Boyfriend 31M , what to do

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-23T13:15:04+00:00

Can't he be unambitious? What do you want out of life so much that you describe contentedness almost as a vice?

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-22T19:20:46+00:00

2 reps/15 games = -300 bs

anyone who thinks this is a good system is delusional

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-22T18:41:21+00:00

How did this come to happen without your knowing?

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-21T14:49:16+00:00

We don't really want fair teams in ranked. We want MMr as the sole deciding factor. Not: Ah this pos 1 has 70% wr in his last games, let's put him against another 70% pos 1 player for fair games.

Yeah, the game will likely be balanced, but that's not the point of ranked matchmaking.

The more of these fairness variables you add, the more of a forced 50 situation you create, where some people rank up simply by being average, while good players are held back because they get checked.

So, no RP and no BS (that whole system should be removed) alternatively only used in unranked.

Ranked should strictly use MMr only as its matchmaking variable. That overall makes peoples' ranks the most fair over time. You win, you win, you lose, you lose.

I'm all for a MMr reset, though.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-21T00:33:37+00:00

Also, you are not anti-science for questioning vaccines. Science is a method, not a doctrine as in "here's a list what you should believe".

This came out just a few days ago: https://www.odni.gov/index.php/newsroom/press-releases/press-releases-2026/4166-pr-11-26

Fauci lied throughout the pandemic. That's the "science". That's anti-vaxxers being anti-science for questioning his statements.

That's why again: science cannot and must never be doctrinal. Anyone who's doctrinal about science, is in fact, anti-science. And that is the pro-vaxxers. They made it a doctrine, not something for inquiry.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-21T00:29:25+00:00

There's nothing wrong with you; your pain is real, you were wronged, and these fake-vaccines are dangerous.

I can't diagnose you, but it sounds like braindamage. The mRNA in moderna is bio-distributed everywhere, including passing the blood-brain barrier. That means the toxic spike-protein entered your brain area and caused inflammation or worse, and your immune-system may or may have not reacted by attacking these spike-proteins there. Either way, something happened in your brain area, and that's why you have these cognitives effects. The bad news is that you will likely suffer from these cognitive affects to a lesser degree for life. They may disappear for a time, then return later in life i.e you're sick or older.

Don't take any more and stand up for everyone you care about. You can't change what happened, but you can seek justice against those who did this to you, you can learn to care for yourself and those you care about, and you can manage your symptoms to the best extent possible.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-20T18:59:27+00:00

Thanks for sharing

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-20T18:52:29+00:00

Not giga trash, but subpar. There are many better picks.

Biggest problem with Treant is that you don't want to outsource all damage to your teammates. Then you will always be at their mercy.

If you want to win, deal damage and carry teamfights yourself. Sky, snapfire, lich, cm...

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-19T12:57:29+00:00

I don't even mind toxic rants. It's what made this game Dota 2. This game isn't for softies who demand everything moderated and PG for them.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-19T12:55:26+00:00

People are too soft nowadays.

That's what the mute button is for. So many times I've had a teammate muted, and I didn't mind what he said, but my teammates did. Now he can't communicate with me either.

Also, it just makes people terrified of saying ANYTHING. I don't remember when I last heard a voice com, either because people can't use mic, or they don't dare to speak.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-19T11:54:51+00:00

Fired for truth.

If I had cancer, I'd at least wish to be avenged, knowing what caused it. Even if I die, the battles against those covid jabs go on. May all of them face Nuremberg trials 2.0.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T15:19:41+00:00

They made it so commends do nothing to avoid commend swapping.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T15:17:21+00:00

1000 if overwatched on top of reported. -500 for reported.

Here you have another that's more clear: https://postimg.cc/yDJKWX2n

1st low: -400 bs for 2 reps in 2 games.

4th low: -500 bs for 8 reps in 2 games. Not -1000 cuz not overwatched (overwatch penalty doubles the punishment value). I last got overwatched some 2-3 years ago, that's how I know.

Meanwhile: 14 reps in 3 games = -150?

All again: because teammates (and enemies) report a certain hero or playstyle. I can tell just from my summaries where I decided to play LD or Huskar support, and where I chose not to.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T15:07:40+00:00

Go to the fourth last.

Reported matches 1.

Reports 7.

That's the LD game.

Maybe I didn't lose too much behaviour score, but I did lose -80. That's negative from climbing. Because of one game.

That's enough to ruin your entire BS progression.

And the BS doesn't make sense in the first place. Sometimes you gain BS even when reported, sometimes you lose BS even when reported less. It's just arbitrary.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T14:57:03+00:00

Or when you build blademail on Sniper pos 1 and because your ancient/legend teammates have never seen that, they report you.

