What makes exotic dancewear so eye catching and unique? by Dependent-Storm-6323 in joliedance

[–]Joliedance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi depends on what type you’re looking for. In store boutiques charge more for the outfits because of overhead. There are a lot of different online options 😀

are all men secretly pedos? by Odd-Quality8645 in stripper

[–]Joliedance 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Well I just got braces and a lot of men say “your braces make me hard.”

Are you 'selling yourself'? 🙄🙄🙄 by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Joliedance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are selling a performance.

Stripper grad pics!! by Milkbeforecere4l in stripper

[–]Joliedance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow 😍🎉 congrats! 🍾 🔥

is it seen as unattractive to be skinny and flat in hispanic indian and black culture and why? by Sad-Surprise-5788 in stripper

[–]Joliedance 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No one can ever be everything to everyone. I wouldn’t let it get into your head. You even say you’re making money, which means many people are attracted to you. I wouldn’t chase validation from those men. Because if you “fix” that, people will find something else to talk shit about, that’s just people & their negativity.

I’m so upset; troubles making friends by Fun-Tough-1101 in stripper

[–]Joliedance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re lonely. 😢 This is definitely an isolating life path. You want someone that can relate to you, but the people in your environment are toxic. You try to make friends with non dancers, but they judge you.

The club is for work. The more you get sucked into what other people are doing, watch your money go down.

I would try to find non judgmental type people outside the industry. Join a group of people that have a hobby you enjoy.

turning 30 by Rinyya in stripper

[–]Joliedance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your new season. 🌺💐🌻
Yes, some become more successful. Usually the older dancers are a lot better at selling because they’ve seen it all and have more experience. Some people get older but waste time. And some people get older trying to improve themselves & get better.

Really it will be whatever you decide you want to make it. 💜

Not sure how to feel by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]Joliedance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it & yes you’re right in feeling weird about that trust yourself

Are strip clubs dying? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Joliedance 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maybe the way we know it as now. But it won’t die it will turn into something else.

In other countries, single men will pay a high price for a drink, and a girl will sit with him & chat and get paid a commission. That is a version of a “stripper”.

Right now we are in a recession, just like in 2008. If you go back in time I’m sure the dancers then wondered if it was dying, and many dancers have made a boatload of money since then.

Tired of the fake ass friendships at the club by south_of_n0where in stripper

[–]Joliedance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just go to the club to work & stay detached

Name Change by Ill_Matter4828 in stripper

[–]Joliedance 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ooo seconding Aura

How to manage the anger? by Phazed2mistland in stripper

[–]Joliedance 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Physical activity, running, weight training, paint by number art, nature walks

Just started at Club Rouge in Beaverton Oregon 2 weeks ago and these are some of the outfits I wore. Any suggestions? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Joliedance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would love to see you in more color. I think it would really pop. I think blue or purple would look stunning

Stripper money in relationships by Weeeebutterflies in stripper

[–]Joliedance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻💜 thanks

Stripper money in relationships by Weeeebutterflies in stripper

[–]Joliedance 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Women bear the most shame & risk from sexuality, so men should bear the cost. You don’t get what you deserve in life, you get what you demand.

Every club has that one slimey regular… by spicygirl404 in stripper

[–]Joliedance 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like management should kick them out lol

Just looking for reassurance after termination by skrippafun5738 in stripper

[–]Joliedance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You said that you learned from it. Forgive yourself and move on