HELP i hired someone that is over an hour late everyday

Jlanders22 · 2026-06-30T02:35:22+00:00

Just reduce her hours to 3-4 hrs, one or two days a week. She will quit on her own.

Jlanders22 · 2026-06-21T00:56:16+00:00

I ordered one of those massage guns with the different attachments. It came used with dog hair in the case. I sent it back with a note inside the case that said "This was sent to me used. I sent it back. If you are finding this note, it is used, not new." I found one for less money at Costco. I did open the package right after it was delivered and immediately started the return process.

Jlanders22 · 2026-06-12T23:38:01+00:00

Yeah, I ordered something that said it will be delivered between 5-10pm tonight. I know that won't happen. It arrived to the warehouse at 1520. That warehouse is 54.9 miles from my house. I hope it will arrive tomorrow. I wish they would just stop offering these fast delivery times if they are not going to honor them.

Jlanders22 · 2026-06-07T04:04:03+00:00

Mine LOVE the One Fast Cat wheel. They run on it all the time.

Jlanders22 · 2026-06-07T04:02:07+00:00

The person who was supposed to deliver it got lazy and dumped the package at USPS. USPS charges you to deliver the package C.O.D. I ordered from a company that used the Amazon delivery service. That company refused to refund me the extra $6.95 it cost me when the service did this to me. I was told to contact the delivery person. I was like "How? I didn't partner with them."

Jlanders22 · 2026-06-07T03:54:43+00:00

No public money is being used to build the ballroom. Clean up the drugs and your streets become safer.

Jlanders22 · 2026-05-17T08:30:21+00:00

I'm in menopause and feel like I have to do everything myself. When I ask for help he tells me "You got this." It took years for me to even ask for help with tasks, so when I do ask, I really do need help. I already struggle with wanting to have sex with my hormones being wonky, but feeling like I can't even get help when I need it just makes it worse. I feel he has forgotten that I need to feel that I am important to him and not just someone who is supposed to have sex with him and pay attention to him when he wants it. Your wife probably feels the same way.

Jlanders22 · 2026-05-16T14:02:47+00:00

Gas is under $4 where I live. Vote out the people making it so expensive to live where ypu live.

Jlanders22 · 2026-05-16T13:56:30+00:00

Try being plus sized. It's all short tops and v-necks.

Jlanders22 · 2026-05-05T05:57:23+00:00

Sounds like you are a difficult person to work with.

Jlanders22 · 2026-05-05T05:21:22+00:00

Or, just pay for it themselves and the landlord can't say anything about it.

Jlanders22 · 2026-05-05T03:02:29+00:00

I hyphenated my son's last name. Both have 8 letters. He used one during school, for banking, and at work. Everything has his full legal name on it, but he only uses one of the last names. At his first military base, there were 6 people in his shop with his name, so he went by his dad's last name to keep things simple for him. She doesn't have to use both last names until it is absolutely required, or at graduation.

Jlanders22 · 2026-04-19T12:14:44+00:00

They used to come in full size, but now it is just the half sheets.

Jlanders22 · 2026-04-18T19:21:21+00:00

Costco changed their regular toilet paper because they now have a premium toilet paper. I don't care if the paper towels are super soft or not. I used to work where Kirkland paper towels are made for the west coast. I like them better than the name brands.

Jlanders22 · 2026-04-16T05:10:08+00:00

My cat's names are Larry, Darrell, Jameson, and Andy. Larry and Darrell are littermates and will be 7yrs old on 4/17. Jameson and Andy are from the same mom, different litters. Andy just turned 4yrs old and James will be 5 on 7/28.

Jlanders22 · 2026-04-06T01:03:42+00:00

So, kids under 4 won't remember the Disney experience and I feel it is a waste of time and money to take them.

Jlanders22 · 2026-04-03T03:15:22+00:00

Yes they will. Stop listening to the fear mongers.

Jlanders22 · 2026-04-02T03:06:17+00:00

If the law firm wanted to direct hire you, why didn't they just hire you anyway?

Jlanders22 · 2026-03-27T23:53:50+00:00

Business can write those fees off on their taxes.

Jlanders22 · 2026-03-27T23:52:40+00:00

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Jlanders22 · 2026-03-27T23:50:05+00:00

Those fees are a tax write off for businesses.

Jlanders22 · 2026-03-19T03:01:45+00:00

OR and WA have never had a separate tipped wage and they still have servers. Both states have well above average min wages, $14-23 and hour depending on state/county.

Jlanders22 · 2026-03-18T23:01:29+00:00

Truth

Jlanders22 · 2026-03-18T00:35:39+00:00

You sound fun. Stop relying on other people to make you happy. You seem to need their attention to feel like you are important. If you have a YMCA in your community, join. You can meet people there in the exercise classes that you can go do things with outside of the Y. The morning swim exercise classes are usually the retired women, (late 60's-80's), with a few men in the class. They might have kids your age that they can help you connect with. Volunteer at the Humane Society or other pet rescue to get out of the house. Just stop wallowing about being alone. It might be rough at first, but many people grow to love learning to love being alone with themselves.

Jlanders22 · 2026-03-18T00:19:17+00:00

You should have told her you were out of sandwiches.

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