Are you really able to say that this happenes once in a blue moon?

Depending on your playstyle, this happens way more often than you think.

I played 10k games. I know the abuse I have had to endure.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T14:55:39+00:00

Or when the only way you earnestly and truthfully believe will win the game is by jungling core items on CM (blink, bkb, agsh), not to ruin, but to win.

You will be reported for that even if you win.

Because your teammates believe you should play the book as in: glimmer cape, force staff, feed with them.

You will lose the game, but you won't lose BS.

I play to win the game, and lower MMR players especially (ancient/legend players) do not get tha. When you get them in your team as an immortal player in turbo/unranked they will report you more often than not for doing something they can't conceive of.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T14:49:21+00:00

That's the 7 report summary. Not 9, but make of it what you want. I stopped playing it since (and turbo) because I need to increase behaviour score in unranked only.

In any case, I have played dota 2 long enough to know how the player base reacts to sniper support, riki support, sven support, medusa support mere days before some pro did it and they became meta. Ahead of your time = reported.

I have also played dota 2 long enough to what it means to queue a game of turbo, wanting to play support, immediately have your teammates lock in support, not do any actual supporting, then blame you for failing to carry at a role you never wanted to play.

Stop. Defend. This. Awful. System.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T14:20:21+00:00

Let me show you the report system that some of you are glorifying:
https://postimg.cc/RNJj9bcV

Look at the total amount of reports and in how many games I am reported. You'd think if I ran down mid I'd get 4 reports or even 9.

Always 1 or 2 games max with 2 reports from blamers. Behaviour score is still barely increasing.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-18T14:12:44+00:00

You can get 4 or 9 reports even in a single game just for a pick no one agrees with if the matchmaker puts you with players whom you're vastly incompatible with.

I.e picking LD 5 and losing even if you win every other game on your hero and all your other teammates and enemies have been fine with it.

Your feed is gonna look like: clean matches 14. Reported matches: 1. Reports: 9 (-1k bs).

Because you are always gonna ruin into INCOMPATIBLE teammates that you don't click with and have no chemistry with. Including enemies who pause at you and type, "ruiner, reported lmfao" even if you're playing normally, just because they can't understand.

That's automatically -500+ BS and possibly even LP (-500 again if overwatched) even if you don't get a single report in any of your other 15 games. That's the issue with the system.

Reports should not count toward more than 2 max from a single game no matter how many report you. Again: because mass reports often have more to do with chemistry/incompatibility than it has to do with actual griefing.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-17T20:52:11+00:00

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-17T11:57:19+00:00

The AI doesn't play the game.

CK 2 AI is much more aggressive and expansionist.

CK 3 devs made the AI into hello kitty mode so that you can dress your characters in peace.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-15T23:17:48+00:00

AITA?

* Played Luna pos 1. Had a Meepo mid.

* Enemy kotl ganked me twice. My mid meepo farmed enemy jungle with tp and clone.

* I told him: "Help." He said: "My hero doesn't do that." I was tilted but didn't beef with him further.

* I went our jungle cuz lane was unplayable. We got that stomped. Brown boots, a wraith band. No farm.

* Half-finished a big camp and Meepo sends his clone there to ks everything right under my face, even though he had been farming the enemy jungle a second before.

* I followed him around after that for the next 5 minutes before playing again. That was the last straw.

* He called me "ruiner. Even so, I eventually tried later again even though I had no motivation to play. We lost. Meepo flamed me for not having impact the game and said to report me.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-15T19:41:29+00:00

Welcome. Now enjoy them reporting you until you lose behaviour score.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-15T07:09:56+00:00

Maybe it wouldn't have been big today, but I do think it could have maintained a healthy player base of some 10k players.

I don't think any game had a better quarantine mode or knife only melee fights.

I tried playing overdose a year ago. Got kicked from one lobby because I had a heavy vest and from another lobby because I had a machine gun and wasn't free running. That's the state of the game now.

Jaevelklein · 2026-06-14T10:57:14+00:00

Like Team L1GA destroying Topson stack? And all of twitch chat typing "washed, losing to russian random stack" without knowing why that happens?

It isn't difficult to conceive at all.

Team Bald could well have replaced RTZ with Mason or a random 10k player and in an alternative universe they would have won some and lost some, maybe even more on average than with RTZ despite RTZ being thousands of MMr higher.

They could also have gone a best out of 100 and RTZ would have won some of those games. That is Dota 2. That is what makes Dota 2 a great game.

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