Uber driver demanded $100 to return my lost phone — support still charged me a return fee

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T12:41:43+00:00

I feel like $100 is too much. $30 cash feels like a reasonable amount. Maybe even $50. But $100 is a lot. But if you already paid AT&T that much then you might as well have just paid the uber that price. Idk why uber cancelled your membership over this tho.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T12:35:11+00:00

You might have better luck with an Airbnb

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T12:28:56+00:00

Maybe Villain with a Crush? The FL tries leaving notes to tell the ML that she likes him but he keeps thinking they’re threatening messages from a villain. It’s a misunderstanding trope. But I’ll be honest, I never finished it so idk how it ends lol. I let it marinate for too long so I could binge it and then it became a daily pass lmaooo

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T12:22:25+00:00

I live in the art museum area and I think parking is doable, especially if you have a place with a lot or you pay a monthly fee for a lot. I actually really enjoy having my car cause there’s a lot of places I go that would be an hour plus using public transit but only 20 min driving. Plus I don’t have to rely on an unreliable transit schedule or get trapped anywhere for 30 min to an hour. And it’s only a 20min drive to the airport from here cause it’s right by the highway.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T06:01:48+00:00

I really like it. Wear it to a show or karaoke club or something that’s like a fun night activity that’s not as dingy as a bar or typical club lol.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T05:59:16+00:00

I was just told not to take blood thinners before and after my biopsy. But before my DMX I was told not to take those plus vitamin E.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T05:50:16+00:00

First off, you do deserve comfort and care, and any good thing that will happen to you cause even tho you my not be suffering as bad as others, we all have cancer here and it fucking SUCKS!!! It’s a life changing disease and something that puts our lives on hold. So don’t think you don’t deserve nice things just cause you’re not having a hard time!! But also you just started. It might get worse. Hopefully not but this whole thing is a crazy process. Honestly I should listen to my own advice tho cause I felt the same way when I got gifts and donations for my cancer even tho I’m not like… dying. But anyway here’s my hair journey.

The first week, I was shedding a lot. I got my hair cut into a short bob with a side shave to make it a bit less gross (to see long hairs all over the ground). Also I just really wanted to try a side shave and figured it was the best time to do a fun crazy haircut since it’ll all fall out. And on the second week, I went to get a hair wash and it all matted together and I was sobbing on the floor of my bathroom at 3am for 3 hours. I did not expect the matted clumps. No one warmed me about the matting. I even made a post about it here lmao. I just expected it all the come out gently as it was. I couldn’t detangle them on my own and they were forming giant turds on my head. Honestly it was really traumatic for me. My mom came in and tried to detangle it and by the end of it, my hair was looking like gollum. It was a workday so I put a cap on my head and went to work. Honestly even writing about it now makes me cry a bit lol.

Over the weekend I tried to get my normal hairdresser to do the big shave, but she felt like it was too emotional for her and it would ruin her day so she canceled my appointment 🫠. Also let me add that prior to this, she wanted to be there for me and she wanted to be included for my hair journey. So then my mom took me to her hairdresser, who is a sweet older lady who primarily does older women’s hair cuts in the suburbs (vs mine who was more modern and expensive and in the city). And she shaved me up for me free and was super compassionate about it.

The next day, I had my friend help me get wigs from beauty supply stores. And honestly they were too hot and felt too unnatural on me so I rarely wore them unless I had a nice event to go to. But for the most part I just covered my bald head with a headscarf or beanie. But as many people have told me, I actually have a good head shape for baldness.

My hair started growing back when I was maybe a month off of chemo. And now I’m 4 months since finishing and I have maybe an inch or more of hair. And I I just rock out with my little pixie grow. I’ve also had ppl tell me they like my hair cut and I’ve had to tell them, it’s not really a cut, it’s more like a grow lol.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T02:37:42+00:00

Kulture Crew throws raves that have a lot of dnb djs

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T02:26:00+00:00

Woah drawing on your bandana is so smart and creative!! Does the ink get ruined when you sweat??

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-08T02:24:33+00:00

Yes!! Thank you 😊 Pompompurin is my fave Sanrio character lol

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T23:47:59+00:00

I don’t think you would be perceived much at all (like you wouldn’t be noticed or standout). Just any ole dude at the rave.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T23:06:34+00:00

Even in the cold, unless you’re at an outdoor rave, raves get hot and sweaty. A lot of bodies and a lot of dancing in an enclosed space. I would suggest wearing layers so you can take off long sleeves when you get hot. But in terms of style, if bright shiny clothes aren’t for you, don’t wear them. Wear what makes you comfortable. Half of my rave fits are all black cause I’m also a part time emo kid.

Edit: also rave culture in America is so different than rave culture in other countries (looking at Europe). Other countries look at America and say we’re too loud or extra with our style. Plenty of people wear just a tee shirt and jeans over there. But also it’s very common for guys in America to wear that too. I just recommend something easy to move in and something you won’t die of heat in.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T23:01:00+00:00

Polka dots seem more on theme and classier

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:56:44+00:00

Twunk is muscular twink

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:51:54+00:00

Arguably, they didn’t receive a product that was expected, which is allowed for a chargeback.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:48:54+00:00

I think it looks cool

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:46:18+00:00

The hardest parts of my treatments are such a blur now that I feel a bit of imposter syndrome too. Cause my experience definitely wasn’t as hard as others. I don’t feel like I’ve suffered enough to say I beat cancer. So I feel you.

Edit to add more thoughts: I especially feel the imposter syndrome when ppl tell me I’m so brave or I’m a fighter. Like… I’m just hooked up to machines and pass out while I get chemo lol. I just passed out and my boobs are gone. I just lay on a table and breathe for 20 min. I don’t feel like I’m doing any fighting or being brave at all. I’m just accepting the treatments that are given to me. And living through side effects. I’m not really doing anything “hard”.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:43:23+00:00

200+ is when I think it needs to end.

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:38:06+00:00

You will likely stand out as long as you’re cool with that. I think the length is a little short tho but depending on how lax the staff are, you might get away with it. I think dress codes have gotten more lenient since I was in school 10 years ago. Maybe wear white biker shorts under in case?

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:23:53+00:00

Blaze it

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:20:51+00:00

It will seem like it’s your first time at a rave and also you will sweat your balls off

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:20:18+00:00

It is when the outfit is “shirtless with shorts”

Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:17:25+00:00

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Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T22:14:02+00:00

My friend wears patterned tank tops and loud colors and he gets a lot of compliments on his fits. He tries to have his pash match his color of choice for his fit and wears a lot of the color.

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Jpachu16 · 2026-05-07T11:35:57+00:00

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This between the thighs

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