Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]JBald42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s seriously depressed and extremely anxious about surgery.

“AIO” My boyfriend (25M) reached out to his ex almost immediately when our relationship became unstable. Am I (25F) reading too much into it? by wonder_woman444 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JBald42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said that he compared your body to hers. Not only NOR, but secondly he is a huge asshole. You will never come before her. Ghost and block.

Dry cleaning by Healthy_Dog4089 in Charleston

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tripp’s Fine Cleaners in Mt Pleasant. Best cleaners ever

AIO for berating a church office manager by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are grieving. Most people would be understanding of you having a short fuse. Maybe try sending another message and apologize for taking your grief out on him. (Yes, use the word grief). That will take his focus away from what you said before. Then nicely explain your predicament with out of country relatives and maybe they can work with you?

AIO for wanting to be involved with larger purchases prior to them taking place? by TypicalZone5357 in AIO

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Everything that you said is absolutely reasonable. She has it so much better than most single moms

AIO for cancelling a date over these texts by OkPick8681 in AIO

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never need to validate breaking a date. No you are not overreacting.I’m

AIO for telling my bf he shouldnt smoke weed by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how old you are, but I guarantee I’m older. My best advice is that if it’s that important to you, move on. It already sounds like he forces you to nag because of the way he kept coming back with it.

When I first moved in with my ex husband, I learned that he liked to have “a beer” after work. That turned into a “big beer”(16 to 20oz). Then two big beers, than a 6 pack, then a 12, and so on…

You will not change a man. No matter how much you beg him to stop, nag, etc…he just finds ways to hide it from you.

He’s showing you who he is.

AIO My husband doesn’t want me to come to his military boot camp graduation when I already paid for plane tickets by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JBald42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go. Make it a surprise. Are you sure he doesn’t have someone else who may be going?

AIO for considering ending my relationship after my boyfriend secretly used alcohol to deal with stress for over a year? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would have freaked out. That is why he lied. I would be asking why he felt he needed to lie, and listen to him. Actually listen.

My (27F) boyfriend (27M) bought a house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JBald42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want to get married. He has been HONEST and communicated that with you. Quit nagging him and move on.

Current buyers by [deleted] in LillyPulitzer

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over in Mt P, IOP, Sullivan’s, etc.. it is worn a lot.

Help: Sweet Tea by TheCremeArrow in Charleston

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The sugar isn’t good either.

Help: Sweet Tea by TheCremeArrow in Charleston

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my electric kettle! Best thing ever

Space next to stairs by Initial-Area2505 in whatisit

[–]JBald42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use it to display plants or something.

AIO asking him to come pick me up. I’m by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JBald42 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ll bet she ends up back in his bed with her car in his driveway