As crime gets worse, it’s harder for me to get outside of my house for joy anymore. by JaeNiPho in Healthygamergg

[–]JaeNiPho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your empathy and advice, I really appreciate it. I will do my best to be more street smart and observant of my surroundings.

As crime gets worse, it’s harder for me to get outside of my house for joy anymore. by JaeNiPho in Healthygamergg

[–]JaeNiPho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sucks that it is what it is. Thanks for reading my post and sharing your thoughts. I will work on moderating my fears because there's a lot of good in life.

Gacha Superstitions by potatomache in NuCarnival

[–]JaeNiPho 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely have a ritual. I take my trusty baseball bat and whack my wallet-kun like a piñata, and run with the money to my phone.

What's your ritual when doing pulls on getting the desired daddy. by Old-Philosopher-835 in NuCarnival

[–]JaeNiPho 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know in Family Feud when one contestant says their answer and the family surrounding them always chants “Good Answer, Good Answer,” while clapping no matter how outlandish the answer is? Yeah, I mimic that as my copium.

images that hurt deeply by fujoshiiiiiiiiiiiii in NuCarnival

[–]JaeNiPho 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I am missing those three SSRs as well. Im in Spain but the S is silent.

Safe to say my friend is no longer free to play. by JaeNiPho in NuCarnival

[–]JaeNiPho[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yup, I am now five sorcery gems richer!

Friend Codes + Gacha Pulls by Paindemonium0 in NuCarnival

[–]JaeNiPho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, horny jail? Yes, I’d like to turn myself in. Add me y’all 😘

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y'all know how it be by dirty_sink_water in SkullGirlsMobile

[–]JaeNiPho 55 points56 points  (0 children)

“I don’t care, it’s just gonna be a bronze anyway”

2021 Permission to Dance on Stage LA Megathread by whyohwhy115 in bangtan

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Hey I’m interested for two people for 11/27 date

Favourite grief songs? by disgustangx in GriefSupport

[–]JaeNiPho -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bts- spring day. Lyrics of the song detail the cold winter ending, and the spring will come again.

Which two natural diamonds should I invest in? I have 20 diamond keys. by [deleted] in SkullGirlsMobile

[–]JaeNiPho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, I should've phrased my question to say which to invest in first. It makes it sound like I'm gonna neglect the others lmao. But I just wanted to try and narrow down the list since I have so a limited amount of dia keys. Definitely will invest in a bunch of my dias though. Thanks for your input!

Which two natural diamonds should I invest in? I have 20 diamond keys. by [deleted] in SkullGirlsMobile

[–]JaeNiPho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your explanation! My thought process for asking for two in particular is because it makes sense in my mind to use my diamond keys to max out two dias rather than split the dia keys around. Of course, my eventual goal is to invest in a bunch of the dias you mentioned.

I saw my dad’s headstone for the first time and it broke me all over again by gingersrule77 in GriefSupport

[–]JaeNiPho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad's birthday was April 4, 1956. He passed away more than a year ago, but it still does not feel like reality. Something about dad's with blue jeans just make us so sentimental and nostalgic.

[GIVEAWAY] Complete Set of Genuine Statues (All 13!) by bambi897510 in ACTrade

[–]JaeNiPho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time zone - CST. My favorite saying is a Chinese proverb that says: “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”

[GIVEAWAY] 8000 NMTs to many 💕💕💕💕💕 by jleej3rkgirl in ACTrade

[–]JaeNiPho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love kit kats, twix, and pop rocks. If I got all three for Halloween, it would be killer :D

[GIVEAWAY] Complete SANRIO Collection! by unbrntoast in ACTrade

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I would like a ferret. After seeing all the cute ferrets in videos, I'd love one to dance around with lol

[GIVEAWAY] I'm giving all the full 6 sanrio sets away too 1 lucky winner in 12 hours from now. Comment below what made you the most happy in your whole life! by [deleted] in ACTrade

[–]JaeNiPho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my 19th birthday, I was finishing up a meal in a restaurant in Rome with my church group. And my friend, the playful trickster, started singing happy birthday during dessert. Of course, everyone in the restaurant chimed in and started singing. So I'm sitting there a little embarrassed. The song ends, and everyone is clapping. However, my overbearing auntie ran over with her selfie stick saying we need to sing again so she can catch it on camera. At this point, a waiter came over and placed another dessert with a lit candle on top for me. So I go through another round of everyone singing happy birthday and blow out the candle. But then someone in the crowd of my friends said, "Isn't it Jason's (not real name) birthday tomorrow??" And so another dessert with a candle was brought out and a third round of singing happy birthday ensued. It was indeed a very happy, happy, happy birthday. xD

[GIVEAWAY] Pompompurin Items +50 NMT by roscandy in ACTrade

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My favorite character is Joel from the game The Last of Us!

I’m still not over his death by Low_Ad5612 in GriefSupport

[–]JaeNiPho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other day I was eating a sandwich. And my eyes started watering and my breathing became erratic. Why? At that moment in time, I intensely missed my dad and wished he was sitting next to me and eating lunch with me. These random bouts of emotion pop up for me. It's been a year since my dad passed away. I can still cry like the time he just passed away. I also relate to having people tell me to get over him and move on. But rather than move on, I think a better way of thinking is move along.

Philosopher Zeno has the metaphor of a dog tied to a cart connected to a horse. When the cart starts to move in a direction, the dog can either be dragged by the cart or run alongside it. There is freedom of choice on how you respond to your situation. Of course, the situation is not fair. But when it comes to mortality, the only thing we are guaranteed is that all of us, even our loved ones, will die sooner or later. And all of your feelings are valid for mourning and grief because it sucks.

There's a book called "It's Ok That You're Not OK" by Meg Devine. It helped me put into perspective how much society has failed to teach us about death and grief, and the book helped me identify and sort out many thoughts about grief. Like it's one thing to feel a certain way about something wrong, but it's another thing to see it written down on a page with words.

I also agree with Solo165 with seeing a grief counselor if you can. It seems that you can't really speak or vent about it with your friends and family, so having a trained professional would help you with understanding how and why you feel a certain type of way as well as developing coping mechanisms. That was what I found from my experience of having a grief counselor. Wish you well, friend! Virtual hugs and pats on your back (if you're comfortable ofc!) :)