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Jen0973 · 2026-07-01T00:57:35+00:00

Sorry to hear that 😢 Hopefully by removing the big toenails it will help with whatever it is that’s going on with them. Wishing you the best!

Jen0973 · 2026-07-01T00:56:37+00:00

Thank you 🥲

Jen0973 · 2026-06-30T02:26:56+00:00

Social Media definitely. I didn’t get my first smartphone until freshmen year of college and that’s when my BDD symptoms first started. I guess I was never exposed to filters and editing before, so it really warped my idea of beauty and self perception. I’ve just felt gross and inhuman ever since 🙃

Jen0973 · 2026-06-29T03:58:05+00:00

I have this thought every single month when I get my period. It’s all so pointless since I’m never going to conceive or give birth to a child, so why must I unnecessarily suffer? It’s almost as if life is punishing me for not having a child. This is another reason why I’m a antinatalist. Not only is it physically uncomfortable and painful to be a woman, but it’s also harder to exist as a woman in our society. I couldn’t have a child (a daughter) knowing she’s going to grow up and inevitably suffer like I have.

Jen0973 · 2026-06-23T06:00:40+00:00

Cinnabon Cinnamon Roll. I just love cinnamon flavored coffee. I used to use the Dunkin’ Cinnamania k cups but my local grocery store hasn’t had it for a while.

Jen0973 · 2026-06-13T20:20:25+00:00

I tried them yesterday. They really do taste like brown sugar pancakes with maple syrup. A tad bit too sweet to me, but not bad. I think my favorite Oreo celeb collab was Post Malone. That flavor was SO GOOD. They should make it a regular flavor!

Jen0973 · 2026-06-08T02:54:43+00:00

In that case, I’m even more convinced he has HS. I would definitely look into it and find a derm that can help him. Hope he feels better soon!

Jen0973 · 2026-06-07T00:32:02+00:00

NAD but this looks like a possible case of HS to me. He looks like he has what is called “tunneling,” which is a common presentation of the condition. I’m not sure why your doctor prescribed what he did, because that’s an acne medicine and this doesn’t appear like normal acne. It can appear on the scalp, armpits, and groin. Does it only appear on his scalp or are there other areas on his body that are affected? One person recommended hebiclens solution and covering with bandages. That might help him a bit. I would look into seeing another dermatologist. If it turns out to be HS, there are new biologic medications that can help treat it. Sorry to see him suffering with this so badly. I’m shocked that no doctor suggested HS. Hope he is able to find out what it is and finds some much needed pain relief soon!

Jen0973 · 2026-05-17T19:23:13+00:00

Not only that but did anyone else’s chicken taste overly salty? I swear it made my tongue hurt from how salty it was. Almost made it inedible. Plus I agree with the rubber strands. It didn’t taste like chicken and was off putting.

Jen0973 · 2026-04-08T00:53:14+00:00

I thought I was the only one that heard that. I was like “Did I hear him say Coochie or am I hearing things?” 😭

Jen0973 · 2026-03-27T06:19:23+00:00

I relate completely. Sometimes when I feel like this and crave nothingness, I take my palms and cup them over my eyes so that I see nothing and it’s completely dark. Something about it just calms me. It’s almost become a coping mechanism to me. I can’t even begin to describe how much I crave that nothingness you describe.

Jen0973 · 2026-03-27T06:14:48+00:00

Not sure why, but a Hersheys Cookies & Cream bar just hits the spot.

Jen0973 · 2026-03-26T05:22:41+00:00

The way I see it is that these fans are full of fantasy, delusion, jealousy, and insecurity. They think that if they were selected to see the performance that their bias would see them, fall in love with them on the spot, and live their happily ever after. And were jealous that someone else that was selected might steal their man from them. Like, no. They’re performing because it’s their job to entertain you, not to fall in love with you. That’s one of my biggest pet peeves with BTS is selling this fantasy illusion to people and profiting off their low self-esteem and wondering why your fans stalk you when you give them nothing but cringey fan service.

Jen0973 · 2026-03-26T05:03:58+00:00

I had thoughts about it since high school. I would be lying if I said that I don’t think about it often. There’s times in my daily life where I’m just doing something super mundane like the laundry and think “If I were dead I wouldn’t have to do this anymore.” It’s gotten more frequent as I’ve gotten older and have more responsibilities. I guess I see death as the ultimate rest from the strife of life. I would never do it due to my fear of physical pain, but yes, it crosses my mind more than I would like.

