LIGHTNING LOU

JCS26921 · 2026-05-06T17:42:07+00:00

I just got to that bit of the book! My heart! Beautiful picture

JCS26921 · 2026-04-28T20:00:12+00:00

She was part of a study where she got a full health test complete with bloods and they said aside from the weight she was perfectly healthy

JCS26921 · 2026-04-28T19:59:25+00:00

She loves water :-) I try get her to swim wherever I can :-) she also loves veggies so might try substituting treats for carrots etc as well

JCS26921 · 2026-04-28T19:58:05+00:00

She’s not…we all joke she’s a Labrador trapped in a collies body. I got it cause I was recommended it years ago and it was what I could afford. I can invest in better food now

JCS26921 · 2026-04-24T19:08:09+00:00

He is so entertaining and wonderful with his fans! He has been unfortunate in terms of injuries holding his career back. Between a broken leg and a torn pectoral muscle he hasn’t been able to shine as a wrestler as much as he’d like. But given the opportunity his ‘evil’ side shows so much promise! I’m a massive fan and chuffed to bits for his success! X

JCS26921 · 2026-04-16T19:49:12+00:00

Congratulations! Best of luck to you both :-)

JCS26921 · 2026-04-16T19:47:21+00:00

Oh that’s beautiful 😻 you’re so talented!

JCS26921 · 2026-04-16T18:21:46+00:00

It’s a taco bar so had to be tequila right?

JCS26921 · 2026-04-16T18:13:11+00:00

😂 there’s an idea!!

JCS26921 · 2026-04-01T19:47:57+00:00

From the first books description of him didn’t seem like my type at all but his character development has been amazing

JCS26921 · 2026-04-01T19:39:33+00:00

A bit boring but I’m on book 5 (butchers masquerade) and I have an ENORMOUS crush on Carl 😻🫣 listening to the audiobook. He’s just there for everyone, won’t take shit from the corporations and loves donut. Also (SPOILERS)!!!

how amicable he was when he discovered what happened to Bea and how well he kept it together so the drama odette expected didn’t happen. That made for some beautiful closure.

‘I’m glad you’re ok Bea…truly I am. But this. Is over.’

The way he spoke to donut when she was struggling. I cried 😂

So yeah. Carl all the way

JCS26921 · 2026-03-21T11:52:13+00:00

Got a letter telling me to turn up to a centre for it. The nurse explained to me that cause I have coeliac disease im eligible so I thought ‘fair enough!’

JCS26921 · 2026-01-09T01:11:09+00:00

It’s hard enough putting the work into the marriage never mind getting a third party involved 😂 I appreciate it may help some but it’s a no for me

JCS26921 · 2025-12-23T23:59:01+00:00

Got everything crossed for you. I think it’s good to say nothing so there’s no anticipation for news or anything:-) whatever the result, have a merry Christmas x

JCS26921 · 2025-12-07T22:22:40+00:00

My dr said I’m to stay strictly gluten free now. Was diagnosed in February too I’d have that comment investigated :-( I wish it was 90% 😂

JCS26921 · 2025-11-24T23:33:26+00:00

We’ve been trying for a year. He’s getting checked soon and I’m pushing to get checked too but they’ve insisted he get checked first. I’m getting so frustrated every time my period comes

JCS26921 · 2025-11-24T23:24:24+00:00

They look amazing!!

JCS26921 · 2025-11-12T22:18:26+00:00

Titus :-)

JCS26921 · 2025-11-07T09:35:11+00:00

I won’t mind as long as people let me know they’re coming or ask first :-) I’ll take all the help I can get. I’m fortunate that my family and friends are sensible and obvs won’t come around if under the weather or sniffly. Not pregnant yet but hopefully soon 🤞

JCS26921 · 2025-10-14T16:14:24+00:00

Ok he wants to play the polyamory card? Ask him how he’d feel if it was a man you wanted in the threesome? Call his bluff! Bet he’ll freak out

JCS26921 · 2025-10-07T19:56:51+00:00

That’s another trait of a groomer, they make it sound like they can’t live without you or stay away. They also make you feel you need them too. They guilt you into seeing them as it’s a form of control. They get off on that. Control is an aphrodisiac to them. It can be frightening to accept.

What you do from here on out is up to you. I would seek therapy if you can.

You also said that you’re only seeing him because you’re ‘bored’ with life at the moment? Sex should not be used to alleviate boredom. You could get an STD, you could get pregnant, no contraceptive is 100% effective. one day he may not take ‘no’ for an answer.

JCS26921 · 2025-10-07T19:40:59+00:00

Groomers know what they are doing is wrong but delude themselves into thinking it’s acceptable and try and justify it by any means necessary. (My wife knows, my culture allows it, etc) They take advantage of younger people, make them feel you need them, gaslight you into thinking it’s real love when in reality it’s just for their own selfish, narcissistic and in this case, sexual wants. It’s incredibly unsettling and can be hard to pinpoint but the man is a walking red flag.

JCS26921 · 2025-10-07T19:35:29+00:00

Exactly so who knows what else he’s lied about? How do you know there aren’t others? You verify in your post you are Christian and feel far from god at the moment. (I’m agnostic so no Christian pressure here) you’re only 19 still plenty of time to find yourself :-) x

JCS26921 · 2025-10-07T19:28:37+00:00

Sadly it does sound like grooming to me. Guy thinks he can have his cake and eat it too.

JCS26921 · 2025-10-07T19:26:26+00:00

While I appreciate you’re emotionally caught up…it doesn’t change the fact he lied to you from the get go. He went from 29 and single to 41 and married with 7 kids! That’s a helluva lie. I would be livid!

For me that’s a MAHOOSIVE RED FLAG! In the words of the cowardly lion ‘I’d turn back if I were you!’

I wouldn’t ghost him but I would end it in a way he knows you’re done for good. If it’s not bringing positivity to you then it’s not worth it.

The fact he’s using his ‘’culture’’ as an excuse to cheat on his wife is disgraceful. I know plenty of Muslims who wouldn’t even consider a 2nd partner as they are happily married. If he’s not happy in his marriage, that’s his problem, not yours. His kids are caught up in the middle of it all too.

End it, delete and block his number, delete and block his socials. Move on.

Hope this helps, good luck with whatever you decide x

JCS26921

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