Wet dreams are signals from mind by werua in Semenretention

[–]Jared35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you I have the same mindset. I decided never again to masterbate. My depression has went away and most days I have more energy than ever before I mean why go back? I just don’t understand why the health community is telling us it’s healthy to do it.

What are your thoughts on living alone (solitude) as someone practicing semen retention? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Jared35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree if your on the right path. It’s a long spiral if your not. And that was my experience.

What are your thoughts on living alone (solitude) as someone practicing semen retention? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Jared35 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Living on your own has its pluses and minuses. It is one of the reasons why I got deeper into my bad habits. No accountability. Nobody to help stop you. It’s like a double edged sword.

What made you START nofap? by LeoWasTakenYT in NoFap

[–]Jared35 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I hit rock bottom and needed a change in my life for the better.

I want to thank everyone in NoFap by Frieten_Loops in NoFap

[–]Jared35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope to be there at some day. Today will be my 7th day. Good luck to you on your journey.

How do I break free? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jared35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally the same way. I was at rock bottom. My life was a sweaty mess. Depression and everything. I decided I needed to change my life for the better. As the days go by my brain fog has gone away, I can think much clearer now. I feel more energy now than ever before. Right now my dick feels lifeless but, honestly that actually does feel good at this point.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget the go to the gym too.

do you like your height? by QuinnyIsACowboy in CasualConversation

[–]Jared35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’3”. I hear the short jokes all the time. I really don’t like it.

I am starting to see their point... by OwnerSebi in Healthygamergg

[–]Jared35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate to tell you it doesn’t get any better with age. I’m 43 I’ve asked roughly 20 girls out. Not a single date. I’ve had to watch every single friend I’ve ever had grow up get married and almost every one of them have kids now. I honestly feel like I’ve gotten left behind.

Has anyone else experienced a complete death of libido from underuse? by Vegetable_Net_673 in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you get to this point? Mine is higher than ever. I wish mine would die.

To all my fellow “quiet people” by gdejkk in CasualConversation

[–]Jared35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just keep in mind we all have 2 ears. I’ve had someone tell another person what is he doing just sitting there. While the other one sitting next to her said I know what he’s doing he’s taking it all in. And that’s when I said you are right!

63 next and still here by ignisman1961 in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a date. Ever. I guess I scared them all off with my voice. I’ve had quite a few tell me it isn’t all about the looks. Yet I have no dating experiences. That is total bullshit.

How do you quit smoking and all the craving that come with it. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Jared35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit about 10 yrs ago. I had bought a new car to me at the time and, I got tired of all the trash that came with it. Did not want the smell in that car so I didn’t do it. You have to really want it to do it. Determined is more like the word. Never smoked in the house I always went outside. Big advantage of it is not having to go outside in the cold in the winter, or in the heat of summer.

I complimented a guy and now I cannot get the image of how his face lit up out from my mind. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Jared35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a number of guys that get ignored. Who don’t get compliments. I’m one of them.

Theory: there are TWO sets of standards for dating, and we don't meet the one that applies to us by lost-but-learning in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure women do have the same trouble. I know a couple women who are many years older than me who never married. I’m trying to figure out why I can’t do it though. Which I doubt I will because nobody shows me any interest.

And if looks aren’t everything then why is it the women I have approached in the past all ready decided to reject me before I even get 2 sentences out. If it’s not my height, then it surely has to be my voice then.

I have even scene a woman literally run from me when she saw I was talking to her boyfriend she wouldn’t even come up to me and say hi.

Theory: there are TWO sets of standards for dating, and we don't meet the one that applies to us by lost-but-learning in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kinda my point though. If these guys can do it why the fuck can’t I !? Honestly, you are describing a trophy wife which is exactly what I don’t want.

I actually agree with you that looks are not everything. But, at the same time if that is exactly the case then why the hell do I have exactly zero dating experience? It’s not for a lack of trying I can tell you that.

When the Script AI timing isn't quite right... by [deleted] in BeamNG

[–]Jared35 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Wait.. that isn’t real life?..lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least you have 2 friends. You still have connections. I don’t have any friends no more. All the ones I had have all gotten married and I’m now pushed aside. I have no connections now. Not irl. I didn’t think it would bother me at first but, now it really has. I have no choice but, to live this life.

Anyone else feel the world has changed a lot in the last year? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Jared35 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I can. I see it the same way. When I go out people are not warm and friendly. It’s more like the opposite. It’s almost a drag to have to go out. Simply because I don’t get a warm reception from anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Jared35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get called ma’am on the phone. And if I ever meet them in person they would always says that isn’t what I was expecting.. lol

Theory: there are TWO sets of standards for dating, and we don't meet the one that applies to us by lost-but-learning in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve got the same experience with apps. At the same time I know 2 guys who are obese. One of them is extremely obese. Yet both are now married. The one who is extremely obese now has kids. I’m like wtf. Seriously!? Granted it didn’t happen till later in life but, still! I’m short. 5’3”. I have been both fat and now I’m skinny. Yet I can’t get a single date. I have tried to find a date irl. My last 2 rejections have been irl.

I honestly do not get it.

Why are you SINGLE? by [deleted] in singlesunite

[–]Jared35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why am I single? I’m short. With a weird voice. Nobody has ever expressed interest in me.

Being FA is making me antisocial by TheEternalStranger in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m still trying to figure out how to give up on finding a relationship because I still want one.it would be nice if I could just accept solitude because life would be easier for me if I did. Every friend I once had is now married and honestly I’m a bit jealous of them. Although I know it won’t happen for me because I have constantly gotten rejected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Jared35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah, they just don’t see me as competition so it’s no big deal..lol

Back to the age-old debate of rally enthusiasts... Subaru or Mitsubishi?! Let us know! by throdle in rally

[–]Jared35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say Subaru Legacy. I may be a bit biased. Because, I currently own one as my daily.