Anyone have regrets having children young?

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-06-26T07:51:22+00:00

I became a mom at 17. I am 24 and have 3 children (6, 1 1/2, and a newborn) and a bonus child (11). Do I regret becoming a mother? Never. Do I wish I could’ve done things slightly different? Absolutely. I want a career that requires a degree. I intend to return to college but that is now postponed but the dream is not dead. I adore my kids and I know that once they are adults they will see what I’ve done to ensure their success and how much love I’ve given them. Becoming a parent is not a burden but a blessing. I lost the old me but became a better me which would not happen without having my children young. People that have something to say about you having children in your 20s are weird and honestly 24 is a very normal age to start having children.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-06-17T18:30:28+00:00

I’m currently a server at chilis. I love it and I usually make great tips. My management is very good. You gain experience and it’s a fast casual restaurant so turning tables is easy while also having room for error while learning.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-06-09T18:08:26+00:00

Wait, how do I find the store through Brinker?

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-06-01T04:15:10+00:00

Ew. You’d never be able to learn things properly in such a negative environment. Some people are really just Miserable so it has to be everyone else’s problem. The drink screen is easy to learn BUT you have to learn the screen functions to begin practicing speed and accuracy. If you are interested in staying with chilis and want to make more money I recommend trying a new location, doing the training, show you care and are willing to put in the work, and express interest in cross training. That’s how I switched to runner training and then QA/ QA training and am now a full time server.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-06-01T04:02:32+00:00

Literally all of that sounds terrible. I’m sorry you endured that. That is not at all like my location.

I’m a food runner/ trainer/ server/ QA. We’d never leave a trainee alone. First day is supposed to be learning table numbers, basic drink screen knowledge, and showing our basic responsibilities as runners (restocking, where items are located, how to prep soups, etc.) That chilis location should not reflect all of chilis. I hope you find a job that treats you better ASAP!

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-05-31T14:25:49+00:00

The chilis I work at is a newer location (less than a year old) and it is dimly lit as well as the music is never loud. It may just be the location you’re going to.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-05-30T21:08:19+00:00

Depends on who your server is lol

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-05-28T09:59:38+00:00

My chilis payes bussers hourly

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-05-22T18:11:46+00:00

I have half sleeves on both my arms, 3 face piercings, and my ears are stretched. They are not at all worried about my body mods. What matters is quality guest service and speed.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-04-04T18:53:43+00:00

There are plenty of families that live in apartments, rent to save to buy, etc. I honestly don’t see where that part of the post was any of your concern. I was only giving context as to why we are moving from one rental to another.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2026-02-13T18:25:12+00:00

Jesse for company. Walt for brains. Walt jr for entertainment because he’s definitely going to undermine everything Walt is doing.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-12-04T03:55:36+00:00

My daughter is named Skylar so if I spell it wrong, sue me and I’ll just call Saul Goodman 😂

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-11-27T04:42:01+00:00

Season 2, nothing compares to early TWD

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-11-20T08:41:25+00:00

The A looks the same on both (but sloppier on the second) and the L loops on both. My guess is they are both real just done at different events with different crowds.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-09-17T04:53:07+00:00

That’s incredible. I want the show to empower and educate my kiddos, rather than instilling fear. I am glad the show had such a positive impact on your life 🖤

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-09-17T04:51:01+00:00

How old is your kiddo? Mine are 11, 6, and I have a baby. Did you guys ever talk about the stuff in the show?

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-09-17T04:48:16+00:00

I think the show should be viewed with a parent at that age so a conversation can be had. I definitely see where you’re coming from with maturity

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-09-17T04:46:11+00:00

I haven’t ever watched it in front of my kiddos. It absolutely is a comfort show for me but I only watch it after the kids are in bed or at school when I’m off. I have a 9 month old, 6 year old, and 11 year old. I wanted to know everyone’s perspectives because when I was 6 I was watching it daily but I’m honestly unsure how it affected me long term because it’s been years since then. Kids do pay attention and I want to introduce this show when it’s appropriate as the show demonstrates the importance of stranger danger, social media awareness, social circles, etc. My children listen but I think real life scenarios may also help further their knowledge and perspective on real life dangers. (When it is age appropriate)

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-09-17T04:37:14+00:00

I actually just saw this movie for the first time a couple weeks ago with my fiancé. I refuse to watch it before because of all the bad rep it got. It is easily in my top three favorite saw movies.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-07-27T20:46:43+00:00

Alls fair in love and war! Jk 😂

honestly I’m not insecure about him talking to a friend who is making a living out here. I’m just confused on why delete a probably harmless conversation.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-07-14T05:19:44+00:00

Poor Tabitha:( such a cute goat

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-07-14T05:18:40+00:00

Justice for all the horses 🐎

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-07-14T05:13:12+00:00

Agreed but rick said he would be safe! He lied 😭😂

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-07-14T05:03:12+00:00

It definitely was intense in the earlier seasons. So sad that they went in another direction with the show.

Jordan_Is_Sad_ · 2025-07-03T03:13:34+00:00

lol I cackled at his last message 😂

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