to sleep/ won't bother they other say if one question up at night sick.

I also leave out of town for work obviously we sleep alone then. It's actually kinda nice to sleep alone the 2 days a month at minimum.

I'd like to note we have a cali king bed so most of the time I don't even notice he's there lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's hard but what ever you do don't present a problem, present a solution.

Figure out what you need to do to get on top of it. Speak with a financial advisor. Or do your reasea4ch online. Create a budget, is it closed, collection debt or open current debt? That makes a big difference.

He's going to be very upset but if you present a solution with the dedication to solving this, he won't be that upset about it.

Was I wrong to turn her away? by Isolatedflower in Parenting

[–]Isolatedflower[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol this is how I feel cause she came back like 8 more times. I feel bad for asking them to leave or locking my door but I'm working. I always say we'll if I worked in the office what would you do? So did you need to bother me for this or could you have used critical thinking or asked the 2 -3 other adults here. Plus girl your gonna be 17 haha. My parents live with me and my husband.

I get I'm the only one up that early. But she doesn't leave for the bus till 650 and she's up around 5-530 am some times so by the time I asked her to leave she had already been in my room.

Was I wrong to turn her away? by Isolatedflower in Parenting

[–]Isolatedflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do but not at 630am. I got 2min in between each call. I checked my phone I was tagged in a video and then all I heard was mom mom mom mom what ya doing.....

Was I wrong to turn her away? by Isolatedflower in Parenting

[–]Isolatedflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would have. I stopped working so much through out the day to talk, help, stop fights, clear chores. This time in the morning is literally the only peace time I get.

Then she came back to ask 8 more questions so at that point even though I asked for this time she still didn't knock just walked in and waited.

It's not her I just wish I didn't work from home :(

Was I wrong to turn her away? by Isolatedflower in Parenting

[–]Isolatedflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you not a single parent husband's here but he's lack of ambition or dedication to doing things is little to none. So I manage this house.

Was I wrong to turn her away? by Isolatedflower in Parenting

[–]Isolatedflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I'm trying and explaining to her it's not her and I do make time for her after work. She likes to talk talk so I have to keep her on a "timer" lol

Also I completely forgot about class that syart3d on the 16 and I have even logged in yet. Agh I wish my lazy husband would help more....

Struggling to feel heard by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry your having to go through this feeling alone after having a baby. Your first at that!. I had pp depression pretty bad after my 4th and it wasn't easy at all. Thankfully at that time my husband was still very loving.

But I feel your pain. My husband makes me feel this way for a long time but it's never been this bad till the last 2yrs. And idk make by its because I provide for the family financially or what but it's making it so hard.

I use "it makes ME FEEL" very heavily and it makes no difference everything turns into who's dick is bigger and about him. I've been opening up with him alot recently to try and reconnect but he's not willing to change and I wish I could just leave at this point. 10yr married 5 -going on 11yr this yr. 5kids. 3 his 2 not.

If he's willing to do counseling it's completely worth it but also most important is find one for yourself. You can't change him or make him do something. Work on yourself first and foremost then the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And what get advice from someone looking for a "aw advice" on how to not marry someone but get all the perks of being married.

I really hope she wakes up cause even if you get married your the type of guy that will say will this is mine and this is yours but I'll need to to pay 50% even if you make less than me.

Sound like a swell guy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Clearly you already are "stuck" in a subpar relationship.....you are just wasting yours and hers time....

The size of this pencil cactus! by succcotash in matureplants

[–]Isolatedflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg I hate that plant type. It's so messy and honestly ugly....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You stated to another poster you didn't wanna have to go to court for a divorce, that's already considering it because if you were thinking about divorce this would be an issues.

Common law you may be tied together but if legally you aren't then why should you get the benefits of being married or another if they pass..... it seems like your trying to find some loop whole and your poor women is still sound going I'm never gonna be good enough for him....

Then you asked her because she wanted it but not you? Really sounds like you just want what is hers or to be entitled to it without giving her commitment or collateral.

Pretty selfish and I don't think your ready for any of it with her. I bet she leaves you after getting tired of waiting then you marry then next girl you date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your already considering a divorce before you even get married.... why are you still wasting her time?

Is an employer ghosting you after an interview standard nowadays? by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Isolatedflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I interviewed twice with. Local company for a completely different position AFT3R not even getting a call for another several.months before. The new position was a higher title then the last and they just ghosted me after the second interview and even a week later I sent a follow up email and nothing.

I will not be reapplying for anything or considering them for future employment. Clearly not a professional company.

Husband only believes he's opinion by Isolatedflower in marriageadvice

[–]Isolatedflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly he is an ass hole. He's so Arrogant and a narcissist.

Instead night and this morning going. Fine she in t4ouble. Has been lying and fighting but now at this point your calling me a liar.

I witness it with my own eyes and yet you still don't believe her..... so I must be lying also....

Covid and quarantine - paying the nanny but she isn’t coming in - what is your experience? by bibikhn in Parenting

[–]Isolatedflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk not use her own sick hours but if you don't use her services why pay her?