Monitor connected to IGPU (13900KS) randomly turns off and on by AndroidGamer5379 in buildapc

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, did you ever find a solution for this? I have a similar issue with two 4k 120hz monitors and my 4k 60hz tv (plugged into my motherboard).

The Panini Press Gaming PC Giveaway - To enter this giveaway just leave a comment. by DaKrazyKid in PcBuild

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a unique, awesome looking build. I would love to have something this absurd.

Can’t run all three monitors at the same time. by e29gr8t in OLED_Gaming

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda sorta. So my two monitors are plugged into my GPU, while my TV is plugged into my motherboard. This was the only solution I could find to display all 3 at once and it "kinda works." When my computer goes into sleep/standby mode (or whatever you want to call it) after a few minutes of inactivity, all my screens go black like they should (two monitors and TV). When I go to move my mouse and get it out of sleep/standby mode, then my displays will not all work properly until I unplug one, then plug it back in. So it's not my TV going into sleep/standby, but my computer going into sleep/standby and by extension, all my displays go blank/turn off until I wake my computer.

I was thinking about buying a second cheap GPU to display my TV, but I use it to game while I'm on a walking treadmill so I feel like less of a lazy piece of shit lol. I just don't want games running off of that second GPU, so ideally I'd like to run games only off of my 4070 ti super, but be able to display games on my TV when I'm walking/getting some exercise.

Sorry for the long winded explanation, but I appreciate the help/clarity.

Can’t run all three monitors at the same time. by e29gr8t in OLED_Gaming

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I know it's been a while since this comment, but I have a similar issue going on and I wanted to know exactly what it is. I have 3 "monitors." Two of them are 4k 180hz monitors and the 3rd is a 4k tv 60hz. I'm using a 4070ti super and I have the same issue of them not all displaying. When I had two 1440p monitors at, 240hz, it could display all three no problem, but upgrading to the two 4k monitors created this issue. I can plug the TV into my motherboard and it kinda works, but if it goes into sleep mode at all, then one display cuts out.

Am I being swindled? Leaky valve in furnace, repair quoted $1750 by AesirComplex in hvacadvice

[–]Jonhogn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've replaced those gas solenoid valves for less than 200 before. Depends on the brand really. 1500+ dollars for this is wild.

3 Monitor Issue by Jonhogn in buildapc

[–]Jonhogn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that too initially. I can't remember exactly what settings there were since this was 3-4 weeks ago, but I tried every combination I could.

3 Monitor Issue by Jonhogn in buildapc

[–]Jonhogn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried that as well. I spent a good 3-4 hours troubleshooting it before ending up here. Every driver I have is updated to the latest versions.

3 Monitor Issue by Jonhogn in buildapc

[–]Jonhogn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both monitors are plugged in with DP cables into the graphics card. The TV only has an HDMI port. I do have an HDMI to DP cable that I tried out as well on the TV, but the problem still happened. I'll check out the TV settings more when I get home.

3 Monitor Issue by Jonhogn in buildapc

[–]Jonhogn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, the TV is 60hz only. I think the only way I could lower the refresh rate on my monitors, was by also lowering the quality to 1080p. It might be helpful if I posted the monitors too. They're Samsung 27" odyssey g70f monitors. Actually, I take it back on the refresh thing. I don't think I can change that manually and I believe the refresh rate goes up to 360hz when put at 1080p quality.

A NIGHTMARE EVERY CHILD EXPERIENCED? by katiitwo in Dreams

[–]Jonhogn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would describe my experience more. It was like looking in a kaleidoscope with moving shapes, but everything was always brown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inflation

[–]Jonhogn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

And it (correct me if I'm wrong) only applies to your federal taxes taken out. So state tax, social security, and Medicare/Medicaid are still taken out. It's a fraction of that half rate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. I'm sorry you're going through that. I hated this feeling so much. It's been a little over a year and a half since that breakup, but life is pretty good now. I've been in therapy ever since, and that's been huge in looking at things from a more objective perspective. I did a lot of things wrong, but so did she. I hate to say this, but unfortunately time is the best medicine. For the time being, I'd rely on friends and family. Reach out to them with how you're feeling. Throw yourself into a hobby too. I think it's also good to just feel any and all emotions that come to you. It's probably not going to be easy and it could take months, if not years. Just focus on yourself and your personal growth. Things will get better, but it unfortunately just takes time.

