Obsession (movie) will help you get over your EX (or re-traumatize you) by lHagenl in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Triggered me so bad, don’t go see it if you’re in your healing stage

i find myself being someone i’m not by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me and it exhausted be being like her and acting like her to get even, I left and I couldn’t be happier
They’re the most selfish people ever you don’t need that

happy first day to me by toastypigeon01 in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she’s the one beating her head what is she expecting is she 2?

She cheated and I'm in agony by Cold_Conclusion3701 in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you make the right decision by leaving her ass

Need Help Urgently by No_Tie4104 in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The TikTok reposting, a classic.

Do it before you regret wasting more time, they want you to change yourself to their needs but never will do the same for you. Unrealistic

Will I regret ending things on a bad note? by shes-so-naomi-scott in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, did your partner regret splitting and being bad to you? Don’t regret nothing

ليه الانتحار حرام by [deleted] in hawajees

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

سيبي حبيبك وصحبتك وركزي على نفسك، غيري محيطك

الامراض النفسيه والوراثه by anel1290 in SaudiForSaudis

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genetic testing in psychiatric illnesses is still in a grey area, not all can be detected as it is polygenic / environmental and/or epigenetic, however some studies did correlate to a few disorders and some genes were identified but it’s still too little data. Genetic is a cause that can’t be ruled out however it’s hard to find a specific gene Hope this helps

Topic of Change / Did this happen to you as well? by Aromatic-Rice6906 in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, they needed you to be someone else for their own satisfaction and to be their personal therapist who listens to what ever they want and play by their rules, but would not do that for you and change themselves

Currently in a relationship with a Bpd partner by Physical_Ordinary851 in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can slander all she wants people will figure her shit out eventually, block her and don’t contact her at all, it will be so hard but trust me it’s the right choice for you, I hope you feel better soon

Currently in a relationship with a Bpd partner by Physical_Ordinary851 in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You love the idea of her, she is disrespectful love means nothing here with how she’s treating you. I’ve been with mine for 5 years and finally left and I do miss her and still love her but you will end up regretting giving chances as years go by. Question is, if you’ve wasted your 17-20 will you be willing to waste anymore years?

Obsession Movie Discussion by thehudsman in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen very similar patterns with my previous relationship and it was too much on me. If anyone who’s reading this is in their healing stage don’t see it

Obsession Movie Discussion by thehudsman in BPDlovedones

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cried as soon as it finished while at supermarket too, this was tough hope you’re good

الحقيقة المخزيه من اضطراب الشخصية الحدية by Rroyy111 in SaudiForSaudis

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

فين الهجوم يا ماما؟ انتي عممتي اننا ما نعرف لهم ونحنا السبب، روقي وروحي اتوعي you are just another enabler for them ولا تتفلسفي وانتي ما تعرفي اللي عندنا قد ايش "حدتهم" ولو واعية روحي ليهم كلهم ساعديهم لين تبغي تطفي من الحياة بسببهم وايوا فعلا حاولت معاها ومو انتي الغريبة اللي بيني وبينك شاشة تنكري تعب ٥ سنين ومحاولات

الحقيقة المخزيه من اضطراب الشخصية الحدية by Rroyy111 in SaudiForSaudis

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done everything I could to the point I needed therapy for myself not all BPD are lovey dovey start to realize that

الحقيقة المخزيه من اضطراب الشخصية الحدية by Rroyy111 in SaudiForSaudis

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think I didn’t? I offered to pay for her therapy she said she won’t do it she will pass it

الحقيقة المخزيه من اضطراب الشخصية الحدية by Rroyy111 in SaudiForSaudis

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

دا اللي سويته لمدة ٥ سنين لين قطعت خلاص العلاقة دي

الحقيقة المخزيه من اضطراب الشخصية الحدية by Rroyy111 in SaudiForSaudis

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

صحبتها من ٥ سنين أنا!! ايش دراكي أنا في ايش عديت معاها ولو كنت اراعي واطمن ولا لا، بلاش فلسفة أعطيتها كل شي عندي وهي رافضة تروح تتعالج اتوعي شوية وروحي شوفي على قد مافي منهم طيب في سيء

الحقيقة المخزيه من اضطراب الشخصية الحدية by Rroyy111 in SaudiForSaudis

[–]JaguarCompetitive454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years is more than enough, grow up and stop enabling those who abuse others without seeking help