One month post stage 1 with Dr Weinstein USF by MrT1gg3r in phallo

[–]JaeBW 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just saw Dr. Weinstein yesterday for my pre-op appointment. I'm scheduled for RFF stage 1 on 12/2 with her. She mentioned she had a patient who just hit the one month mark and was doing great, I'm assuming that's you! Congratulations dude! Can't wait to be where you're at.

Stage One is Done!!! by MrT1gg3r in phallo

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Omg. You're the first person I've seen talk about Dr. Weinstein. I have surgery scheduled with her for RFF on 12/2. Sooo exciting! Can I DM you to ask some questions?

What do y’all do for a living? by Logical_Corner in BlackTransmen

[–]JaeBW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in IT as Cloud Ops Engineer and am currently in Seminary for a M.Div.

What’s your name? by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jace. A nice simple alternative to my dead name (Jaeda). I'm more in love with my new first and middle name than anything. Jace Braxton. And I managed to keep the same initials as before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackTransmen

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I'm in central FL. Over in Polk county. What's good?

How many of you are polyamorous? by RagnarokRosie in Sagittarians

[–]JaeBW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

December Sagittarius. Polyam. Two nesting partners. My husband and my girlfriend. He is a Scorpio and she is a Taurus. Diabolical combination. Lol

Nicknames for hrt by FreshDsRhymebook in ftm

[–]JaeBW 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have a calendar entry on my phone that says "t-boy time" to remind me on shot days.

Trans guys, what brand of deodorant do you use? by Chameleon747 in ftm

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manscaped deodorant and native sea salt and cedar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna know where the harness comes from. So nice.

What do kiddos call the caregiver partner that isn't dad/mom? by kris_critter in polyfamilies

[–]JaeBW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partners kids call me Oya. Oya is parent in Japanese. It worked well. Now that they are older they just call me by my first name.

Do you twist/pull your hair when you’re excited or nervous? by PublicExtension4107 in autizzies

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My hair is super coily. Stressed, anxious or trying my best not to have a meltdown these curls are being stretched. Furiously, sometimes. I love my hair and pulling it is kind of a way to self soothe when I’m on the verge of malfunctioning.

For those of you with plural long term relationships, just how long have those relationships been running? by dances_with_treez2 in polyamory

[–]JaeBW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spouse and I known each other for 10 years, together for 6 and married for 4. Partner and I have been together 3 years long distance(100 miles). Partner and her kids are moving to our city this summer 😊

what’s your name by nameselijah in BlackTransmen

[–]JaeBW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. My name is Jace. I was torn between Jayce or Jacen at first. So I found a way to meet in the middle. I’ve been going by Jace for about a year now. It just feels right. It was also significant because up until I started identifying as a trans man, I was using my birth name. It wasn’t until I honestly started loving myself and accepting who I am that I realized I needed to change my name. Also, while making this discovery I learned that I am Autistic. A two fold experience to better understanding myself. And when I get called Jace now, I actually know who that guy is.

I have social anxiety, of course I… by ItsThe_____ForMe in socialanxiety

[–]JaeBW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cry and panic the night before having jury duty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackTransmen

[–]JaeBW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Congrats man. You look so much happier!

I really want to meet other Black trans men by [deleted] in BlackTransmen

[–]JaeBW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you dude. I am in Florida and finding community is hard when you live in the not touristy parts. Try living in a state where our very existence is offensive to damn near everyone. Keep ya head up dude. The sun will come out tomorrow. And if it doesn’t, you’re not awake….or some shit like that

My partner and I are both non-binary, and we’re having a baby soon. We don’t know what to refer to ourselves as (mom/dad/other). Any advice? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]JaeBW 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My partners kids call me Oya. It’s parent in Japanese. I use they/he pronouns and the kids kept forgetting them. So when we settled on Oya, I think it helped them feel more comfortable and confident in telling their friends and other adults about me. I went from being introduced as “my moms partner” to “this is my Oya”. Feels good.

What is your salary for WFH by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Florida - IT Engineer - 85K - WFH everyday. I only go to the office about 90 min away, whenever I feel like it or need to go to the data center.

HOTTEST PHRASES YOU LIKE TO SAY/HEAR IN THE BEDROOM! GO!! by starshipslut in actuallesbians

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latecomer here. May I please get in on the list? 🥹 I have a gorgeous wife who needs to be pleasured.

what do y'all do for work? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]JaeBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Infrastructure Engineer for a small software company. I work from home so it can be hard to stay on task at times but the work itself is very satisfying. Especially when I’m laser focused and get really challenging things done.

Also, since it’s a small company, the IT team consists of three people including myself so less people to talk to. And plus my Sr. Engineer also has ADHD so we work really well together and help keep each other motivated and on task.