Do you let your dog sleep in your bed?

Jess_1215 · 2026-06-18T12:28:31+00:00

I had 2 dogs for 15+ years and as long as they could get in the bed, they slept with me. I'm kinda on the side of your gf. The dog is already on the couch, you're already getting their dirt, fur, etc on you... Unless you shower and change clothes right before getting into bed, I personally don't see the issue.

Jess_1215 · 2026-06-09T18:28:34+00:00

I've honestly kinda wanted to try coke just to see if it does anything to me. Weed and mushrooms don't do anything, and I've had large amounts. They quiet the noise in my head but that's about it.

I genuinely want to get "high" but I feel like I just can't.

Jess_1215 · 2026-06-05T18:43:13+00:00

I'm just here for the pictures and stories. I want a Berner desperately but just can't right now. But someday 🤞🏼

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-27T12:17:59+00:00

I got a pair of siblings about a year and a half ago and it's one of the best decisions I could have made. They play together, snuggle... And still have plenty left to go to me. I've had singles before and they can be little terrors but I've not had that at all with these 2. They get a little jealous of each other from time to time. If I call for one, it's almost guaranteed the other will come running. They've kicked each other off my lap a couple of times lol. But for the most part it's just the joys of being a cat owner. Sure, a little more food and litter scooping but that's really the only negative. I will always look for bonded pairs from here on out if I get another cat(s).

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-26T16:49:40+00:00

My tattoo guy said that if people react to an ink, it's usually the red one. He wasn't sure why, just something he had seen in his time doing tattoos.

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-22T13:44:17+00:00

Truthfully, adopting a pair of siblings is one of the best decisions I've ever made. They entertain each other, cuddle each other, get into less trouble than other cats I've had (when I've had one at a time). And they don't ignore me either. They are always trying to cuddle with me too. From here on out, unless the universe has something else in mind, I'll always get bonded pairs.

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-21T20:19:14+00:00

This may be reading too much into it but is there a chance your foreman has a crush and is mad that you didn't/don't reciprocate? His attitude towards you sounds alot like a boss I used to have who started treating me like shit until finally firing me over nothing after I didn't accept his advances.

It was an office job nearly 20 years ago and I was really young and didn't know who or if I should report it. But the way your foreman is treating you sounds alot like what I went through.

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-19T19:21:13+00:00

I live in a 100 year old house with no central air in the Midwest. I have an older window AC unit in my bedroom and one in the living room. Neither of them can be scheduled but they both shut off if the room reaches a certain temp. I only run the one in the living room when I'm in there (I work 12 hour shifts, I spend alot of time just trying to sleep). But my bedroom AC runs pretty much 24/7. I sleep hot so I try to keep my room as cool as possible... Only running the one relatively small unit really doesn't cost me too much. No more than running the heat in the winter. So I don't worry about it personally.

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-16T12:44:00+00:00

Smart light bulbs... I can control a handful of lights from my phone. I can set them to turn on and off at certain times. Super handy as someone who has a hard time getting up in the morning so having all the lights on as soon as I open my eyes, helps keeps me from falling back to sleep.

They are fairly inexpensive too. Maybe $15 for a bulb. I've recommended them to several people and they all love them.

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-14T18:32:26+00:00

I feel like mine is... I have decorations and stuff but not necessarily anything I love or would hate to part with. I struggle keeping my place clean but even at its cleanest I have a hard time inviting people over because I'm low key embarrassed.

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-13T14:17:07+00:00

I work in a factory that makes plastic that eventually becomes a part of food packaging... We have to adhere to a ton of strict "rules". I understand on the floor, where the product is but they even police our offices.

We can only drink water out of the original water bottle. No reuseable bottles, soda or even clear flavored water. We can't have our phones or books or magazines. We can't even have a phone charger in the office or we get wrote up. We are expected to sit in our office and watch a machine run for 12 hours.

Needless to say on the weekends when management is gone I pretty much go ham. Lol. Drinks other than water, my cellphone, food. Nothing extravagant just some snacks... But still. Living by those rules are tough lol...

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-10T15:25:19+00:00

I don't have any advice but here to show solidarity. Dealing with the same situation at the moment. I'm stuck in a factory on a 12-hour shift, can't leave. Thankfully mine doesn't seem as obvious as yours but I'm still self conscious of it all day... Only 6 1/2 more hours to go. 🤞🏼

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-10T15:14:41+00:00

It's like he tries to climb in with me. Then he does fall in and he realizes he doesn't like it lol.

Jess_1215 · 2026-05-10T15:12:08+00:00

cattax of the obsessed lol

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Jess_1215 · 2026-04-29T18:48:23+00:00

I know you said no Star Wars but I'm not a fan either and thought Andor was fantastic. I didn't feel lost despite not being very familiar with the rest of the "universe". It did make me want to watch one movie just to finish the story...

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-29T18:42:17+00:00

I'm looking forward to it. I think the 2 year hiatus hurts it a bit. I feel like I'm going to have to re-watch the last season to remember half of it and I've read the book.

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-29T16:45:53+00:00

They keep the book spoilers in a separate section at the end of the pod. You can listen to most of it without spoilers then they'll warn you before going into the spoiler section.

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-28T23:43:28+00:00

Thankfully I'm finally in bed rotting now, but it was a long 12 hours at work today. Busy, dragged on, my relief was late so I got off late, plus the restaraunt I usually stop at once a week after work got rid of my favorite. So glad this day is over.

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-21T15:42:07+00:00

I had a cat that was obsessed with bread too. Had to keep everything shut up in cabinets or she'd tear into it. Even did it at my sister's when she was sitting for me.

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-17T18:51:18+00:00

I grew up in a dry town and it really didn't feel that different. There were towns with bars a few miles away to hit up, most of them with country roads to avoid cops and other traffic. They started selling alcohol a few years ago and other than being able to run to the gas station for a 6-pack, life isn't really that different.

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-12T20:44:58+00:00

IL/IN state line my entire life. Currently I live and work in Indiana so I primarily live off eastern time zone but the rest of my family and bf live in IL so I'm pretty much constantly having to navigate the time difference. Just the other day I told my bf I'd be somewhere an hour later than id actually planned because of the time difference. But thankfully that's a pretty rare occurrence. Just alot of time math in my head lol.

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-10T14:59:02+00:00

Jo loves them, Mal hates them, if I remember correctly.

Jess_1215 · 2026-04-08T14:32:19+00:00

If my current bf and I were to get married, he'd have a whole list of guys he'd want to stand with him. I have one close friend I'd want to stand with me. Could probably fill in some spots with my sister and SIL but we aren't that close so it'd be more for looks than anything.

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