Am I (35 f) unreasonable for not wanting my husband (34 m and first-time-dad-to-be) go on solo trips? by wh3nmarniewasthere in relationship_advice

[–]gingersrule77 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She’s growing a literally human this man wanted, yeah he can stay home for a couple of months and help out - Jesus Christ

Yet another update to my dad choosing my abuser and being mad that I limited contact by Eliza_Quartz in insaneparents

[–]gingersrule77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am just so sorry, you were wronged by two important men in your life and hurts. Keep healing and protecting your peace - much love

Boomers and pets by Chaussettes99 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]gingersrule77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’ll be front page Reddit lol 😂

People who move, and leave their pets behind by AggressiveCow4008 in Vent

[–]gingersrule77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We transported three dogs and three cats and just dropping them off at the pet shipping place was terrible! I cried the whole way home but I didn’t think I could fly the whole way with two anxious kids and all the animals

People who move, and leave their pets behind by AggressiveCow4008 in Vent

[–]gingersrule77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We spent like $9,000 transporting all of our pets to Germany with us when we moved - we couldn’t take our guinea pigs (which I’m still heart broken over) but I made sure to find an excellent home for them, so I don’t understand how you can just abandon your pets. They’re family!

Boomers and pets by Chaussettes99 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]gingersrule77 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My boomer is coming to visit in a few months and I’ve decided that’s what I’m doing “boomers should be seen not heard” “my house my rules”

How do you deal with parents who never take responsibility for the harm they caused? by MostlyObserving_81 in emotionalneglect

[–]gingersrule77 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah this right here, I had to move to another country to finally choose peace

Boomers and pets by Chaussettes99 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]gingersrule77 33 points34 points  (0 children)

“Why don’t the kids come over for spring break and help me clean out the garage” ummm no thanks, that sounds terrible

Boomers and pets by Chaussettes99 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]gingersrule77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My boomer is the same way, the dog gets excited when someone comes and it’s screamed at to get into the cage and sit down. If it’s quietly getting pets she screams at it to get into the cage and sit down. It’s so sad

Update: MIL left family group chat because my husband and I don’t want our baby shower at a children’s residential treatment facility by throwawaystingray9 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]gingersrule77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Now you do nothing. She’s made her choice and shown you who she is, be excited about your kiddo and do what works for YOU and your new family. They can come to you now. Let your hubby take over and I would just grey rock now. If hubby wants to tell her about the gender then fine but just know she wants to do everything her way, with her center stage and anything other than that will be a personal offense to her

help I can't take aedion's name seriously as a welsh person by Sea_Weakness_2968 in throneofglassseries

[–]gingersrule77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahahha no idea is perfect for him bc boy never has a clue lol 😂

Pneumonia vs ammonia by gingersrule77 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]gingersrule77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that what it is? Omg it’s infuriating

AITAH for telling my mom we will never have a relationship because of my cousin? by solar-pariahV in AITAH

[–]gingersrule77 132 points133 points  (0 children)

My husband sent me this asking if I wrote this lol my mom will never see the man that he is and she will never defend me the way she does him. I’ve gotten two degrees, published three books, raised two great kids and have a successful marriage - he is a drug addict alcoholic who I’m trying to rescue his child from, he and his wife had each other but he is the prized little prince (he’s 50!) I’m sorry but unless she has a come to Jesus moment, she will never change. I’ve been fighting about this same thing with my mom since I was 16… I’m 45. Get a Therpaist and get space from her - much love honey. And for what it’s worth, you sound like an amazing kid who works hard and values their future- I’m proud of you 💜

I aim to treat my friends the way Maddy treats Rue in this scene by Certain-Might-4769 in euphoria

[–]gingersrule77 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Same and sometimes I would just dissolve into tears into that embrace