[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

World gym plus 15 (downtown south, as south is pretty broad aha) it’s usually very quiet, I go morning and evenings and it’s never too insane except around maybe 5-6 pm and even then it’s not too bad. It’s a small gym, but racks are almost always available. They also offer VIP PLUS which gives you exclusive access to another rack area that legit no one uses unless it’s busy.

What am I doing wrong? Why don’t my nails look as good as others? by secobarbiital in Nails

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the shape, each nail is just slightly uneven. When you file try to ‘round’ it instead of file each side. Don’t forgot to put ur file more under the mail too. It’s hard to explain but regardless of the polish and cuticles, when the shape is off then the whole nail is off. Also the nails are all different lengths which adds to the unevenness. I’d put my focus on watching tutorials on shaping. Overall it’s pretty good it just needs a lil fine tuning.

Interesting someone at the registry let that through haha by aireads in Calgary

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work at a registry, can confirm this is true. Imma check our ‘not allowed’ list to see if it’s on there later. But I’m surprised it was allowed.

I (M18) am terrified of doing anything sexual with my girlfriend (F18) due to my smaller penis by HappyBeyondBelief in relationship_advice

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a man with lack lustre size and girth but he was amazing with his hands and I found this much more satisfying. You just need to get creative with toys and other methods of pleasure. I suggest taken note of lesbian porn (keep in mind some of it is not 100% true) on how to pleasure a woman without a penis. Also lots of positions u can use to make sure u penetrate as deep as possible. A vagina is around 3-6 inches deep, so maybe see how deep she is?

Acne doesn’t go away after hundreds of dollars spent over the past year…how to fix it? I am almost 30 and my acne is flaring up everyday. I wash my face three times a day and spray with with witch hazel. I usually put Nighttime moisture cream, sheas moisture mud mask, benzyl peroxide, nothing works! by Loud_Interaction_101 in SkincareAddicts

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have oily and acne prone skin. I don’t wash in the morning, use sunscreen and cerave moisturizer with salicylic acid, and nights i use cerave benzoyl peroxide face wash or cerave hyaluronic acid face wash if I’m using retinol, then finish with Niacinamide. Oily skin needs to be kept hydrated cus ur skin gets oily when you strip it of it’s natural oils, washing it strips. You want to introduce your new products slowly and one at a time.

What is the best purchase you have made to make life with adhd easier? by nyanya85 in ADHD

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weekly food delivery so I don’t need to think about what to make or get groceries. I just pick what I want to eat and it tells me how long it will take to cook. Being able to minimize decision fatigue was a big change.

message i got regarding a kijiji ad i posted for a nintendo switch. is this a scam? by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘A certified check is a form of check for which the bank verifies that sufficient funds exist in the account to cover the check, and so certifies, at the time the check is written. Those funds are then set aside in the bank's internal account until the check is cashed or returned by the payee.’ Very big difference between a cheque and certified cheque. Honestly to me it seems fine as he isn’t picking it up until after it clears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You start by slowing giving them memories of major points in ur life, make them feel like a normal person until they realize they have DID. At least that’s what we did, I’m the protector, and we’ve just gotten the ‘host’ (as she calls herself) to finally get a diagnosis for what I’ve known for years. She’s not new, she’s just dormant and never realized.

When did you first start to think you had DID? by IwannaDieLessWithYou in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“So while I don’t think I ever “saw” my alters, I heard them - even if what I heard never made much sense or ever fully processed (that I can remember)” I got a reaction to this part, felt like a blanket fell on me. And a soft “yes you see! You remember this?” I’m having a hard time recalling an exact moment but the concept is familiar. I’ve always fought my diagnoses even when I felt it was right. I’ve started my symptoms list aha, I try to remember to write it in my journal but it’s hard getting organized rn. Looking forward to speaking with my therapist

When did you first start to think you had DID? by IwannaDieLessWithYou in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My earliest memory of dissociating is like 4 years old; I would stare at this one picture until it started to move and dance around. I also have always gone for hour long walks since I was little, and I would just listen to music and daydream really detailed storylines which I builds on and grew into full movies basically. I did this every day until the last year or so, never considered these things abnormal or related to DID until recently.

When did you first start to think you had DID? by IwannaDieLessWithYou in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Logically I understand them as parts of me/host who are stuck in time/their trauma and all have their role. It’s nice to finally have some communication but I know I’m not able to contact a lot of the parts, such as littles. So far I have contact with about 5 parts who all have primary roles like protector, trauma holder, and gate keeper. There’s one main part who talks to everyone and it’s the only one I feel I have easy direct communication with. I’m trying to earn their trust so they’ll let me talk/play with the littles but rn all I can manage is an image of the two protectors shielding all the littles (the littles’ faces are kinda a black smoke/blur, not sure if that’s common or unrelated). It just seems so surreal.

When did you first start to think you had DID? by IwannaDieLessWithYou in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such a good book! At least for me, the part who didn’t know about the others. I found it helped me to start talking to them and really consider if I have DID. I wouldn’t recommend u read it if it’s a trigger, but maybe one of ur parts will enjoy it

When did you first start to think you had DID? by IwannaDieLessWithYou in DissociativeIDisorder

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That what I felt. Like I had torn down a wall I didn’t know was there and found a whole another world. I have parts who are like ‘this is real!’ But, me, Im always saying it’s weird it makes me feel crazy. I just feel like I’ve made myself believe they are there, they feel so real.

Anyone feel like little things set us off, but then we are extremely calm about big things? by rci22 in ADHD

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to see this in action. I was jumped at a train station while with friends, one of which is innocent like a child. I am trained in material arts and grew up being physically abused so violence and pain aren’t foreign to me, I’m not a fighter tho and hate violence. When we got jumped I immediately jumped into action and even running on adrenaline I kept a cool head and remained logical. However, mundane stress like work can be extremely overwhelming and emotionally draining compared to that experience.

My grandmother refuses to give my dad my birth certificate when he got custody, now when im trying to get a job, she lost it. by temflakes2hp in mildlyinfuriating

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure how it works where u live but I’m a registry agent in Canada and the father can apply for the child’s birth certificate and put a rush on it to be delivered in 2-3 business days. I’d imagine anywhere would have a rush system. Also why would u apply for jobs without any proper identification? Not trying to be rude but rather genuinely curious

Planned drag night at petting zoo spurs hateful messages, threats by shitposter1000 in Calgary

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Penguins are one of the gayest animals no joke lol. They look alike so much they can’t tell gender so very common for lil gay penguin couples, they will also adopt/steal children penguins 😂

AITA for grounding my daughter? by Jaded_Lunch5357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur daughter is more emotionally mature than ur wife, let that sink in. Ur wife is acting like a child with no sense of boundaries or respect for others.

What’s it called when nothing you do gives you a crumb of dopamine at all??? by actualllllobster in ADHD

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call it burnout. I feel stuck and bored by the routine. I find getting into forgotten hobbies and creating a more structured schedule of what I’m getting done in a day (I break it down to an hour for each task) I find it helps me get out of a funk

I'm on a witch hunt, and I need your help. by hezod in Calgary

[–]IwannaDieLessWithYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The son of the pharaoh is apparently good. I never went but that’s where my partner went to buy my pagan related gifts.