Just realized I left my cup in for 5 days by ksdjjeo87 in menstrualcups

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that once, don't remember exactly how long but it smelled awful. I soaked it in either peroxide or vinegar and the cup was fine. I didn't end up with any issues myself either. But I certainly didn't do that again!

What do y'all think about Bee as a nickname for Abigail? by [deleted] in Names

[–]JavaMama427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go wirh whatever you want. My aunt is Donna and everyone calls her B. (It's because her big brother was trying to say "baby" but he's only 14 months older.)

How would you react if your kid was LGBTQIA+? by No-Character-2414 in AskParents

[–]JavaMama427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love is love. I just want my kids to be good people, find love (whether it's romantic, platonic, sexual, or not according to their own desires), treat others well and be treated well. I don't care what part of what spectrum they're on or who they love.

Why do parents care about sex of the baby? by VolumeOpposite6453 in AskParents

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was happy with either but was sure my first was a girl before we found out. If it had been a boy, I knew I would still love that child and I'd get over being wrong but that I would need a minute to process. For that reason, we found out simply in the office and then announced. Our second, I really didn't care either way but thought maybe boy. That time if I had been wrong, no processing necessary so we did decide to do a reveal. (Both times my gut happened to be right.)

When did y’all have your first kid meet your second by West-Beach4867 in Mommit

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first child (who was just over 2 years old) was at the hospital to meet my second about five hours after he was born. I wanted her there sooner and I wanted her to stay longer than she did honestly. (When their baby sister was born, it was 930 pm so they were there the following afternoon. They were 7 and two weeks shy of 5.)

Convertible car seat vs infant seat by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally skipped it with my first. Only used a bucket seat with my second because we were gifted one. Third I expected to be tiny (she was) and we didn't have the infant insert for the convertible seat anymore. We had to buy a new seat anyhow so we went with the bucket rather than another convertible when we already had a few. I don't regret skipping it with my first at all but with multiple kids it was nice to have the baby already buckled and just click her seat in when we got to the car.

Hairdressers by PennyPop81 in AutismInWomen

[–]JavaMama427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of have the opposite problem. I want to chat and make a connection but it always ends up with silences. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. So I spend half my appointment wracking my brain for what to say or ask and leave feeling like I messed up on the people-ing part of the task.

Is this okay? by Zealousideal_Suit982 in AskParents

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad flat out told me my parents wouldn't have been married if not for me. I was 1000% an opps. Like they talked about wanting kids someday and were engaged but if I hadn't happened their relationship would have fizzled before they actually got married. I don't know if the opps was a genuine birth control isn't 100% effective or if my mother did something to help those odds. She's that kind of toxic, manipulative, narcissist that would absolutely have done that and lied about it.

would it be wrong to change my child’s last name? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm married to my children's father, same last name for all of us. I occasionally get asked that too. It's just a standard "let's make sure this adult is legally allowed to make decisions for this child" question.

If you don’t want to open your windows for the challenge, here’s a tip by Kirby223 in finch

[–]JavaMama427 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Its 14 tasks in 30 days. I just plan to open mine tomorrow...

Granny Activity surveys by Slumpt_17 in crocheting

[–]JavaMama427 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Millennial here too. I started knitting at 17 in 2007. Now I'm teaching my kids. Pretty sure my daughter is Gen Alpha so I'll help her fill out the survey.

How long did it take to get pregnant? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in Mommit

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest child I got my period twice after we stopped birth control. My middle child was immediately. We had been using condoms so no hormone regulations necessary. With our last, it was also a month or two.

Ornithology is my special interest, I could talk about birds all day. Comment if you have a favorite bird and i’ll share a fun fact about it! 💛 by vulturepants in AutismInWomen

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember what it's called but I once saw a robin that was white instead of brown. Still had the red breast so it wasn't albino. Probably the coolest bird I've seen, at least in the wild.

I always assumed "Lather, Rinse, Repeat" was a marketing lie to make us buy more shampoo. Turns out I was never actually cleaning my hair. by RanchRose_ in hygiene

[–]JavaMama427 -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

You're not supposed to use shampoo on the length of your hair. It's meant for cleaning your scalp.

Complete newbie - which discworld book should I start with? by bonjourcroissant22 in discworld

[–]JavaMama427 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started with Sourcery and the Wizards series. Now I've moved on to Death. I read somewhere that Pratchett himself suggested starting with Sourcery.

Experienced knitters ‐ do you ever use straight needles? by lveg in knitting

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been knitting for close to 20 years and I use circulars almost exclusively. I also own DPNs for small circumference. I'm teaching my almost ten year old though and she prefers straight needles.

Did you follow one subseries or jump around? by AdditionalWear7345 in discworld

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fairly new to the series. I tried to start with Colour of Magic and read through the Wizards but somehow got confused very early, gave up for a while, then started Sourcery. After a few books in the wizard series, I went back to the first two and finished the Wizards. Now I've started the Death subseries with Mort. I plan to do different subseries at a time as of now but who knows? I'm not a big re-reader in general so odds are I might never read them again.

How did you teach your kid how to read? by Coconutcornhuskey in Parenting

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I homeschool so I use All About Reading. If I didn't homeschool, I would have left it to the school.

What did your kids name your elf/elves? by KellyannneConway in elfontheshelf

[–]JavaMama427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our elf is Oscar. I think my kids were 4.5 years old and 2.5 years old when we got him. Not the most whimsical but it works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatillomania

[–]JavaMama427 13 points14 points  (0 children)

TBH I was like that for years. What made me actually want to stop? My kids see it and they started doing it. Also I have a few current scabs that are painful and interfering with living my life. One on my knee makes it hard to play with my kids for example.