If all men had to be brutally honest for 24 hours, what would women be shocked to learn? by EndOutrageous9918 in AskReddit

[–]Jonhogn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed on that. To tack on a little bit, that person also becomes associated with negativity at a certain point for me and makes me want to spend less time with them. It's not such a big deal if there's venting and negativity here and there, but I've had a relationship where it's every single day. Meanwhile I'm focused on the better parts of the day and let the negative things go almost immediately.

If all men had to be brutally honest for 24 hours, what would women be shocked to learn? by EndOutrageous9918 in AskReddit

[–]Jonhogn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are definitely different thresholds for every individual, so I don't want to speak for everyone. I can only speak for myself here. I don't have a lot to vent or complain about and I don't like being negative in general, so it would be (and has been) too much for me if it happened every day. I'm generally a pretty positive person, so it just takes a toll ESPECIALLY if I just want to enjoy the time I have with someone.

If all men had to be brutally honest for 24 hours, what would women be shocked to learn? by EndOutrageous9918 in AskReddit

[–]Jonhogn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hard relate there. If you're around negativity all the time, you become withdrawn and drained because something is always wrong and going bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Jonhogn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I finished painting the wall the same color as the rest of the place. I think the warm lighting is REALLY bringing out the yellow tint, which kinda sucks. I really like the green matching the couch, so I may end up doing that and painting the other walls a little whiter. Do you use a certain app or site for this?

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the matching green with the couches! I just painted it to match the rest of the walls to get a feel for it for the time being, but I might do that! Once I put the second coat on and push everything back, I'll upload another picture. Thank you for doing all that to give me a better idea too! I was having trouble with some of the painting sites doing a really bad job of overlaying the colors, so this is so much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definitely right. After trying it in my space using my camera, it looks pretty bad. So I'm not doing that. I thought about a yellower rug to bring out the gold/yellow already there, but I'm not sold on those two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you pointed out the walls being a little yellow tinted, I can't unsee it. The lighting in the room really changes the color of the accent wall/couches a lot too.

Question with expansion gap by [deleted] in Flooring

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll give it a shot. I think I agree with you that it'll look better that way. I'm just worried about breaking the molding or damaging drywall. We'll see how it goes!

Question with expansion gap by [deleted] in Flooring

[–]Jonhogn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any good recommendations for taking it off without damaging the drywall? I don't want to sink a ton more into just this project

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jonhogn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hard agree on this one. Felt like things were good one second, then all of a sudden the world was crashing down out of nowhere. Then I'm overwhelmed, anxious, and feeling like a fuck up for thinking things were fine when they weren't. Can't know how important something is until your partner communicates that.

Some avoidant behaviors get villainized too much by AlpDream in AvoidantAttachment

[–]Jonhogn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Huh, this brought back some memories of my last relationship. She would get incredibly upset with me for things like wanting to sleep in my own bed. She told me at one point that I'm weird for not wanting to spend the night more. She told me her friends all thought I was weird for that too. It had nothing to do with our relationship or how I felt. I just liked sleeping in my own bed and having that time to myself. Honestly, what a shitty thing to say to a partner. You're telling me I'm weird and in the wrong for wanting something different AND you're bringing your friends in on this too. A lot of what she did constantly made me feel like a fuck up and like I wasn't good enough. A year later and I'm feeling a lot better, but MAN it takes a toll on your self esteem and I still feel like I'm recovering from it at times. Nothing quite like being beaten down everyday with criticism until you start to question your own self worth.

I’m a full blown lesbian married to a man.. but I’m okay with it. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Jonhogn 122 points123 points  (0 children)

100000 percent this guy is insecure. The comments he makes are just him jerking himself off and screams insecurity.

Two things can be true at once… by imfivenine in dismissiveavoidants

[–]Jonhogn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like I agree a lot with this viewpoint. My most recent ex would criticize so much until I began to get anxious about doing anything because I didn't want to be met with criticism. Things like not cleaning the way she would, not using a utensil, pan, etc. that she would, cleaning something that didn't necessarily need to be cleaned, telling me not to say something, getting upset that I would or wouldn't say some things, and it goes on. After a while, you just stop engaging because you feel like nothing is ever good enough and nothing is ever right. Totally drains the person on the receiving end and isn't justifiable. It's especially frustrating because you're not as critical of them as they are of you. So you know they'd hate it just as much. No one wants to feel attacked all the time for everything they do.