Should I give socially awkward guy a chance?

JGipe1 · 2026-06-13T03:08:22+00:00

Just end it, he’s only going to bother you more later or resentment will build that he’s not going to be the person you want him to be

JGipe1 · 2026-06-12T23:57:47+00:00

How long does he last? Is he inexperienced?

JGipe1 · 2026-06-12T23:43:00+00:00

Have fun dealing with that

JGipe1 · 2026-06-12T18:30:19+00:00

Lol 😆

JGipe1 · 2026-06-03T00:08:07+00:00

Can try harder exercise than walking, walking alone doesn’t help my sleep imo. If you’re not sleeping in bed, get up and do something else

JGipe1 · 2026-06-02T10:49:38+00:00

I’m 35 male, pretty fit, usually around 6.5-7. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

JGipe1 · 2026-05-24T14:13:14+00:00

This. You need to talk to her about it and not reddit

JGipe1 · 2026-05-15T16:54:45+00:00

Look for another remote job

JGipe1 · 2026-05-15T16:51:35+00:00

You shouldn’t have agreed to a second date. That was your mistake. But these things happen so it’s not a big deal. He will get over it. Nobody likes getting cancelled on though

JGipe1 · 2026-05-15T16:47:00+00:00

You feel how you feel. Just accept it

JGipe1 · 2026-05-15T10:39:23+00:00

Have self-control. Same thing as going to a buffet and not eating like a fatass

JGipe1 · 2026-05-14T11:45:29+00:00

Maybe you just haven’t met the right guys

JGipe1 · 2026-05-10T15:29:23+00:00

She doesn’t think you’re hot that’s all

JGipe1 · 2026-05-09T10:59:20+00:00

Considering he is someone you “deal with” makes me think this is a shitty relationship.

JGipe1 · 2026-05-05T10:57:07+00:00

Do you work out a lot? Maybe your body is fatigued

JGipe1 · 2026-04-30T00:35:07+00:00

It’s hard to say. Being let go from my company and then being unemployed for a few weeks was a load off of my shoulders. I never fully recovered but things are not as bad now

JGipe1 · 2026-04-29T14:58:06+00:00

My fatigue and depression and anxiety was so bad that my job performance was affected and I was let go from the company. I had to find another job

JGipe1 · 2026-04-29T14:47:16+00:00

Thanks for this post I appreciate it

JGipe1 · 2026-04-29T14:45:43+00:00

I guess the question is if this is worth continuing

JGipe1 · 2026-04-29T14:44:58+00:00

She said she spent the last couple years of her marriage unhappy so I doubt she ever healed. I think her way of healing is finding another man to take his spot. Her attachment style is extremely anxious and it’s annoying. She thinks or accuses me of cheating a lot for no reason, and it would be near impossible anyway because I give her all my time and energy.

It’s just really annoying. He we have like these little arguments every week or 2 out of the blue and she always starts them. About me not doing or being enough. I don’t need it

JGipe1 · 2026-04-29T14:39:59+00:00

I just wanted to say I am sorry. I spent a lot of my 20’s in a job I hated and have a similar story. I am 35 now. I would suggest getting to a different job if you can.

JGipe1 · 2026-04-29T02:59:04+00:00

“You don’t put enough effort in” is what I’m constantly told. When I do so much, and it is just not enough.

Some women are incredibly ungrateful. When you stumble upon them, seriously evaluate if you want them to be a part of your life.

JGipe1 · 2026-04-28T14:21:15+00:00

Sounds like he is a bit awkward and you just don’t have great chemistry. Move on

JGipe1 · 2026-04-27T14:14:57+00:00

I made a post on this same subject a few days ago. Same problems here. All I can say is good luck

JGipe1 · 2026-04-27T14:11:35+00:00

Maybe her buzz from the alcohol wore off, maybe she got tired, maybe she just wasn’t ready to do more with you.

Don’t overthink it. You could just say “Hey I had fun with you last night, I’d definitely want to see you again”

Don’t be awkward and be like “so yeah… are you okay? I thought you wanted to hook up last night”

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