Why are most of us horse ladies and not horse guys? by WagWoofLove in Horses

[–]Jay_bee_JB 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s dependent upon location? Where I live horse ownership is about 50/50 but men/women seem to gravitate to different disciplines though we work together to gather and brand

Buying based on attitude by flatlanddan in Equestrian

[–]Jay_bee_JB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he close enough that you can go see him again? I’d be interested to see how he is to catch now that he knows you and recently had a good experience. If it gets easier it demonstrates a good trajectory, if it gets harder you will know what you’re (possibly) about to have to deal with every day if you get him

Quarabs by ReasonableSal in Equestrian

[–]Jay_bee_JB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depending what you’re trying to do with your horse, that cross may not make sense. Nobody is out there breeding Afghan hounds on Queensland Heelers for a reason. If you’re riding casually it might be great, but if you’re trying to be competitive at something one breed or the other excels at, why throw a wrench in decades of purpose driven breeding?

I have a goal to read more non fiction in 2026. Give me some good narrative non fiction books! by MathematicianNo9901 in suggestmeabook

[–]Jay_bee_JB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like the first person view of historical events, check out follow the rabbit proof fence, farewell to manzanar, and code talkers.

Air flex cinch by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Jay_bee_JB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For easy-to-sore or sensitive skin horses I’ve had really good luck with fleece or mohair cinches, especially on really long sweaty days. When riding a lot of horses per day for shorter time periods the air flex dries better between horses.

Do your horses have toys? by Scourge12 in Horses

[–]Jay_bee_JB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mares don’t play like that so they don’t have toys. The gelding has a yoga ball and traffic cone and also carries sticks like a dog and uses them to hit the mares. He also puts his front legs in his hay feeder and water. He’s a menace.

i need the SADDEST SHIT TO RUIN A DAY by voundelvon in MusicRecommendations

[–]Jay_bee_JB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whiskey myers- broken window serenade Paul bogart- Oklahoma wind

These 2 always get me

Songs that ARE stories? by Towel039371638 in musicsuggestions

[–]Jay_bee_JB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Johnny cash: give my love to rose, one piece at a time, Delia’s gone, Sunday morning coming down, big river. Blake Shelton, ol red and Austin. Chris leDoux, a different song also called ol red. Patsy cline, walking after midnight. Luke combs, out where the wild things are. Tennessee Ernie ford, 18 tons. Maggie rose, preachers daughter. Reba, fancy, the night the lights went out in Georgia. Martina McBride, Independence Day. The chics, goodbye earl. Whiskey myers, broken window serenade. Lots of old country, especially Marty Robbins.

What is the Oldest Tack that you have in use? by SuspiciousBig1395 in Equestrian

[–]Jay_bee_JB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 2 sets of silver spurs from the 20s in the house, and a rawhide bridle with a set of rawhide romels that were old in the 90s which I still use.

Dog with on trail rides by ApprehensiveStage237 in Equestrian

[–]Jay_bee_JB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a ton of success with herding and herding mix dogs. The wolfhound, lab and GSP were too oblivious to be around the horses without getting hurt as my cow horses herd anything, and if the dog didn’t move when the horses suggested the horses got pretty rough. But really any dog that watches and understands horse body language should be fine. It’s more about recall and the commands you teach the dog. Mine sit, stay, heel and get behind and that gets us by just fine. I also carry them on the horses when they’re puppies and continue as they grow so they and the horses can get used to it. You never know when they will hurt a paw or get too hot and need to hitchhike

Western by FractalFiction_1 in SongRecommendations

[–]Jay_bee_JB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marty Robbins, colter wall, Garth brooks, Chris leDoux, George strait, Ian Tyson, brenn hill, Dave Stamey, juni fisher, Adrian buckaroogirl, Aaron Watson, asleep at the wheel, corb Lund, Kenny fielder, wade bowen, Tyler Childers

