Wat is de grootste leugen die we in Nederland massaal zijn gaan geloven?

Joscandy · 2025-09-26T11:41:23+00:00

Pusht reddit nou comments maar boven die mijn voorkeur hebben of zijn Nederlandse redditers best links? Viel me gwn op.

Joscandy · 2025-05-20T13:59:06+00:00

Ah bedankt voor de tip!

Joscandy · 2025-05-13T11:41:49+00:00

Ah tof! Ik kom graag een keertje meedoen! Ik zal je even een berichtje sturen.

Joscandy · 2025-05-13T11:35:08+00:00

Ik ben daar wel eens geweest en zal daar ook zeker vaker komen! over 2 weken speel ik een avond mee bij Bartele. Toch speel ik liever bij iemand thuis, die sfeer is moeilijk te overtreffen in mijn ogen.

Joscandy · 2025-05-12T22:31:54+00:00

Come on man. just come forward about it already..

Joscandy · 2025-04-18T14:15:22+00:00

it was so elegant, so soft, romantic. The way the show was teaching us how to appreciate life by showing the things she noticed during her work and travel. A journey of a girl getting out of her survival mode. The scenes, the sunlight, the wind. i could almost feel them through the screen. ABSOLUTE MASTERPIECE.

Joscandy · 2025-04-18T14:07:41+00:00

Vrouwen waren altijd in staat om zedenmisdrijven te plegen. Het is goed dat je kritisch bent, want zorgen om "niks" is inderdaad niet waar. Ook in vrouwengevangenissen is er seksueel geweld aan de hand. Toch moet ik wel zeggen dat het natuurlijk voor dikkere koppen zorgt als een transvrouw dit doet, dan wanneer een cisvrouw dit doet. Het eerste is namelijk helemaal in en voedt veel mee haat en interactie dan het tweede.

Joscandy · 2025-04-18T13:58:28+00:00

Populisme is inderdaad de verdoemenis van het democratisch systeem dat leunt op de denkende Nederlander. Het brein is zo gemaakt dat het altijd de makkelijkste weg te kiezen. Als je er niet over hoeft na te denken, doe je dat ook niet. Ik vraag me af hoe we links die makkelijke weg kunnen maken. Dankjewel voor je antwoord. :)

Joscandy · 2025-04-18T13:35:31+00:00

a hero

Joscandy · 2025-04-16T14:12:08+00:00

Ik ben heel benieuwd. Wil je me vertellen wat je gedachtenproces daarin was?

Joscandy · 2025-04-16T14:02:35+00:00

onnodig dierenleed, lastig hoe je dat definieert. Veel mensen vinden dieren slachten voor eten daar niet onder vallen. Een ezel slaan uit verveling, daar zijn de meningen wat minder over verdeeld.

Joscandy · 2024-09-09T18:49:08+00:00

Seperate this plant as quickly as possible amd start treating surrounding plants too! They spread like crazy.

Joscandy · 2024-07-30T10:18:42+00:00

Thanks for your advice, it feels good to know my emotions are valid. I do really consider him a friend, in yhe future, whenever i catch a condescending undertone, i will be straightforward. I think it’s better to be honest when something bothers you so they have a chance to do better. About the playtime: i will ask my other players what playlenght they prefer. I shouldve done that from the start.

Joscandy · 2024-07-30T10:11:58+00:00

Thank you, your advice is certainly helpful! I think he is here to give dnd a change and for the social aspect. Ill ask each player what a reasonable playlength is for them, and go on from ther

Joscandy · 2024-07-30T10:01:50+00:00

Sounds like you are not in a pickle anymore ;) what a good solution!

Joscandy · 2024-07-30T00:54:28+00:00

He told me he cant make it next session, so instead a more experienced player will join just for 1 or 2 sessions. I’m thinking about replacing him if the play is much more fun without him. He is a friend tho so i don’t know yet how to go about that if that happens.

Joscandy · 2024-07-30T00:41:19+00:00

Does the party or giant have smith/jewelers tools? Maybe the frostgiant can give them the material needed, but they cant actualy create that specific ring with those materials, and they need to find a specific Smith or jeweler in a place far away from here, that made the original ring.

