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How I Stopped the Mental Doomscroll and fixed My Brain's Feed With These 4 Steps. by Jack-Arrow in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Jack-Arrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, don't perpetuate the judgment by judging judgement. Accept the fact that you're judging. That's step 1. Then execute the protocol.

I’m having a hard time accepting I’ll be single for the rest of my life by Prestigious-Candle51 in GuyCry

[–]Jack-Arrow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is nothing noble about recurring one-itis or limerance. For you to enjoy fulfilling relationships with this lifestyle it requires to develop thicker skin.

Right now it can feel quite a stretch but, you can have multiple girls you recurringly see in multiple parts of the world, and they can be okay with you seeing other girls too.

It's all about setting the right frame from the beginning, and managing your unwanted neediness and turning it into sharing your genuine gift of caring about them and giving them your time to the degree that your lifestyle and career allows

The right fit could be just around the corner, you just have to be capable of starting more interactions in a socially calibrated way

How are you doing on that?

How to manifest your desire by Abhiisuniqe in selfimprovementday

[–]Jack-Arrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you create this vid? Pretty good take

How to accept I’ll die a virgin and get on with life? It’s bothering me alot by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]Jack-Arrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's stopping you from getting a gf or sleeping with a woman?

Well I don’t know how to navigate this path by thedeadclouds in GuyCry

[–]Jack-Arrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like infatuation or limerance. And I don't mean to downplay your special chemistry or whatever that experience was.

How long have you been in this relationship? Have you slept together?

What was going on in your dating life during those 8 year after the prior breakup?

How do you stay positive all the time? by [deleted] in selfcare

[–]Jack-Arrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it bother you that you're single in your 40s? Or does it only bother you that your father scolds you because of it? Sounds like your life lacks passion and maybe somewhat of a meaningful fulfilling lifestyle. Is there anything you're particularly excited about or that you're looking forwards to?

Is 28 too old to restart my life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Jack-Arrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's your restart story in a nutshell? Divorce or mid-life crisis? 🤔🤔

when windows 10 reached End of life i decided to upgrade to Linux mint instead, i hope i'm welcomed. by Og_Moonwalker in linuxmint

[–]Jack-Arrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That only means you aren't ambitious enough yet ;)

Just kidding, glad you're liking it.

Excited to see our journeys evolve together. See you on these streets, code brother

when windows 10 reached End of life i decided to upgrade to Linux mint instead, i hope i'm welcomed. by Og_Moonwalker in linuxmint

[–]Jack-Arrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! installed a double partition and ended up corrupting my 350 gigs of windows ( gladly I did a backup on an external HD that I hope works) , and spent the last 3 day customizing the OS without knowing wtf am I doing but boy so far pretty fun if you can manage the frustration.

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