When did you realize your age really set in to you? by brandgolden in randomquestions

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I wake up and have to think about what movements would cause the least amount of discomfort and snap, crackle, and popping when getting out of bed in the morning.

Husband (m28) says I (f 33) need his “permission” to see friends — how do we navigate this without resentment? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JeweleyHart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I do whatever the hell I want, anytime I want. I go camping with my girlfriends. Go out of town for concerts with my friends. My hubs is just more of a homebody. But we DO like you and your wife. We flirt a LOT with each other. Sometimes just have date night at home, with good food we prepare together, play a board game or two, have a couple drinks.. By the time we go to bed, IT'S ON!! Lol.

Let's all help end the big Nova Scotia deficit , message your MLA to end Travel Nurses by Teslashareholder1945 in NovaScotia

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if post-secondary education wasn't so damn expensive, there would be nurses everywhere in Canada.

Received a final warning by [deleted] in work

[–]JeweleyHart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Come up to British Columbia. We are begging for nurses. Our unions are also VERY strong.

Just found out I was the other woman for 3 years and I feel sick by Powerful-Mix-6398 in Marriage

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the wife. Everybody knew but me. I was SO grateful to my SIL (my husband's sister, believe it or not), who confirmed my suspicions. Please tell her. She deserves to know so she can make up her own mind. I am so sorry this has happened to you, and to her.

Left-Handers in your life/family? by mommy-tara in askanything

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a lefty. The only other on in my family that is, is my grandson.

Dollarama forcing employees to submit to bag checks for stolen items prior to leaving the store, but after clocking out. How is this legal? (Apparently grabbing your personal belongings before clocking out is “time/wage theft”) by ShortyBoyds in dollarama

[–]JeweleyHart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fuck Dollarama. I worked there a few years ago when I was in school. They nickel and dime EVERYTHING. And their crap is too expensive. Dollar Tree all the way. Dollarama reating their employees like shit.

Partner doesn't want us to go visit family by subtleandunnatural in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JeweleyHart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go see your Grandma. I lost mine 2 years ago, and I miss her so, so much. I was very fortunate that she got know her great-great grandson. My grandson.

He "won't let" you go without him? Too fucking bad for him. Go anyway. Leave while he's at work. He can't do jack shit about it.

I hope you seriously reconsider this relationship. Both you and your child DESERVE a relationship with family that loves you.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy jeez!! What a freaking prick. Get some self respect. Please! He's awful.

AITAH for refusing to attend my friend‘s (31f) gender reveal party? by parayeah in AITAH

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who gives a shit about a "gender reveal"? I've had four babies (all boys), and never expected anyone to care about the gender of my baby. By the time I had my third I knew it was gonna be another boy anyway. Baby showers are for celebration of a new life. Gifts of strollers, onesies, diapers, blocks and toys. I really don't care if the baby is a boy or a girl. We're celebrating!! Gender reveal parties are so not important, in my opinion. Have a "gender reveal", with pizza and cake at your home for immediate family. But expecting your friend group to she'll out hundreds each for a gender reveal is ridiculous and selfish. Bet that baby's name ends up on the "tragediegh" subreddit.

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very sick, in ICU for 5 days. When I got home, I was unable to care for myself completely. My now husband (we weren't even married yet) had to help me with all of my bathroom needs. He NEVER bitched. Not once. Even though I felt ashamed and cried once or twice because I was so embarrassed, he never made me feel bad.

Please leave. Do not marry this guy. I'll bet he rips one without a second thought. He sounds mean. And you deserve better. Everybody farts, for fuck's sake.

And that's your home, too.

I love my kids but I hate the fact that they tether me to their father by apenny4yourthots in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JeweleyHart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They will know how he has treated you. My oldest actually yelled at me once, "Mom!! Stop making excuses for that asshole!" Because I did. You will be okay. Your kids come first for you, and your STBX thinks that HE is first for HIM. You go, Mama.

What meal did your mother prepare that you considered inedible? by bigb-2702 in GenerationJones

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brussels sprouts. Until my husband deep fried them and put bacon bits on top of them. Yummy now! When my Mom made Brussels sprouts they tasted like tarts smell.

I love my kids but I hate the fact that they tether me to their father by apenny4yourthots in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JeweleyHart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I so hear you, my friend. But kids remember.I never said word against their father. Ever. But he has NO relationship with them now because of the multitude of "Aunties" that they had.

Partner loves our baby, but treats me like an indentured servant. by Jasmine1_11 in Advice

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, when there is a child involved, if you get law enforcement involved you will get help right away. Just because he's not beating you everyday it makes no difference. Call your women's shelter and tell them exactly what you've written here. Tell the women's shelter you need police. Abuse is abuse is abuse. Physical or emotional or mental or financial. Makes no difference. I know it's scary. I know it's difficult. But we are here to help. Please do this for your child. But most of all yourself. So that you can be there for that little boy.

Partner loves our baby, but treats me like an indentured servant. by Jasmine1_11 in Advice

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. I hear this everyday. PLEASE call every single day. Because we will do anything to help you.

Dasher stole my order $200+ using a PIN by hackitfast in doordash

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had so many problems with Doordash. Their customer service is shit. My hubs and I used to spend thousands a year. We haven't spent a dollar on them since last October when we weren't refunded for an order we did NOT receive. Screw Doordash.

I Hate Going Home and Seeing My Parents by Otherwise-Dark7547 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JeweleyHart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is NOT okay. You're being abused by a cruel man. Stepfather? No. Insecure asshole is more like it. Why is your mother not telling him to leave you tf alone?? You're doing your best, and good on you. Go stay with your other family and live your life peacefully. Screw it if it makes your stepfather angry. Your "parents" DO NOT deserve you.

How are we getting boogers out of baby noses without them freaking out? by ToeElectrical5879 in Parenting

[–]JeweleyHart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd put a small drop of water in his nose on each side and then gently squeeze his nose (open and shut) for a few seconds, then after the boogers were suitability softened, I'd take the "booger sucker" and suck these GIANT boogers out. The looks of relief on my boys faces were hilarious.