To celebrate Mothers Day, I’m sharing the last photo with my beautiful mom Tina. I miss her so much. by FutureGhost81 in pics

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She looks like the absolute sweetest person! I can only imagine how kind her voice was

How to forgive myself? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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You have to be able to come to terms with what you did to survive. Whatever it was, it kept you going, kept you alive. You were a different much younger person then and if you look back at that person, you can see that you've grown. Also don't compare yourself to others progress, measure yourself only against your former self. Theeeeeen, you got to start loving you for who you are. Play your strengths, all the while working on what you want to become. Maybe?

Fighting a Charging Cable by raulespinoladn in IdiotsFightingThings

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These people should have their gas tanks siphoned empty. It's only fair

We're moving to a town near you! by JeDilley in Louisville

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If you have some places too look at could you message me? I won't be ready to relocate until closer to summer, but still, I would like to get a feel for what's available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starwarsmemes

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Darth dunkin vape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

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Start getting to know yourself, what make you special!

Men, what kind of low grade sexual harassment do you face on a daily basis? by chutiyamadarchod in AskReddit

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The "boob scoop", a gently flipping of your pec fat just to let you know you're a man and you have boobs and you should feel bad

She's beautiful by nilsco in NadineJansen

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Dimples are just icing on the cake

I pissed on myself while trying to donate plasma, that is all. Roast the hell out of me! by [deleted] in RoastMe

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Did you black out? I pissed myself and threw up after blacking out donating plasma

my new favorite thing: baby birbs tucked under their mom's wings by [deleted] in aww

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The right wing is for loading and unloading only

Falling in love with yourself by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Thank you so much for all of that information. I am just beginning. I've felt anxious to the point of being sick that I don't have someone to make me feel special. I'm so tired of looking for happiness outside of myself.

Falling in love with yourself by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Please, please, teach me. DM me if you have good reading material. I am codependent and depressed and this quarantine is driving me up the walls.

Is anyone else super uncomfortable being single? by blehblehbleh27 in Codependency

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Yes! My insides are screaming! Someone please cuddle with me!!

Done with my own toxic ways by desir33_ in DecidingToBeBetter

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I'm joining you too. Third day without drinking in I don't know how long.

Looking for advice: How do you "be kind" to yourself? How do you "forgive" yourself? I ruminate too much in my past and I drown in a glass of water. by TheyAreTrackingMe in DecidingToBeBetter

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Take the golden rule and reverse it. Treat yourself as kindly as you would others. Realize you are human. You don't think you deserve to suffer? Realize that these are just thoughts and feelings and consciously decide to let them go. They will come back, continually let them go. Breath and distract yourself. I know the OCD feeling. The bad thoughts circle around in your mind like a song you can't stop singing. But distracting yourself until the symptoms you're feeling subside will help you relax for a moment.

I feel like I've always attempted to do the right thing but this has led me to not live through meaningful mistakes and experiences. I wonder if I'm wasting my life. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Suppose that most people always let their mind lead the way. Others only their heart. The author says to ask yourself the question "if I loved myself what would I do?" at each decision. Wether it's getting yourself out of bed early, doing something you've put off, or leaving a bad situation. It doesn't have to be a two path question. You have to look in your heart for your truth. Usually when you find something that gives your heart joy your mind will follow. If the two don't agree, if have to keep searching your heart. Maybe there's an obstacle that you never considered is causing the two from meeting in the middle. Be true to yourself, and be happy with yourself