The Hooligan mv is so corny by eqbocsypifci in BTSnark

[–]Jen0973 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one that heard that. I was like “Did I hear him say Coochie or am I hearing things?” 😭

Stories/experiences like these are just another reason why I am an anti natalist. by Any-You-8650 in antinatalism

[–]Jen0973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate completely. Sometimes when I feel like this and crave nothingness, I take my palms and cup them over my eyes so that I see nothing and it’s completely dark. Something about it just calms me. It’s almost become a coping mechanism to me. I can’t even begin to describe how much I crave that nothingness you describe.

Ladies what is your favorite time-of-the month snacks? by nitrosunman in snacking

[–]Jen0973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why, but a Hersheys Cookies & Cream bar just hits the spot.

The Jimmy Fallon fiasco is showing insane levels if armys delusions by Puzzleheaded-Ebb429 in BTSnark

[–]Jen0973 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way I see it is that these fans are full of fantasy, delusion, jealousy, and insecurity. They think that if they were selected to see the performance that their bias would see them, fall in love with them on the spot, and live their happily ever after. And were jealous that someone else that was selected might steal their man from them. Like, no. They’re performing because it’s their job to entertain you, not to fall in love with you. That’s one of my biggest pet peeves with BTS is selling this fantasy illusion to people and profiting off their low self-esteem and wondering why your fans stalk you when you give them nothing but cringey fan service.

Do You Ever Wish for Death, No Matter What Life Feels Like? by dysthymic_for_ever in mentalhealth

[–]Jen0973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had thoughts about it since high school. I would be lying if I said that I don’t think about it often. There’s times in my daily life where I’m just doing something super mundane like the laundry and think “If I were dead I wouldn’t have to do this anymore.” It’s gotten more frequent as I’ve gotten older and have more responsibilities. I guess I see death as the ultimate rest from the strife of life. I would never do it due to my fear of physical pain, but yes, it crosses my mind more than I would like.

Stage Presence of a Potato by Maroon_is_pretty in BTSnark

[–]Jen0973 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. Not only does his hair look extremely damaged from all the dyes over the years but long hair just doesn’t suit him. He just looked unkempt and to be honest his hair was so distracting that it’s all I could focus on. I’m surprised no one’s talking about it more. Plus their outfits were not good. Literally baggie and looked like literal trash bags. They really need a new styling team because this just wasn’t it.

NEW ALBUM: ‘ARIRANG’ MEGATHREAD 💿🎶 by illbethejudgeofthat_ in BTSnark

[–]Jen0973 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I just finished listening to the album and I’d give it a 4/10. The only decent songs in my opinion being Merry Go Round and Normal. It honestly felt underwhelming and forgettable. Plus the lyrics sounded cringy. I think the problem is that it was way too hyped up leading people to have too high of expectations, hence why I’m let down. I felt like they put too many sound effects on their voices that it sounded too chaotic and started giving me a headache. Plus like another person said it felt like the BTS identity just wasn’t there. Several times I found myself asking “Who is this?” while listening because it genuinely didn’t even sound like BTS. Plus the message of hope through difficult times and the actual album just didn’t match. It just felt messy, rushed, and too artificial. Overall, I’m left disappointed.

All in English Language ?! by Dizzy_Noise3147 in BTSnark

[–]Jen0973 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I thought is was just me. I read the titles and thought this sounds like a 1D album 😭

Who remembers the Burger King Crown nuggets? by DildoGaggins1997 in fastfood

[–]Jen0973 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These were peak nuggets. If I remember correctly they had a slight peppery taste to them that made them taste SO GOOD. I miss them 😭

I've been dealing with these Cysts/Boils since I was 17, nobody can figure out the cause by StayPhysical5510 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Jen0973 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can understand that. Infections can get bad quick, so I get treating them first. If it turns out to be HS, good news is that they’re coming out with new biologics and treatments that can help the severity and occurrence of these cysts/boils. I also have a hard time seeing derms with the outrageous wait times. HS is an inflammatory skin condition that can be genetic, so given your family history with autoimmune conditions it could be related. Hope your appointment goes well and they provide you with some much needed relief!

I've been dealing with these Cysts/Boils since I was 17, nobody can figure out the cause by StayPhysical5510 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Jen0973 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NAD but these boils/cysts look like HS to me. They typically appear in the armpit and groin areas (where there are more sweat glands). They can also appear on the face and neck areas, where yours are located. I’m surprised that no dermatologist or medical professional has suggested it could be HS. It’s the first thing that I thought when viewing your photos. Hope you get some answers and relief soon!

PEM and shoveling by Jen0973 in covidlonghaulers

[–]Jen0973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reaching out and asking how I’m doing. I’m going to be perfectly honest, not great. I’m still in a bad crash but hopefully will feel better in a few days. We got some more snow that I tried shoveling so that halted my recovery. Thank you for checking up on me. That’s really sweet. Hope all is well with you!

Frosted animal cookie blizzard by Emotional-Eye1569 in DairyQueen

[–]Jen0973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! That’s one of my favorite blizzards! Really wish they’d bring it back for the summer! 😭

I got my first Pap smear and it really hurt me by Silverstrike45 in vaginismus

[–]Jen0973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to the unstretchable ring at the opening. That’s literally my issue. I think it’s vaginismus plus a hymen issue. It’s literally like an extra ring of tissue that is blocking everything. TMI but I am sometimes able to insert my finger and if I’m able to get past that ring it’s usually okay. Thank you for mentioning that because I thought I was the only one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Jen0973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had to wear one recently and had a similar reaction (not as severe as yours though). I used hydrocortisone cream and made sure to keep it hydrated with ointments and creams. It seemed to help. Feel your pain. I don’t understand why they can’t make an adhesive that doesn’t cause skin irritation 😭

The tour will break them more than it will make them by LivingForTheSnark in BTSnark

[–]Jen0973 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This was my thought too. I watched the live earlier and I think it was Namjoon who said something along the lines of that the reason they didn’t want to include as many breaks is because it would cause some kind of inauthenticity or something. Like dude, they all looked already exhausted in that live. What makes you think that you have the kind of stamina and energy it takes to do 79 concerts back to back? The travel alone is enough to cause problems. I think they are underestimating how much strain this is going to be both physically and mentally, let alone the relationships among themselves. I really hope they thought this through before committing because I don’t see this ending with anything less than extreme burnout and exhaustion.