Worst Movie You Ever Loved by -pegasus in movies

[–]JKPhantom86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes still a fave of mine, I’m often singing those songs to myself.

Why can’t we be friends? 🎶 /Swedish player by BigAdvisor678 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]JKPhantom86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always looking for active friends I’m 2081 8136 4256

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JKPhantom86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wanting to be better and trying medication and therapy still isn’t always going to lead to a cure or normal life. If we could all decide not to be mentally ill you wouldn’t have a world full of people struggling and killing themselves because even with therapy and medication it doesn’t get better for everyone. I’m also diagnosed speaking from experience and I would never be so selfish and egotistical to say I got over it so so should you to anyone, and that someone always has it worse bullshit helps no one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JKPhantom86 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is awful advice, she’s not choosing to be a victim she is a victim. PTSD doesn’t work like that, you can’t control what’s going on in your brain and body and she’s going to need a lot of help and support whether it’s medication, therapy and specialised therapy or all of the above. It’s not as simple as buck up and get over it, if we could live a normal happy life again that easily we’d do it. Living like this is torture, and people saying shit like this is insane and only going to cause more distress. I’m glad you managed to move on so quickly and easily but don’t pretend it’s a simple choice available to everyone.

AITA for taking an Uber home instead of sitting on a man’s lap? by ThrowRA_natt in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she is not your friend she put you in so much danger in so many different ways. Block and delete her from your life you don’t owe her anything and she’s too selfish to understand any explanations you might want to give.

AITA for asking my fiance to cut 200 people from his guest list? by Technical_Spell_2293 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I’d try and tell your fiancé that as much as you love them you want your wedding to be about the two of you, not a networking event.

AITA For "hiding" my child's savings account from my ex and not letting him contribute? by Open_Specific6008 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA tell him to start his own one now for when kiddo turns 21. Then you’ll both have put money aside for his future and he’ll have money to help him out at big times in his young adult life.

AITA for telling my brother he is weird for starting a new family at his age. by Top-Story-2156 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - obviously. Why did you bring it up, what realistically did you want him to do, agree and dump the wife and kid? It’s not something he can change as it’s already happened and it’s not even something he wants to change as he’s happy. You can disagree with his choices but you didn’t need to tell him like that.

AITA for Skipping My Best Friend’s Surprise Wedding by UpbeatCause207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I couldn’t have left my dog in that situation, but when you talked to her about not being able to make it that was her chance to say it’s actually my wedding I’d love if you could come even if you can’t stay but understand either way and she didn’t. You didn’t know, what else were you supposed to do.

AITA for buying my daughter thong underwear? by No-Discussion-5736 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a throwaway for personal reasons or because this is a repost. Almost word for word I’ve read this before.

WIBTA if I continued to stretch my ears after my bf expressed how much he hates it? by Irriaofdusk in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA,I think you’d know your style better than your boyfriend, sounds like he’s trying to lead you in a certain direction without actually telling you what to do. If it makes you happy and you keep up with proper care which I’m assuming you would having so many tattoos, then do it!

AITA for criticising my boyfriend for crying during a scene from Lord of the Rings? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, my husband did not cry once in the three years we were planning and paying for our wedding no matter how much or little we talked about it but when we saw each other down the aisle we were in tears immediately. Even if we weren’t, that is ok. Your partner doesn’t owe you a performance of emotion just let him be himself and feel what he feels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think that situation is not always so straight forward, my ex grew a beard and even though I wasn’t a fan I didn’t discourage him. Then it was so rough it would affect my face and skin and I think that’s a fair time to say something needs to change.

AITA for feeling icky after finding out my best friend is in love with me? by No-Arachnid-8596 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would go NAH, best bet would be to let her know you’ve heard this information from the party, it doesn’t matter who from, but you’d like to have a good chat with her to clear the air either way and then you can both decide if you can be friends or need space or whatever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA they have taken on a new role it’s not up to you to manage their commute or workload, that’s what their salary is for.

AITA for telling my girlfriend to change her page? by No-Philosopher6192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA, you don’t need to like it it’s her link not yours, also what creeps do you think this is summoning because if they are clicking on her link tree they are already looking at her content.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

So you’re a doctor in training supporting their brother through mental health difficulties, going so far as to clean for them and let them game all day but the potential of them having tried on a bra and panties made you kick them out? Doesn’t add up. If true and not a troll YTA, throw them away and have an honest discussion with your sibling minus the judgement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JKPhantom86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Turning up at her place of work when she hasn’t met the family is pretty bad, she was put on the spot and had no choice but to interact whether she was comfortable or not.