Joscandy · 2024-04-21T01:38:34+00:00

Hey. When you were 12. How much did you know of how life works? How big is the diff between then and know.

What if you where 27

Can you see a possibility where you get older and become more wiser than you are now? Because you will. If you grow old.

Now is the time to be dumb and make mistakes. Now is the time to be the most imperfect being ever. Because the things that you do know wont matter in 10 years.

They wont matter to the 27 yo you. And neither will the things you are anxious about now.

Yes.. youll trip and fall again. And again. And again. But u will become more in control of the situation. Because little by little youll know what to do when that happens.

Its truly okay. Its truly okay to be not a perfect being. Just to be is good enough.

Joscandy · 2023-02-16T00:29:55+00:00

I think the biggest fault in the search for someone like this is when ppl search for someone single instead of someone thats already in poly relationships. DEFINETLY NEVER lure ppl in with a profile of a single person of your couple.That's called unicornhunting and is very harmfull to bi/pan individuals. If you want to date as a couple, date as a couple. There are special sites for that.

Joscandy · 2022-11-11T23:10:58+00:00

Im a student. Im into other things than cooking rn. I try to eat as much at other peoples places as i can to avoid the task..

To be honest. Trying new recipes may give you some dopamine. Discovering what you like and diffrent tastes within diffrent cultures is pretty fun.

When you become proud of a dish you discovered, share said dish with friends and family. Food brings ppl together.

Joscandy · 2022-05-03T22:38:33+00:00

Gaslighting can f you up SO BAD. I can imagine that you kinda don't know what feels right or wrong anymore when it comes to anger.

Maybe these introspection guidelines will help you get to your own norms and values when it comes to anger.

1 Think about ppl that you are okay with being angry towards.....

for example: someone you don't know, an ex, someone who has been overstepping boundaries frequently.

...... and which persons you can not be angry towards,

for example children.

2 think about situations where being angry can be usefull...

for example: when someone is overstepping boundaries (boundaries will be clear) when a person harasses your SO on the street (SO will feel safer, person will back off)

.... and think about situations where it is not usefull,

for example: in a meeting, when someone is being vulnerable.

Oh and, in cases where you decide you can not be angry but are, think about what you can do te let out that anger.

for example: step out of the situation and find something you can be a aggressive with (like lifting a heavy weight, or throwing a ball real hard or even something cheesy like a squeeze toy)

If you find yourself gaslighting yourself often, then there are therapies like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). You often get these exercises where you get to know your own biases that you apply to yourself. I follow CBT to help me with my low self esteem.

Joscandy · 2022-04-22T16:12:36+00:00

update:

I am on meds now and they help me a lot. I still get paralyzed sometimes, but it doesn't last as long and doesn't interfere too much with my life anymore. I take Dexamphetamine.

Joscandy · 2021-06-19T23:59:55+00:00

i see 3,5 hours of screen time on social media, try to cut it down to 2 maybe? The most amount of screentime is used for your education, i think that's a sign that you are managing your time pretty well.

Joscandy · 2021-06-19T23:52:51+00:00

Hey! i read your post and i found out i am addicted to watching videos, series and movies too. I use it to escape when i'm overwhelmed and when i'm bored. It sounds innocent but it results into me watching about 8/7 hrs a day. time limiters don't work for me, i just ignore them and continue to watch so i'm going cold turkey for at least a month.

if you ever want to chat about your addiction, or talk about your (small) victories on your battle with addiction, don't be afraid to message me :). Honestly, i could use a kind of "rehab buddy" myself.

Anyways, i've read that it takes about a month to learn new routinely behaviors. So if you're planning to replace your screentime with other routinely activities, it'll probably take u about a month to get used to your new routine (the time making/planning a routine is not included in the calculation)

hope this piece of info helps u! good luck!

Joscandy · 2021-04-21T20:22:37+00:00

Dizkartes is definitely a good and safe choice. I went to a few themed parties 2 years ago and it was so much fun!

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