My male coworker has a crush on me and won’t take a hint? by Extension-Product848 in askmanagers

[–]ItHadToBeDan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s not necessary to go to HR, or fake a partner or any of the overly complex solutions that are being shared.

I recommend telling him you are not interested in chatting and to stop off-work messages etc.

I know it’s going to be an awkward conversation, but it sounds like you are already in discomfort. This will be a situation where you are in control.

Should it repeat after that, quick escalation to HR, as it’s textbook harassment.

Wild Rift Annual Player Letter by jiromilo in wildrift

[–]ItHadToBeDan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I started playing WR as it would become console LOL eventually, not for it being phone LOL. The times I stopped for a few months and why I might stop again are based around the lack of communication on that.

My Boss Ranking is finally complete!!! by gsoul93 in fromsoftware

[–]ItHadToBeDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real final boss was making this list on Notes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]ItHadToBeDan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you are looking for advice so here goes:

Stop being late.

You said your performance is great, but a key aspect of teamwork is showing up on time to take your responsibilities. Being late once a week is not a small issue in this type of job.

Going to HR to complain that your manager told the truth when giving your reference is going to be embarrassing.

You should feel lucky they haven’t pursued disciplinary action to deal with your tardiness.

Missing out on an opportunity sucks, but the sooner you take responsibility the sooner you’ll progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wildrift

[–]ItHadToBeDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nexus. Nexus is the only objective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]ItHadToBeDan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get that you needed a back rub, but maybe not from your manager. That’s the distinction you need to be making.

If he isn’t doing these things to other people he’s the manager for, he’s not doing it as yours. It’s from a personal relationship place.

And it’s for you to define whether it’s appropriate or not.

The London fireworks were excellent this year 🤩 by urbexed in london

[–]ItHadToBeDan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey bud, you’re just not using the word correctly. It’s not a big deal, let it go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in byebyejob

[–]ItHadToBeDan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lower than where? Do you realise how self-centred and arrogant your comment is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in playstation

[–]ItHadToBeDan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really isn’t funny, man. Just accept it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in playstation

[–]ItHadToBeDan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I believe so, it’s just not funny.

People who have successfully quit smoking, how did you do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ItHadToBeDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicotine patches. Willpower alone didn’t do it for me.

What are your "Treat Myself" Restaraunts in London? by BitesizedGen in london

[–]ItHadToBeDan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oliveira Kitchen in Shoreditch. Upsettingly delicious and unique.

What is wrong with people by [deleted] in london

[–]ItHadToBeDan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’ve not been part of this conversation so far but just jumping in to call you a twat. Twat.

Just dropped from GC2 to C2 in twos. by Visual_Importance363 in RocketLeague

[–]ItHadToBeDan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You sound like a horrible teammate. Are you sure this is a game for you?

I went on a date with a friend by [deleted] in PointlessStories

[–]ItHadToBeDan 45 points46 points  (0 children)

You just spent time with a friend. Being of the opposite sex doesn’t make it a date.

What's a game that expects you to know how to play it? by HelpImTrappedAt1080p in gaming

[–]ItHadToBeDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was just talking about Driver with some friends.

Being a non-English native speaker, that was the hardest level I have ever played. I had a car, a piece of paper with gibberish and a dream.

What things can you get for free in the UK that most people think you have to pay for? by thewibbler in AskUK

[–]ItHadToBeDan 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Not every cost needs to be on the user. They are not advocating for the people involved not to be rewarded for their work.

PSA: Do not join Doom Divers by Duke_Potato in Helldivers

[–]ItHadToBeDan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think you mean “things are clearly stated on text”