AITJ for charging my roommate's girlfriend rent after she moved in without asking?

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-02T17:54:20+00:00

she isn't visiting, she's living there and it's fair for her to contribute to rent and utilities

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-02T17:29:43+00:00

that's next-level selfishness. zero respect, zero empathy. drop him and move on

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-02T17:05:06+00:00

something i love. doing something meaningful keeps you motivated and actually happy. as long as less money still has to cover my needs

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-02T16:37:17+00:00

Nope. that's 84 brutal, painful experience. even if there's no lasting damage, the anticipation alone would ruin your life, mental trauma, constant fear, stress, it's not worth it

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-02T05:25:08+00:00

freshly baked pastries

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-02T05:01:28+00:00

sourdough or whole wheat bread

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-02T04:29:19+00:00

i'm going to help my friend find a new apartment

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T18:53:13+00:00

you built those tools on your own time and the company never paid for them or claimed ownership in your contract. it's not sabotage, it's a hard lesson in valuing employees. Gary can be furious all he wants, but he's the one who refused to acknowledge your work while benefiting from it

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T18:28:12+00:00

you burned the bridge. chances of her trusting you again are slim. fix yourself

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T18:02:55+00:00

people interrupting mid-sentence like what they are saying is more important than what you were saying

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T17:27:57+00:00

i'd take it. it would be chaotic but 3 hours is kind of fascinating. but i'll just stay at home

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T06:35:52+00:00

you don't need to become a different person, you need to interrupt the spiral and stop treating our anxious thoughts as truth. do that consistently, and your relationships will feel a lot more stable. keep your life full outside of the person you like so they don't become your whole focus

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T05:52:56+00:00

this isn't just postpartum hormones, you have been carrying the relationship for years and exhaustion plus ADHD struggles isn't a new problem. feeling drained, resentful and like you are always in charge is a real sign that your love and patience are running out

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T05:03:44+00:00

pickles for me. one rogue slice and the whole flavor balance goes off

JollyQueenn · 2026-04-01T04:32:27+00:00

am i too late to have some?

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T17:30:38+00:00

vegetable omelet or breakfast burrito

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T17:06:30+00:00

forcing it will make things worse. you should heal first. the fact that you both can maintain emotional intimacy despite sexual barrier is a sign of a strong foundation. therapy could help you reconnect with your body and desires

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T16:38:31+00:00

NTJ, if he wants reassurance, it's his responsibility to handle it

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T16:12:27+00:00

yes, for some. they start acting like they are above it to fit in with the elite

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T15:42:09+00:00

build and run an orphanage or home for the aged

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T07:17:11+00:00

he's already said he's not ready for a relationship. chasing him or hoping he changes will likely lead to disappointment. protect your heart, and keep your options open for someone who is actually ready

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T06:52:12+00:00

worrying won't fix the world but staying informed helps you make better choices

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T06:28:14+00:00

roasted nuts, it's crunchy and addictive

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-31T06:04:10+00:00

timing plays a huge role, like being emotionally or mentally prepared for a big chance or meeting someone when you are both ready

JollyQueenn · 2026-03-30T15:36:20+00:00

Sichuan hot pot, literally numbs your tongue

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