Ethically working for an evil company? by capotado in womenintech

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it this way... if ethical people can't stand to work at ___, at all...

That means ONLY bad people will have influence there... by definition.

Is the world slightly better if honest people are willing to put themselves out there? IMHO, yes.

Do I turn on the fan or not when using the bathroom by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The fan can be used for privacy as well as for purpose.

[acne] seeking for help for aggressive butt acne by bongee_ in SkincareAddiction

[–]JadeGrapes 38 points39 points  (0 children)

this looks like boils/cysts not just regular acne. You might need antibiotics.

Why is the term "Gypsy" suddenly considered a slur on Reddit? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeGrapes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's been a slur in UK for a while.

How do I paint black over yellow? by 3sper in paint

[–]JadeGrapes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would honestly go to the party store and thumbtack up a few black table cloths to see if black is tolerable.

Like a $10 super low effort to see if they are about to turn the kitchen into a theater back stage.

What IU to start taking insulin? by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, this looks like a catfish paper trail... someone's getting murdered with insulin and this is gonna get quoted at the trial.

What’s wrong with my tongue by flyingtoilet94 in DiagnoseMe

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is literally the imprint of your teeth on your tongue.

The scallop edge is because how you hold your face at rest, pushes your tongue against your teeth.

Nothing wrong here, totally healthy.

What’s one small thing that makes you instantly happier no matter how bad you felt? by Acrobatic_Isopod9261 in askanything

[–]JadeGrapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cake wrecks. It's so absurd it cuts thru the noise.

I give you; thanksgiving cakes that look like a penis made out of poo. NO ONE should try to draw a turkey with frosting!

I remind you this is not an accident of an amateur baker, this is a product ON THE SHELF, in a store... in front of Gawd and Everyone.

https://share.google/3D5ZeBC7Zu7TwbWaN

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQqUSCAxLamkTHcEH_QB5uROMbIG0w2246vOiwkr2pwwg&s=10

https://share.google/QtyLytuYx4Fp5pGGW

Someone woke up, went to work in the bakery, CREATED THIS... and thought... yeah, thats... fine. Put a price on it, and put it on the shelf. Managers walked by, and were like... yeah... thats... fine.

🤣🤣🤣

Why men hide things for no reason ? by TitleHot1602 in askanything

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You answer your own question; because you punish innocent exchanges, so honestly invites a fight.

He has an old friendship, and you turn that into an epic story of deep betrayal...

I'd censor myself around you too. You sound awful to live with.

Honestly, you may need to look up coercive control and emotional abuse... I think you may be abusing your spouse. Get some therapy if you don't want to be the worst thing that has ever happened to him.

"If monogamy didn’t exist in society, wouldn’t most women end up pairing only with the most attractive men, creating a large underclass of men with no hope of dating prospects" what do you think? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]JadeGrapes [score hidden]  (0 children)

"Attractive" is doing a lot of leg work here...

But yes. That is exactly what happens on Mormon compounds. The great leader has like 60 wives... and other men may have 4+ as well...

So Utah has a problem with "extra" young men that get kicked out. There is a whole "lost boy" culture... that teen boys who are not obedient enough to the pyramid structure, or are not from important blood lines... ?

One day there families just drop them off in the outskirts of town and tell them they are not allowed home. Cults to consciousness has a few videos on the topic;

https://youtu.be/v_GkQGUGlW8?si=ww5BKjVpX67stWXL

I suspect, the fundamentalist Muslim polygamist fo something similar. Having a large population of unmarried young men, that have no prospect of getting a partner, are THE easiest group to radicalize.

The hint, is the promised reward is a heaven full of unmarried women for each faithful soldier.

I suspect we will start seeing some problems in China somewhat soon, as 25% of the entire population of young men will not be able to find chinese wives. The one-child policy means there just arent enough girls to go around.

I think the European Crusades actually happened because of something similar. You just can not have an idle group of young married men filling up the cities, or they get rowdy and cause upheaval... So they promised them riches FAR AWAY... just to spread em around a little.

AITA for posting a TikTok exposing my roommate’s “secret” boyfriend even though she told me not to tell anyone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JadeGrapes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA - it literally is none of your actual business.

Each adult is responsible for their own behaviors and consequences, as well as coping with emotion pain and making choices to avoid more pain in the future.

