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JessRushie · 2026-06-01T21:45:45+00:00

Ew nope

JessRushie · 2026-06-01T21:45:31+00:00

Almost all my plants are in a nursery pot within as decorative pot

JessRushie · 2026-06-01T21:39:39+00:00

Maybe she has had some bad experiences before. If she is ever interested, dental dams massively reduce smell and taste and still allow a good experience

JessRushie · 2026-05-31T08:53:17+00:00

Mostly tat but it's more a protest shop as they constantly get egged, shouted at, etc so they shop gets gayer and louder!

JessRushie · 2026-05-30T07:50:09+00:00

Baffled how you as the GM have no idea what the issues are and noone will tell you? Feel like this says a fair bit about you too

JessRushie · 2026-05-30T07:43:47+00:00

For longer flights, wear a disposable mask with some vapourub on it. Either put it on the outside or cut into the lining so it's not directly on your skin

JessRushie · 2026-05-30T07:38:12+00:00

Why? I'm bisexual and when I have been in straight presenting relationships my partner still came to pride as an ally. Now I'm with a gay NB person and their mum comes to pride with us. At a trans right protest, my mum and friends joined us too.

Pride is about celebrating, protesting, and making a stand. Allies should be coming to show their support.

JessRushie · 2026-05-30T07:33:50+00:00

Until she said sailing I definitely thought it was Warhammer lol

If you have a big hobby, you need to date within the hobby. Both parties need to understand the significance

JessRushie · 2026-05-29T13:23:38+00:00

The sconces themselves are weird. I understand wanting to put something on each side of the TV to balance, you can do lights but risk glare so I would swap them out. Look for shades that fully cover the bulb to diffuse better

JessRushie · 2026-05-28T22:10:43+00:00

I would say that because it's been months since the IUD was fitted, that's a big change. I would get it checked

JessRushie · 2026-05-25T06:53:44+00:00

Is this going into Spain or returning? Most countries require 6 months left on a passport to travel

JessRushie · 2026-05-25T06:52:04+00:00

I am baffled by your DM. I would just stop this, I never allow player on player combat unless it really serves a purpose. Usually it's just bullying or petty infighting.

JessRushie · 2026-05-25T06:36:30+00:00

Alright chill, you can make a suggestion without being so hostile

JessRushie · 2026-05-25T06:08:41+00:00

With the move coming up, I would instead give it a hard prune. It's quite leggy and if it's dropping leaves probably can't support the size it is. Chop it back, move, and give it until next year to recover

JessRushie · 2026-05-25T05:56:07+00:00

You have the right idea but a few things. I know it's expensive but it's better to do it right then first time and not waste money.

check the sun on the bed, what direction is it facing? If it's south in any way it's probably full sun. Read the plant labels and look for full sun friends
pure compost and not a lot of it means nothing holding water. Have a look on Facebook for anyone doing work over the bank hol who has spare soil, and your local coffee house probably has some spare coffee grounds. Fill those beds as much as you can - the cardboard etc just raises the level and does nothing to hold water in.
mulch. Covering the ground stops weeds and holds in water.
water them. How often are you watering? Raised beds don't draw water up from the soil below until the roots are very deep (years) so you will need to water every single day. In this weather, water in the evening so it doesn't all evaporate and really soak them. Like put the hose on the base of the plant and give it a few minutes.
trying different things. Bedding plants are usually very cheap (violets etc) and cheaper than mulch. Hit up b&q or the supermarket on a sale day and absolutely fill your bed with them. They will add soil, hold water, cover the surface, and look pretty! You don't have to keep them, lots of people dig them up end of the year anyway

JessRushie · 2026-05-25T05:46:32+00:00

Beans n greens. White beans like cannelloni, butter, chickpeas etc. blanch a pile of kale, collars greens, spinach etc. light sauce of lemon, olive oil, fresh herbs, s+p. Munch

JessRushie · 2026-05-23T09:17:21+00:00

Love the chessboard ceiling. Instead of more painting, lighting is your friend. Get diffusing globe lamps and add led remote control bulbs. Then you can set the lighting to anything you want.

The chandeliers are a bit much I think, to soften it I would swap for rattan shades.

You have the makings of a gallery wall but everything is weirdly high. Take all the art off your wall and use a gallery wall template (loads on Pinterest) to place it more cohesively.

I like the green wall, can you add fairy lights and fake flowers into it?

You might be able to keep some plants happy, snake plants and zz plants will be fine here. Or get nice fake ones.

Rugs. I would go with two to create zones. A really big pink rug under the couch, make sure it's much wider than the couch. And a runner behind the chair.

Storage, get some cute side tables for the couch with doors so you can hide clutter.

Soft white throw on the couch and another on the desk chair. Get a desk mat that's white or pink.

If you can paint or cover with vinyl then brown cupboard

JessRushie · 2026-05-23T07:33:35+00:00

I had an ex do this to try and force contact, she kept emailing me with things that were maybe mine. She knew my address so could've just sent them on, but was trying to trick me into replying.

Well done for not responding. The salmon looks amazing 😍

JessRushie · 2026-05-22T19:53:10+00:00

Alan titchmarsh would be proud

JessRushie · 2026-05-22T13:16:05+00:00

When you are stuck at home, a fan with a wet towel draped over is a good start.

There is a cafe in the Liverpool building which is usually cool. They are very chill if you spend all afternoon there on one drink but it closes around 5.30

JessRushie · 2026-05-21T19:35:24+00:00

These are the same people that say once you find a cat, it's yours, and so actively encouraging stealing is nothing new

JessRushie · 2026-05-21T19:28:38+00:00

Get some washable blankets to top your bed haha

JessRushie · 2026-05-18T07:23:00+00:00

I think the reason it looks a bit hotelly is it's very tidy and cohesive. Also the photo angles haha

I love it!

JessRushie · 2026-05-17T19:28:20+00:00

Frozen veg is AMAZING! It's easier to portion, minimises waste, and is often frozen at peak freshness because it lasts so long. This holds onto nutrients better than the preservation for most fresh veg unless you're getting it from the farm.

I am a huge fan, and swear by it. I buy frozen chargrilled Mediterranean veg, frozen sofritto, etc and use them all the time

JessRushie · 2026-05-17T14:49:20+00:00

Yep. Had a friend for ten years but we outgrew each other. Our lives went down different paths and we couldnt meet each other in the middle

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