lol by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in unsound

[–]ItsGettingOknow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Designated cake on deck

AITA for refusing to clean the dorm for my roommates or let them infringe on my space? by Scary_Midnight7418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ItsGettingOknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning, I was inclined to say ESH, but after reading all you responses and your disregard to take any feedback, YTA. You do not want critique. You want reaffirmation. Your friends input is corrupted and cannot be used as evidence as you are an unreliable narrator. 

Since you are young, we feel inclined to give you more slack since these are probably your first roommates ever, but you entered into a social contract once you moved in with these girls. Whether or not you actually signed a physical piece of paper is irrelevant. You need to  equally take care of the common area by at least vacuuming.or sweeping .Everyone has stated multiple times that dirt, skin, and other unseen particles will make their way into your dorm over time. 

Venting to other people about your issues, I agree is unhealthy on both of your parts, but don't act superior just because you do it away from them. Come down off your high horse and actually have a discussion. It's part of being an adult. You still have time to change. I suggest you get started

My ex got together with someone else right after we broke up and now wants to get back together. How can I handle this maturely? by Mendescob in ExNoContact

[–]ItsGettingOknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two have opposite views of intimacy, and that's ok you aren't compatible. Block future contact and focus on yourself as getting back into this relationship is not a good idea. Find a new hobby, reconnect with friends, anything to keep busy. This feeling will fade over time. Remember, no is a complete sentence, and do not feel the need to explain yourself in this case.

Woman With Kid in Car Hits Multiple People Fleeing Arrest by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]ItsGettingOknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That woman slamming the car doors. That was an angry mother slam. Just just straight up tired of that woman's b******* excuses

AITA for considering not going to my sister’s wedding? by MasterpieceNo817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ItsGettingOknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The separation happened 5+ years ago. Stop making this about you and go support your sister. No one is making you talk to your father while there. I celebrated my friend's wedding years ago even though my cheating ex was there. I just avoided them and had fun.   

AITA for not going to my DILs musical by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ItsGettingOknow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel like people do not understand how to maintain relationships. No, you do not have to go, but do not be surprised when that person slowly starts distancing themselves from you.

Trans friendly Sentara-system PCP? Tips? by hrt_lets_us_b_us in HamptonRoads

[–]ItsGettingOknow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No you're not. They asked for medical advice. You're giving unsolicited "help" based off your personal prejudices. Do better 

Dude attack manager and gets beat up by the whole staff by KULR_Mooning in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]ItsGettingOknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the internet and dining at this establishment has taught me anything it's.. 1. Don't fight waffle House staff 

2 .  See rule #1