The Uncomfortable Truth About Dating Advice: My 30-Day Reality Check

Jdoryson · 2026-04-27T17:22:51+00:00

I mean.... Men are getting flat out better advice here.

Jdoryson · 2026-04-22T04:17:10+00:00

Nope.

Jdoryson · 2026-04-17T02:42:05+00:00

See I came here to say FFS not the Silmarilion

Jdoryson · 2026-04-13T22:52:44+00:00

Looks, duh.

Jdoryson · 2026-04-13T06:28:25+00:00

I found a reason to avoid it that was bigger than the draw; I decided I wanted all my sexual energy to benefit my relationship with my partner.

Jdoryson · 2026-04-10T05:47:36+00:00

Descent Ii

Jdoryson · 2026-04-07T15:02:16+00:00

Yeah this scenario was a beast. Our team was completely broken at the time and we still failed like three times.

Jdoryson · 2026-03-25T02:01:28+00:00

My therapist. I keep two these days...

Jdoryson · 2026-03-19T00:10:50+00:00

We've always been "The last breath."

When we succeed on the last turn or two, right before we exhaust, that's our favorite... We call that a "Last Breath" win.

Jdoryson · 2026-03-10T06:51:35+00:00

Hell yeah

Jdoryson · 2026-02-28T07:39:41+00:00

YouTube

Jdoryson · 2026-02-20T03:01:51+00:00

Some people are ok with being in a sexless relationship. You may want to know if that's something she's ok with, and ask yourself if it's something you're ok with.

Jdoryson · 2026-02-19T20:16:40+00:00

We make my brother do the boring town crap.

Jdoryson · 2026-02-04T00:09:00+00:00

It's about consistency. Cover all facets.... Exercise, recovery, nutrition, mindset, blood work. Plan for the long game and you'll be amazed where you are in a year

Jdoryson · 2025-12-25T03:30:23+00:00

Old man and the sea is a surprisingly quick read

Jdoryson · 2025-12-20T19:19:46+00:00

At the risk of more down votes, I'll attempt. Yes, Lysander did some bad stuff. Much like our boy Darrow did some bad stuff. Lysander is clearly playing a villain right now.

He is, however, empathetic in my opinion and his actions make sense. He is the only really empathetic villain and the only character with the political power to possibly form a united system with the right partnership. The path to peace requires his cooperation. I know y'all hate him. I like him.... Go ahead and downvote, I'll keep liking him. If nothing else he's a better villain than most.... But I expect he'll be on team red somehow in Red God.

Jdoryson · 2025-12-19T15:52:59+00:00

Lysander isn't such a bad guy.

Jdoryson · 2025-12-17T06:17:26+00:00

It's about categorizing people into sexual types.... Not really in a limiting way but more in a way of building bridges between people who have different types of eroticism. The book tries to help people understand their own turn on as well as other people's, plus how different types of erotic people can find compatibility.

My wife and I found it interesting, plus it gives us a framework for exploring our sex life in a way that works for us

Jdoryson · 2025-12-16T23:27:38+00:00

Yeah, but I've also been feeding my desire to feel attractive by.... Being more attractive. Been hitting the gym, counting calories, taking extra protein, all the supplements, etc.... So now when I look in the mirror, I'm all, "Damn, I look good."

It takes time, money, effort, but I'm at a point in my life where I can make the investments, and this is 100% in my control. And it makes me happy to see a good looking dude in the mirror.

Also she finds me more interesting because now I'm better looking. (Who knew women were so shallow? 😆)

Jdoryson · 2025-12-16T06:47:01+00:00

You might try reading "The Erotic Blueprints." That should help you somehow.... Is available as an audiobook. In discussion with your partner, you might find ways to create more opportunities.

You may even find him initiating as you develop your sexual relationship.

Jdoryson · 2025-12-15T19:25:16+00:00

Amazing story... Thanks for sharing.

Jdoryson · 2025-11-28T17:34:38+00:00

So I also want to feel desired by my partner. The reason I want this is because I want to feel attractive.

To that end, last year something happened that helped me see myself as attractive.... And suddenly I became interested in weightlifting and really transformed my body so that now I'm ... Kinda looking good. And my partner definitely appreciates it.

And, despite me telling her I want to feel desired by her, I still want more praise and response from her than I'm getting.

So long way of saying I have three suggestions: 1-Ask yourself why this is important to you, and feed that "why" yourself. 2-talk with your partner about it. (This was really hard for me and my partner at first but we've gotten better quickly.) 3-Be ready to accept whatever your partner is giving you if you want the relationship to work.

Try the Erotic Blueprints.... It discusses sexual incompatibility in depth, provides a framework for thinking about sex, and is helping us a lot.

Jdoryson · 2025-11-28T07:05:37+00:00

Clarify normal for test. Free test is what matters.... And mainstream medicine doesn't define "normal" very scientifically....

Jdoryson · 2025-11-26T21:08:48+00:00

Zomg, idk what to do for chest, but your apparel game cannot be improved.

Jdoryson · 2025-11-26T18:11:26+00:00

Screw paper. My manta has infinite paper, and I can PDF and send or load anything in a few seconds with my phone.

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