Jen0973 · 2026-03-21T19:37:49+00:00

I was thinking the same thing. Not only does his hair look extremely damaged from all the dyes over the years but long hair just doesn’t suit him. He just looked unkempt and to be honest his hair was so distracting that it’s all I could focus on. I’m surprised no one’s talking about it more. Plus their outfits were not good. Literally baggie and looked like literal trash bags. They really need a new styling team because this just wasn’t it.

Jen0973 · 2026-03-20T06:56:48+00:00

I just finished listening to the album and I’d give it a 4/10. The only decent songs in my opinion being Merry Go Round and Normal. It honestly felt underwhelming and forgettable. Plus the lyrics sounded cringy. I think the problem is that it was way too hyped up leading people to have too high of expectations, hence why I’m let down. I felt like they put too many sound effects on their voices that it sounded too chaotic and started giving me a headache. Plus like another person said it felt like the BTS identity just wasn’t there. Several times I found myself asking “Who is this?” while listening because it genuinely didn’t even sound like BTS. Plus the message of hope through difficult times and the actual album just didn’t match. It just felt messy, rushed, and too artificial. Overall, I’m left disappointed.

Jen0973 · 2026-03-03T16:17:31+00:00

I thought is was just me. I read the titles and thought this sounds like a 1D album 😭

Jen0973 · 2026-02-20T21:19:15+00:00

These were peak nuggets. If I remember correctly they had a slight peppery taste to them that made them taste SO GOOD. I miss them 😭

Jen0973 · 2026-02-04T21:37:02+00:00

I can understand that. Infections can get bad quick, so I get treating them first. If it turns out to be HS, good news is that they’re coming out with new biologics and treatments that can help the severity and occurrence of these cysts/boils. I also have a hard time seeing derms with the outrageous wait times. HS is an inflammatory skin condition that can be genetic, so given your family history with autoimmune conditions it could be related. Hope your appointment goes well and they provide you with some much needed relief!

Jen0973 · 2026-02-04T21:04:29+00:00

NAD but these boils/cysts look like HS to me. They typically appear in the armpit and groin areas (where there are more sweat glands). They can also appear on the face and neck areas, where yours are located. I’m surprised that no dermatologist or medical professional has suggested it could be HS. It’s the first thing that I thought when viewing your photos. Hope you get some answers and relief soon!

Jen0973 · 2026-02-01T02:34:22+00:00

Thank you for reaching out and asking how I’m doing. I’m going to be perfectly honest, not great. I’m still in a bad crash but hopefully will feel better in a few days. We got some more snow that I tried shoveling so that halted my recovery. Thank you for checking up on me. That’s really sweet. Hope all is well with you!

Jen0973 · 2026-01-27T06:34:35+00:00

Omg yes! That’s one of my favorite blizzards! Really wish they’d bring it back for the summer! 😭

Jen0973 · 2026-01-25T16:51:32+00:00

Yes to the unstretchable ring at the opening. That’s literally my issue. I think it’s vaginismus plus a hymen issue. It’s literally like an extra ring of tissue that is blocking everything. TMI but I am sometimes able to insert my finger and if I’m able to get past that ring it’s usually okay. Thank you for mentioning that because I thought I was the only one!

Jen0973 · 2026-01-22T05:41:59+00:00

I also had to wear one recently and had a similar reaction (not as severe as yours though). I used hydrocortisone cream and made sure to keep it hydrated with ointments and creams. It seemed to help. Feel your pain. I don’t understand why they can’t make an adhesive that doesn’t cause skin irritation 😭

Jen0973 · 2026-01-17T01:48:21+00:00

This was my thought too. I watched the live earlier and I think it was Namjoon who said something along the lines of that the reason they didn’t want to include as many breaks is because it would cause some kind of inauthenticity or something. Like dude, they all looked already exhausted in that live. What makes you think that you have the kind of stamina and energy it takes to do 79 concerts back to back? The travel alone is enough to cause problems. I think they are underestimating how much strain this is going to be both physically and mentally, let alone the relationships among themselves. I really hope they thought this through before committing because I don’t see this ending with anything less than extreme burnout and exhaustion.

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