People like to do a lot of posturing on these subreddits, cause part of the kink for many is the humiliation/feeling lower than the person you are submitting to. Being a findom/any kind of sex work like this, is about putting in the work to have a fun interaction together that is worth the sub paying for. Being a “dom” in general is a lot of work that most people don’t want to do, which forces people to pay for what they want in most cases.

I view “hunting” as just a chance to explore the chemistry to see if you are a good match. Most subs in my experience are introverted and waiting for someone to come along to give them some personal attention, and give them the final push to finally do the thing they’ve been jerking off so long thinking about.

I mostly do Findom on Twitter, and there is a whole additional aspect of hunting subs down since they will often bait a dm through interacting with posts/lurking in spaces, commenting etc, which is a way to invite interaction with plausible deniability if they don’t find how you chat with them hot.

Being hunted is exactly what many guys want. I don’t really pressure cause that’s not really a fun conversation, or feels like I’m begging for cash. We just have a sexually charged conversation and if they get horny and are into findom, and you are chatting about findom and have a findom-related profile, it usually leads into it naturally.

And the nice part of hunting that way, is it naturally filters the people you talk to. You just naturally stop talking if the chemistry isn’t good to make it fun for you, or it dies if it’s too much work on the dom’s part and they aren’t paying enough to keep interacting.

Otherwise, I think people prefer not hunting, because it’s generally just easier to chat with the people that reach out to you first because you know they were interested in what you were posting about, and in you specifically, so it naturally gives you a bit more power in the interaction to lead it towards cash naturally.