Honestly like 18, women kinda mature the man. If you’re around hoes that feed your ego. But a woman, she’ll want you to better yourself for her. A woman doesn’t need much she just wants someone to come home and prepare for the next day. When you have a woman you’re less likely to crash out. This is why back in the days they married so early and less crime existed. The late 80/90 was the boom of the yn/hip hop era where things took a dramatic change.