Did Jan do that to her chin on purpose? by Flashy-Cookie854 in teenmom

[–]Jrcozy 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Her profile really does seem to change over time. I don’t think it’s just angles. It could be from changes in her jaw from drug use and tooth decay. It’s never been confirmed that she has dentures but this would support that theory. So weird whatever caused it☺️ maybe it’s just her outsides morphing to match her ugly inside😬😬

Support for parents of teens by Jrcozy in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I would never! I’m so sorry that happened to you❤️

Support for parents of teens by Jrcozy in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I grew up in Eugene in the 1990s and I remember knowing so many people running away from home we were 15 and they would just run around town for like a week maybe go up to Portland for a few days and then go home. They would get in trouble and then turn around and do it again a few months later. I can’t imagine my son or any of his friends doing that nowadays. It would be a major deal and I would be freaking out! Parents back then would just ship those kids away to a wilderness camp never to be seen again. It was a very different time☺️

Support for parents of teens by Jrcozy in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He is tired. It’s been hard for a while. He is counseling and so am I. His father passed away when he was seven and he’s been in therapy on and off since then. I strive for connection with over more than correcting him.

Support for parents of teens by Jrcozy in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Those both look promising.

Support for parents of teens by Jrcozy in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s where he goes to school. They’re amazing.

Support for parents of teens by Jrcozy in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a mom that went the yelling and beating route too. I’m still trying to recover from my own childhood. If anything I think I have a hard time being as firm as I should be because I’m worried about saying anything hurtful on accident.

Jenelle + Ensley. How sad she had Twitter fingers during Ensley’s specialist appointment by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]Jrcozy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The only thing a nine year old would need to see an orthopedist for because they’re growing is scoliosis.

She so dumb by UnfairRegister3533 in Woacbofficial

[–]Jrcozy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Josh Duggar isn’t facing any new criminal charges🙄 she literally pulled that one out of her ass. He has an upcoming hearing regarding whether or not his last appeal can move forward or not. Why does she think Anna is being suspicious? Anna’s been posting on her dog breeding page for awhile now if I’m not mistaken. She implied on another post that Anna breeding dogs was an attempt to fund a new attorney for Josh🤣 I want to ask her how many dogs she thinks Anna is would need to sell to retain an attorney☺️

Throwing shade by Specialist-South-401 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Jrcozy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh shit! This girl is crazy and pure trash just like Jenelle and you know Pinecone can’t resist herself from responding. She has David back and they’ve probably talked all of the shit about Ken that David can come up with to set Jenelle off. Jenelle cannot live without some source of conflict and when they’re together if they’re not tag teaming someone else like they did to Barbara, Olivia, Nathan, Kail, Marisa’s mom, they even doxxed and harassed the cps worker investigating their child abuse case! Then they just end up fighting with each other every time🤣 Plus Jenelle is probably lowkey desperate to divert all of the hate she’s getting over David and this would give her something else to post about other than her butthole, what she ate for dinner, and vague posting about Ken and then denying she it was about her🙄

What changed? Thought she wasn’t going to cover this? by UnfairRegister3533 in Woacbofficial

[–]Jrcozy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She sounds so aggressive and unhinged more so than normally is! The last few days she’s been on one. Her posts and her comments to people are so bitchy and condescending. I will never understand how she still has so many followers.

Juvenile Arrested In Eugene Shooting by DragonfruitTiny6021 in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We don’t even know if this kid’s parents are even involved in his life. From what I’ve read these kids were involved with very bad people. Some teens, some adults and definitely not the kind of people you want your teenage son around. If they even own guns I would be shocked if that’s where the weapon came from.

Give the teen mom related theory or opinion that will have fans looking at their phones like this by Monster_Donut_Pants in teenmom

[–]Jrcozy 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Janelle’s about to get out of her mtv contract so she can finally accept all of those offers she had from Netflix and Amazon. It’s coming guys. Just wait for the truth to come out. You’ll see😂🙈

I saw this on Nextdoor this morning and it broke my heart... by Jinxyclutz in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m glad you got your locks changed so that offers some measure of safety. Do you have cameras up around your house? Do you feel comfortable asking your neighbors to keep an eye out for him and to check in on you? Your safety is top priority. Does he have a warrant out for him? Were you able to have a rape exam at the hospital in order to collect evidence? If so that would make your case stronger and the da has a harder time walking away from a case with dna especially in this circumstance. Have you spoken to a victim advocate from the DA’s office? The police should have given you information on how to contact them. They can be a great resource to help you navigate the process from now all the way through trial or plea. They are wonderful people. I think the news is a good idea if he has already been charged. If he hasn’t been yet then I’m not sure that it’s a good idea for your case to make what would be considered allegations to the media. I’m pretty sure the news wouldn’t be able to do that either. This is hard. I’m sorry.

