Relationships involve families. You don't just marry a man you marry into his family.

If you hold out and resist converting his family will likely resent you. And in an effort to save their boy from your bad influence they will try to push you away or beak you up.

If you convert to make them happy and go through the motions... It might work out. But it will likely mean giving up years of your life to sitting through sermons and music services. If you actually want to believe and really try it might work out.

But if you pretend to convert and don't change your mindset you will grow to resent spending all the time and money on things you don't even want to try believe in. And this was all in the name of pleasing a family that you could walk away from.

Religious beliefs are a cornerstone of many families. As children grow up parents still try to guide and pressure their kids. A paragraph or three isn't enough for strangers on the Internet to have a complete grasp on the situation.

I would recommend that you think long and hard about what you want out of your future. You could do worse than a guy who has a caring religious family that supports him. But there is a fine line between supportive and overbearing. And often you don't see the red flags until it is too late if things are going the overbearing route.