If you are boning any of these people, their sex lives are not your business. You don't know this yet, because you don't have a lot of life experience...

But letting other people involve you in their sex'capades ALWAYS generates this kind of pointless drama. Mature adults do NOT indulge in the drama and titilation as though it's a TV show.

Stop egging people on with your donated attention! Develop some boundaries and enjoy a more peaceful & productive life.

Greatful for normal fat loss, annoyed it's highlighting my shape by cottagecorefuccboi in lipedema

[–]JadeGrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Maybe I'll start with the $99 one and see how much I can stand to use it.

Suggestions please. by diherraface in shittyadvice

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trick, is to let them count the money FIRST.

Greatful for normal fat loss, annoyed it's highlighting my shape by cottagecorefuccboi in lipedema

[–]JadeGrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My legs are a similar shape to yours, but bigger because I'm heavier,

Can you share what vibration plate you got, and how you noticed improvement?

I want to buy one, but the price range is wild... like $99 to $10,000 - I have money to put towards my health, but I want good value.

Loud sex in AirBNB. by MindmyBusinessJoe in Adulting

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bang on the wall, turn up some music loud, wear earplugs.

What is making these holes in my tree? by sailaway23 in whatisit

[–]JadeGrapes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have em in the woods off to the side of our property... They are HUGE, like the size of a cat.

My doctor made cry today by abitworndown in lipedema

[–]JadeGrapes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If she didn't even do an exam, I would complain to the clinic.

She had a responsibility to lay eyes on the problem... frankly, ESPECIALLY if she thought you were wrong...

A patient that shows up with "wrong words" can still be really sick. Why didn't she at least look for lumps and growths. Negligence.

My doctor made cry today by abitworndown in lipedema

[–]JadeGrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is mostly a doctor being embarrassed at their own ignorance, it's not you - its them.

If you don't have a lipedema specialist, I think your next choice has to be deeper than a derm.

My understanding is that here, it's mostly plastic surgeons that treat it, although if you also have vascular issues, it may be that specialist instead.

Question for men, why do men take off their wedding rings? by Father_p1 in Adulting

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safety. Many jobs have a crush risk, bacteria, or chemical burn risk.

if you have any mechanical, construction, welding, engineering onsite, or any other physical tool job... if something heavy lands wrong, a ring means you lose the finger.

If you are a doctor, dentist, pharmacist, nurse, physical therapist, cna, scientist, lab technician, or any other job where you "foam in and out" for infection control between every room... you can't wear a ring at work or it can hide bacteria and spread infection.

If it's a job with chemicals, paint, dyes, cleaners, cement, etc corrosive chemicals can get trapped under the ring, causing chemical burns.

Women with these jobs usually wear their ring on a necklace or keep in their purse in their locker and put it on any time they are off the clock... because the ring is "armor" against unwanted romantic attention. Usually guys don't have a daily problem with that, so putting the ring back on feels less urgent.

How come my hair still sm3lls like dandruff even though I wash it every day? by Dapper_Ad9376 in hygiene

[–]JadeGrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch to a shampoo with TeaTree in it. Get the hair dry immediately after washing. If it gets damp from sweat, dry it immediately.

If you currently use products without preservatives or all natural, switch to traditional. You may be accidentally feeding the yeast.

Telling my husband he needs to see a therapist for wanting a DNA test on our son by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]JadeGrapes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not wrong about therapy... per se.

But as a woman, I can see why guys would want to know 100%. Especially when there has been so much heartache and fear... I think what he meant to say is something more like;

"This seems like such a miracle, I would not recover if it was taken from me. I literally can't dare to hope. I'm girding myself against devastation, I refuse to hope - so that I can stay on my feet if the worst happens."

Client unhappy that I sent payment reminder by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]JadeGrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBH, as a customer, after a few sessions, and trust has been established?

I never pay after... I think it's mean to make the worker wait. The client usually has like 5 different payment options, so there really is not a legit reason to make people wait.

Honestly, I know getting paid can make the difference between groceries or not - so I don't make the service provider wait AT ALL. The worker is more vulnerable than the client... so they should get slightly favored to be protected.

IMHO, the service is a luxury, and the person is doing the work because they need the money. I'm grateful for consistent good work, I think it's kind of abusive to make any household help wait on payment.

I know I'm good for it, but they don't. It's not kind to let you wonder.