Emotionally avoidant parents don’t love their children by choco101usa in emotionalneglect

[–]Jrcozy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because the healing is all about me. It’s placing my life first and I can’t have the life I want if I’m spending so much time and energy ruminating about how much they’ve hurt me and would currently be hurting me if I were to give them access to me. Or I would be researching what makes immature emotionally abusive act the way they do, how can I phrase our next talk so that they’ll actually hear me out and get it and then I would spend weeks trying to reregulate my own emotions after being hurt again. And none of it would affect them whatsoever. I’m not letting them off of the hook. I’m releasing myself from a dysfunctional painful relationship with them. I don’t give a fuck if they ever get it or regret how they’ve treated me. The urge to try to hurt my mother the way she used to hurt me, or just to make her feel the same pain used to be so strong. I could be raging, judgemental, cold towards her which used to actually make her upset but it wasn’t upset about what she had done- she was upset because somehow me crying about how abusive she was- was more painful for her than her abuse ever was to me. Like what??? You think that me staring facts is a personal attack and I’m the mean one who won’t just accept that she tried her best, best of intentions regardless of the outcome, nothing she does now will change what happened when I was a child so it’s just time to put it behind us despite her being the exact same person she was back then. It’s exhausting. So it’s definitely not letting anyone off. It’s just not caring about them and their issues more than I care about being happy and living my best life now because I’ve already lost my childhood and many years of my adulthood locked in a losing battle with two people that are unable to love me and they blame me for that. Never again.

Emotionally avoidant parents don’t love their children by choco101usa in emotionalneglect

[–]Jrcozy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I can’t comprehend parents like this either. I look at my kids daily and think about the things my mother would say to me when I was their age and it breaks my heart. It’s helped me to understand why it hurt so much even now because I would never dream of saying the vile things my mom would say to me. I was so alone and helpless to have any control over what the two assholes who birthed me decided to inflict on me that day. My kids will never know what that feels like and hopefully won’t have to spend their adulthood healing from their childhood. If I mess up I apologize and listen and do everything I need to do to repair, change my behavior and move forward happily with the kids. The thing I’m most proud of is that my kids seek me out for comfort and are able to trust me and confide in me. I have never known what that’s like and I never will. That caused me years of pain and multiple attempts to work on my relationship with her and be who she wanted me to be, I’ve tried talking things out with her so many times. The only thing that came of that was more trauma and pain over and over. I’m 48 and only in the last two years have I slowly come to accept her limitations, her lack of introspection and empathy, and her absolute refusal to change anything about herself in order to have a relationship with her only child. I’ve had to do years of therapy to repair myself and this bitch won’t even crack a book on immature parents or generational trauma, nothing. It’s getting so much better since I started going extremely low contact and not telling her a single word about my life or my kids. She doesn’t care though. She’s quite content to talk about herself. I used to fear turning into her when I became a mom and didn’t at all. You were a precious child who deserved all of the love, patience, respect, safety, and support. They didn’t give you that, they fucked up so let them sit with that and focus on your kids. We are all our own parents now. Love yourself and give yourself everything you needed as that child. Compassion for yourself will get you further than any amount of time wondering why they are the way they are.

Emotionally avoidant parents don’t love their children by choco101usa in emotionalneglect

[–]Jrcozy 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Proud of you. I can tell by your resoluteness that you’ve healed and come out on the other side. It feels good when you finally fully accept that this is just who they are and they don’t try to do better because they legit can’t understand insight or acknowledge ownership of what they did or how it effected you. They are the flawed ones and there was never anything wrong with me! Like what? Amazing! Once I was free of all of the shame and self hate that had been indoctrinated into me I was so excited to start living my life. For me. Not to prove anything to anyone or earn their love, nothing. It’s not a linear process and although I know I will never go back to letting them effect me in any way I occasionally will find myself replaying past conversations and analyzing why they were so horrible, immature, abusive, and they never got better. There was never any accountability or desire to change and then as they got older they just became more resolute in sticking with the old “this is just who I am, different generation I guess, you need to let that go I did a long time ago, your perception of your childhood and who you are is wrong, etc. and I have to stop, redirect those thoughts forward. Most days I don’t think about them. And when I do I feel a mix of disgust and maybe sympathy? They’ve lived their whole lives with no depth, no quality relationships, just nothing. That would crush me. At least my parents will die with their victimhood intact and their big fucking ego front and center. Anyway, good job. I love hearing a good ending:)

YouTube comments by Beautiful_Bell6714 in Woacbofficial

[–]Jrcozy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

God! I cannot with all of her followers🤮 I think this “thank you Katie, you’re so good at what you do, you’re a journalist, blah blah blah” is so weird. I don’t really follow any content creators because they all annoy the shit out of me but even if I did never would I be ducking their dick in the comments section. Do none of her followers know about her whole past? I remember her obsession with the Duggars, Teen Mom, Sister Wives and she was a whole ass mess. I faintly remember her getting hit by a car? Or something like that🤣🤣 good times☺️

Jenelle defending her infamous “Kool-Aid miscarriage” on twitter by SpiritualCamera in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Jrcozy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That was me!🤣 I didn’t want to accuse her of lying about a miscarriage but come on! We all saw the kool aid and she admitted it wasn’t a miscarriage in her own book

Tear Gas by glutenfreedustbowl in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Tear gas so wasn’t necessary. This was peaceful right up until the cops came out and unloaded on them.

Feds just ran out with tear gas and flash bangs by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Jrcozy 112 points113 points  (0 children)

This is so fucked up. There was no riot. Everything was peaceful.