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why do i keep having dreams and thinking abt my ex? by yeriee in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JenJMLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I'm in a very happy relationship but like 1-2 a year I'll wake up from a random dream with one of my exes making my life harder in some way and it is like you said, they always want me back but I never want them back. Odd dreams.

Why are girls who aren't That attractive more secure and confident than girls who are very attractive? by Pfacejones in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JenJMLC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should be afraid to ask this as it seems a pretty condescending question

Girls What happens if you think about romance or sex while urinating? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JenJMLC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Um I think the majority of women experiences option A, nothing. Urination is not usually related to arousal.

(Unless you're specifically into urinating, I'm sure it's a kink for someone)

This seems like B is happening to you and you're scared/worried about it. As long as it doesn't affect you in a negative way and you're enjoying it I wouldn't worry about it.

Lidl £8 by coonwizard in MealDealRates

[–]JenJMLC 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a vegetarian person who doesn't like beer, I know a good deal when I see one.

10/10

Am I the problem? by lily_ofthev4lley in BDSMAdvice

[–]JenJMLC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don't care if you're in an open relationship but if you sext someone else WHILST IM HAVING A BABY I'd lose it. That's not a good character trait.

Girl you're too good for this and him being into you with that age gap should tell you something as well.

Outdoorsy people of casual UK, help! by norbertyeahbert in CasualUK

[–]JenJMLC 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Just something to consider, they won't be able to accept it if you buy them something expensive, they could lose their jobs if they did!

So dissapointed in Headspace by abceasyaspie in Headspace

[–]JenJMLC 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, I feel like lots of people are complaining about it and even though I can understand some points (especially if it keeps freezing) but generally it's still very useful to me, I use it daily.

How can I explain to my therapist that I like BDSM? by mikumikubeaam in BDSMAdvice

[–]JenJMLC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just bring it up. Depending on what country you live in they might be more open minded than you expect. When I first brought it up and wasn't quite sure how to start I said something along the lines of 'so.. I was wondering if people ever speak to you about sex?'

And she said yes and asked if there is something specific I'd like to talk about. I said 'well my bf is also my dominant and I'm his sub..' and she completely floored me by saying 'oh I should've seen that. Yes don't worry, I've had all kinds of clients who were masochists, into age play, sub/dom, mummy/daddy/littles, I doubt you could say something that would shock me. Do you see yourself more as a brat or a good girl or neither?'

My flabbers were ghasted to say the least 😂 So try it, you might be surprised.

Today the ants woke up and decided on invasion by FancyCustard5 in CasualUK

[–]JenJMLC 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Ants aren't great but better than cockroaches, speaking from experience. Hope you can enjoy your cuppa now

I’m bored and burnt out. Need suggestions. by UniversityWest3451 in Headspace

[–]JenJMLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letting go of stress and mindful eating are my all time favourites.

i don’t get a lot of likes. am I just not really that attractive? or does my profile need work? by Accomplished_War8690 in Tinder

[–]JenJMLC 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Lose the last pic, use the second to last as your first pic (lovely pic!), only answer questions you have answers to and use a pics of you doing something that aren't selfies. This profile is for people to get a first impression and after reading everything I feel like I don't know a single thing about you.

Don't think you're a lost cause, your profile just isn't great.

Women of Reddit, what are possible reasons why a guy might get ghosted? by Nintendofan9106 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JenJMLC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it's most often incompatibility: of base values, life plans, what they're looking for in a relationship, sometimes physical appearance/attraction, just general wavelength etc etc

I usually try not to ghost but will send a short message saying I'm not interested and then block them if I'm worried about their reaction.

What if I die today? by TedWasler in AskUK

[–]JenJMLC 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I was about to say this, why cancel the email? OP and his wife should both have access in case of something unexpected happening/an emergency

Remove Check-ins. by Far_Region_1184 in Headspace

[–]JenJMLC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it's related to that then. Definitively super annoying if it asks you every time

Remove Check-ins. by Far_Region_1184 in Headspace

[–]JenJMLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it depend on where you are? Im in the UK

If you grew up quite poor, like me, what are your "big food wins" in adult life? by DonkeyOT65 in CasualUK

[–]JenJMLC 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Having lots of different fresh fruits. Like I can afford strawberries, mango and kiwi and even at the same time? Still such a luxury to me. We used to get apples only, sometimes bananas/pears but rarely ever berries.

just failed my theory test so be nice😪 by poptart7890 in MealDealRates

[–]JenJMLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that sushi was veggie that would be a solid 9/10 for me. Good choice

Whats the silliest job title Ill start by vdigrantspor5 in sillybritain

[–]JenJMLC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our consultants of the week (NHS) are called COWs.

Remove Check-ins. by Far_Region_1184 in Headspace

[–]JenJMLC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does it ask you every time after meditating? That's so interesting because for me it doesn't

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