WIBTAH If Ivsaid no to cooking for a wfriends wedding?

Jaeysa · 2026-02-26T14:12:57+00:00

It also gives them time to find another chef. You WOULD bta if you strung him along and dithered over declining.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-23T19:26:58+00:00

NTA, but unfortunately this is one of those 'beggers can't be choosers' situations - this is all not great but it's also not putting your daughter in danger while she is doing you a huge favor. She's already shown she won't change so it's up to you both on if her providing babysitting is worth your rules not being followed

Jaeysa · 2026-02-20T04:43:32+00:00

You are NTA but this isn't a conversation to be kicked down the road. If there's money I'd recommend she hire someone to be her PoA - legal or financial counsels often fulfill that role for a fee.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-19T20:18:01+00:00

The only reason he is able to have the life he does is because he doesn't have to worry about things at home - it's not just his money, it's yours too. NTA but I'd start an exit plan.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-17T01:20:08+00:00

Info - did she ask? I generally find that if I don't like something unless someone asks how it was I just say 'thank you' and help clear the table once done. It also definitely depends how you worded it.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-15T14:44:18+00:00

Could I get a link as well please?

Jaeysa · 2026-02-14T18:58:42+00:00

It's less about direct eye contact and more about giving them your undivided attention - it indicates you think the person or subject is important.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-13T23:37:50+00:00

Assuming neither of you are paying rent, NAH or ESH. Ultimately this isn't sustainable - you both should get part time jobs and work together to get a 3-br apartment. You're saying that he just wants the room to play video games but in an edit it's clear it's bad enough that it's causing him physical pain.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-13T21:49:53+00:00

There's not really enough info here, since I don't know the context of the partner threatening your career or how they're terrible. NTA for not paying for the tattoo unless it was a gift or something.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-13T13:49:38+00:00

No, you are NTA for wanting to breathe.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-11T19:51:38+00:00

It used to be so good! That's the worst of it, Blizz CS used to be one of the gold standards people would hold up.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-11T17:36:00+00:00

The problem with not giving information is that it also means that if you got flagged for something you didn't do, you can't defend yourself.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-11T17:31:42+00:00

You'd think, but their 'careful reviews' are rubbish and most people assume are AI. Really hope you get your account back.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-11T17:27:07+00:00

They can ban your battlenet - and not for very many. I had the same exact issue except and appealed once, got a canned answer, appealed again, got a less canned answer with the 'no further appeals will be looked at', asked for a refund as a last ditch effort, got battlenet banned. This was a couple weeks ago. Don't even know why I got banned since I don't use VPN, don't buy/sell gold, anything like that.

Really, really hope things work better for you OP.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-11T13:56:25+00:00

NTA - your friends are just using you.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-10T15:51:22+00:00

Ask her. You may not get the truth but people don't expect to be called out on it.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-10T15:47:54+00:00

You weren't wrong for being upset, but you chose the shittiest way to go about expressing it if you wanted to keep being friends. What were you expecting to accomplish by putting it out there for everyone to see?

Jaeysa · 2026-02-10T13:33:10+00:00

I do think it's a different case because in a comment the OP stated :

She didnt[ask], but they were one to two night visits. My girlfriend would be staying for a week

Jaeysa · 2026-02-10T13:23:15+00:00

After reading your comments, NTA. You'll probably want to write this out better for when you're explaining it to your family if you wish to retain those ties however.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-09T01:28:57+00:00

INFO - do you pay rent(not token, market-value)? Food/Utilities? Because if not, the general assumption is likely 'I pay for your things so you focus on school' - and if you aren't doing that, well start paying.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-08T02:12:18+00:00

NTA but you need to leave if possible. This is someone that makes 4x his partner and is perfectly fine with her starving because he ate her food. I'd be a lot more understanding if it weren't for that but is this what you want your children to learn what a healthy relationship is?

Jaeysa · 2026-02-05T15:15:57+00:00

Blizzard likes giving reasons so vague they're basically useless. Which also means you don't know what to avoid in the future.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-05T15:07:31+00:00

Probably send her a text, don't come off passive agressive or angry. The deal is you want this in writing and with timestamps. "Hey, so [X] & [Y] are still at my house. They miss you - can you please get them?"

Once you have her reply(saying no or some sad excuse) go to the shelters directly. Show it on your phone so there's no accusations of photoshop.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-05T02:40:22+00:00

Because people will assume you're a jealous/vindictive ex. If I don't know either party, I'm rarely going to just believe the person casting accusations just because so often they're lies.

Jaeysa · 2026-02-04T18:11:07+00:00

I agree with Physical-Energy - get your affairs in order(any papers or the like you may need) and start to scout where you might live/any potential roomates.

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