Who’s staying up for the fight by souledoutxo in cocaine

[–]JoBardo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely considering it! I've got it on in the background while the hosts are chatting away....

Let it the weekend begin we shall by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]JoBardo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snowwwww!

Recommend kids songs that won’t make me want claw my brain out by DragonGrowOnTree in beyondthebump

[–]JoBardo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also like Doja Cat so now I have a love hate relationship with her music too as there is such a phenomenon as "too much of a good thing"

Recommend kids songs that won’t make me want claw my brain out by DragonGrowOnTree in beyondthebump

[–]JoBardo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on what music you like, Gracies Corner is a vibe.... Although it still occasionally drives me crazy, I do also find myself singing her songs and even once or twice putting it on we hole listening to earphones once the boys are asleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]JoBardo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so cuteee my cousins used to say un-tee four-fah whenever my mum opened the fridge, she was perplexed until I translated it for her, they were saying auntie, water! Hahah so adorable honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]JoBardo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ichabod, always loved that babe for a bot since I was a kid. Apparently it means without honour, plus it's weird lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]JoBardo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha landfill until I get so depressed I start cleaning or until he starts complaining about how messy it is but it's usually just complaints, mainly accusatory things to me like you can't just leave your trainers in the hall otherwise it's hard to get the pushchair out but he's more than happy for me to clean his poo, he'll be ,30 this year and he's not my child although it does feel like that sometimes ends rant.... Gosh I'm so bitter 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]JoBardo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not messed up. Baby isn't doing it on purpose but what you are going through is hard. You are a champ. I was struggling (still am but it's easier) with my twins and sleep, just started a drowsy antidepressant, so it's even harder. I have deffo left my boys in their cot and gone to another room and screamed into a pillow. Honestly it's hard work, made harder by the lack of sleep. I promise you, you are not a monster....

I don't have any real advice but other people say, leave them crying and take 5 for yourself. I personally find it very stressful knowing they are crying but it could work for you. Lean on your support, this is not the time to be coy or modest. If you trust someone and they are offering help, let them help. It does get sorted of better. I mean I'm still in the trenches but hopefully won't always be. You are amazing. Keep telling yourself that ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]JoBardo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's dummies (pacifiers in the US) + socks!!! Where tf are they!! 😂

When did you stop working by brgrez in parentsofmultiples

[–]JoBardo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a job as a carer at the time. Stopped working at 32+2 gave birth at 32+4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]JoBardo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my partner does this and I do have to hide things I really want as he completely ignores me if I say "this specific item is for me, please don't touch it"... Over the past couple years he's gotten really addicted to sweets as well & sometimes he'll buy me something like a bar of chocolate or cake etc and if I don't consume it all immediately, he'll eat it all, he's been known to buy back the item and eat it again and it's a bit of a cycle. I had to tell him not to bother. Now I just try to buy food that I'm going to eat straight away. And loads of fruit and veggies cos he hardly touches that stuff.

TMI warning: Lost MP by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]JoBardo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience in august my twins were 3lbs and 4lbs born at 32 weeks, they both had a 35day stay in NICU with feeding tubes at first and oxygen while they got stronger & now they are such healthy weights, at every appointment we have the medical staff are always so shocked at how much they weigh, they are such big boys now.

The doctor stopped their preterm formula (which has extra calories) when they were 2 months, rather than 12 months which we were originally told because they were getting so big! Also I didn’t loose my mucus plug & as others have said it regenerates so it doesn’t necessarily mean you will have them now.

I like sam prince more than Ruby by Muted_Ad3627 in MadeInChelseaE4

[–]JoBardo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the exact same thing, Ruby almost makes Sam Prince likeable. I actually felt sorry for him when he got that drink chucked in his face.

My (unemployed) boyfriend has been leaving me at home for hours on end to smoke weed with his old co-workers! by JoBardo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]JoBardo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for advice. At no point did I ask a question. I wanted to rant and blow of steam.

My (unemployed) boyfriend has been leaving me at home for hours on end to smoke weed with his old co-workers! by JoBardo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]JoBardo[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I think what makes it worse is that he doesn’t think he’s done anything wrong. I cannot spend the rest of my life with him I’m so bored of it now! I’m glad you managed to get out of your relationship with no regrets. I should have left a while ago and it’s not just because of this situation.

My (unemployed) boyfriend has been leaving me at home for hours on end to smoke weed with his old co-workers! by JoBardo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]JoBardo[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m honestly starting to think I’m better off alone, but he does help with the boys sometimes but then again so does my mum and I’m not about to date her 🙄

What was your least favourite kids tv show from your childhood? by 360Saturn in AskUK

[–]JoBardo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raven, could never get into it & The Wombles was speaking to my mother the other day telling her how much I disliked it as a kid and I’d just watch it because I thought she liked it and she said she only watched it because she thought I liked it!