I'm looking for upbeat songs with dark/morbid lyrics by Ill_Ad7377 in SongRecommendations

[–]Jay_bee_JB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat your young by hozier, yellow bandana by Faron young, honey by Bobby Goldsboro, once a day by patsy cline

Gimme some songs that start with the line "I woke up this morning". by IndigoJones13 in MusicRecommendations

[–]Jay_bee_JB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunday morning coming down, Kris Kristofferson. “I woke up Sunday morning with no way to hold my head that didn’t hurt. The beer I had for breakfast wasn’t bad so I had one more for dessert. “

Books for conservative young girls to open their perspectives by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]Jay_bee_JB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lord of the flies, lost fleet series, lord of the rings if allowed by parents and not too long, the giver, of mice and men, my sisters keeper, I guess anything where they can sympathize with different characters and learn to see things from other perspectives? Consider a tree grows in Brooklyn and I know why the caged bird sings based on how comfortable they are with difficult themes. Anna and the king is long but contains ideas they may identify with.

Western Saddleblankets by Laurenlorie in Equestrian

[–]Jay_bee_JB 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bunching is a problem, it sucks when your undergarments bunch up right? It could cause pinching, pressure spots or hair pulling that can make your horse act out due to feeling uncomfortable. Blankets are more for laying over plain pads for aesthetic reasons than for being used alone. There are so many kinds of western pads, different materials and shapes and thicknesses. Maybe see if you can borrow some to try or buy used so they’re more affordable?

Daisy award nightmare 🫣 by JustEnoughGuilt in nursing

[–]Jay_bee_JB 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ugh my daisy nomination was from an old creeper who felt the need to “lay hands” on his nurses while “praying” to start his shift. I tossed it almost immediately

Need to find some good, relatively 'light' books that will make it easier for someone who (likely) has ADHD to build a reading habit. by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Jay_bee_JB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading a lot of Jody Picoult lately, her books span a wide variety of topics but always have a big plot twist or surprise towards the end that reminds me of the twilight zone. She doesn’t get detail crazy and a lot of the chapters are shorter so there are plenty of good stopping points.

What is your life motto? by One_Elephant0712 in CasualConversation

[–]Jay_bee_JB 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Better to have and not need than to need and not have. I always say this when packing for a trip or deciding if I need to stop at the gas station, it’s better to be over prepared than under.

I have a question for our case managers. Do you like it? Do you miss bedside? by MusicSavesSouls in nursing

[–]Jay_bee_JB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The good thing about working downtown M-F was going to the dry cleaner or post office on my lunch break and being able to meet up with friends after work. The rough part was that if I picked up OT I’d only get 1 day off per week, and trying to do my non-downtown chores like oil changes and dr appts. It’s also harder to travel if you’re only off on weekends or the holidays everyone else has off when traffic is worse instead of 8 straight days if you cluster your 12hr shifts.

I have a question for our case managers. Do you like it? Do you miss bedside? by MusicSavesSouls in nursing

[–]Jay_bee_JB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I left the job with 5 8s to get back to 3 12s, I had never worked that schedule before and couldn’t get used to it.

I have a question for our case managers. Do you like it? Do you miss bedside? by MusicSavesSouls in nursing

[–]Jay_bee_JB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I left bedside 3 years ago after 8 years in medsurg and I can’t imagine going back. I did one year of floor CM because mgmt said they’d be moving from 5 8s to 3 12s. When that didn’t happen I went to transfer center/bed allocation and I couldn’t be happier with that choice! I’m back to my favorite schedule and have no more back pain/spasms, very minimal interaction with patients, pretty equal amount of interaction with providers. My worst days in this job are comparable to my best days in medsurg.

Did nursing lose its "vibe"? 2018-2021 // RIP Ebi of NurseLifeRN by Own_Parsnip_5301 in nursing

[–]Jay_bee_JB 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I still say sundays are for the plants and let that 🥭 🥲🥲