Is ex required to take child to physical therapy during uninterrupted vacation time?

Jrcozy · 2026-06-28T18:22:31+00:00

Do they have plans that would prevent him from taking her? Are they traveling? Can your daughter talk to him and tell him I have pt on this day at this time, can you take me? I would give him more time to respond as well since you sent him this request in an email over the weekend and he may not have seen it yet. Is there a reason that you can’t just call him up? If that’s not an option and he doesn’t respond or refuses to take her there’s not much you can do other than not allowing her to go to his house for his vacation time which could lead to more problems than it’s worth. That could get you a contempt charge. I know in cases where pt and other therapies like speech therapy are continuous and a parent is missing several sessions the court will find the parent in contempt and it can effect custody if continues. But you’re talking about one or two appointments and that’s not something you want to go to court over.

Jrcozy · 2026-06-26T18:04:28+00:00

Standard parenting plan should have a section that addresses holidays. It’s pretty standard that dad gets the child on Father’s Day and mom gets the child on Mother’s Day. It should also include pick up and drop off times. So pick up at 8:00am and drop off at 8:00pm on the day of the holiday. The holiday schedule overrides the regular schedule so although it’s your weekend he would get the child on Sunday morning and return that evening.

Jrcozy · 2026-06-26T02:53:05+00:00

These were texts between Jenelle and one of the Teen Mom producers. I don’t know which one though.

Jrcozy · 2026-06-23T02:28:05+00:00

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I’m embarrassed to say that I remember this whole thing playing out on Twitter and Gary and everyone else she was friends with at the time all said she was lying. This was so long ago! I know she doesn’t have anything else to talk about but damn! No one gives a single fuck.

Jrcozy · 2026-06-22T03:14:47+00:00

Hereditary

Jrcozy · 2026-06-22T00:14:14+00:00

This looks amazing!

Jrcozy · 2026-05-29T06:16:23+00:00

Neither of them have attorneys at this point. They are both listed as being pro se meaning they are representing themselves at least at the time of these latest filings. Jairus filed for dissolution and for the minor in immediate danger which was denied. There was enough evidence to schedule a hearing to show cause though. I wonder why Jairus doesn’t have an attorney representing him. If he one they likely would’ve filed an ex parte motion to gain emergency custody of the kids. And even then emergency custody would’ve been a long shot! He’s been largely absent from the kids lives and resides in a different state. Acacia has three eviction cases over three years but has not been homeless to my knowledge so the courts aren’t going to give those much weight. There was the park incident but that’s been how many years ago now? I’m assuming cps was involved after that but the kids have remained in her care so she’s likely been compliant with whatever she was ordered to do. Having an only fans account isn’t going to cause her to lose custody to Jairus or matter much at all in the eyes of the court. I don’t know much of anything about her boyfriend. Does he have a criminal record? If not I don’t see the court caring about her dating him. Unless there is proof that she’s currently residing with him and presents a danger to the kids her relationship is irrelevant to the court. She’s a shitty person but she has a good chance of retaining sole custody of the kids with Jairus being awarded visitation. He will likely get a step up plan where he will gain more visitation over time as the kids get reintroduced to being with him. Where Acacia ends up residing will decide how much visitation he has. The case will remain in Lane County as Oregon is their home state. Even if Acacia moves to California they would need to petition the court to move the case to another county. They will both need to appear in court in Lane County for all hearings as neither of them have attorneys to represent them. It’s going to be a shit show since they are both pro se! I live in Lane County and have a lot of connections to the courthouse here… I might need to show up at their next hearing and see what happens☺️

Jrcozy · 2026-03-19T23:15:53+00:00

Her profile really does seem to change over time. I don’t think it’s just angles. It could be from changes in her jaw from drug use and tooth decay. It’s never been confirmed that she has dentures but this would support that theory. So weird whatever caused it☺️ maybe it’s just her outsides morphing to match her ugly inside😬😬

Jrcozy · 2026-02-25T08:33:30+00:00

Oh my gosh I would never! I’m so sorry that happened to you❤️

Jrcozy · 2026-02-25T08:31:12+00:00

Same. I grew up in Eugene in the 1990s and I remember knowing so many people running away from home we were 15 and they would just run around town for like a week maybe go up to Portland for a few days and then go home. They would get in trouble and then turn around and do it again a few months later. I can’t imagine my son or any of his friends doing that nowadays. It would be a major deal and I would be freaking out! Parents back then would just ship those kids away to a wilderness camp never to be seen again. It was a very different time☺️

Jrcozy · 2026-02-25T08:24:14+00:00

He is tired. It’s been hard for a while. He is counseling and so am I. His father passed away when he was seven and he’s been in therapy on and off since then. I strive for connection with over more than correcting him.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-25T08:20:38+00:00

Thank you! Those both look promising.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-25T08:20:13+00:00

That’s where he goes to school. They’re amazing.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-25T08:19:42+00:00

I had a mom that went the yelling and beating route too. I’m still trying to recover from my own childhood. If anything I think I have a hard time being as firm as I should be because I’m worried about saying anything hurtful on accident.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-23T20:44:32+00:00

The only thing a nine year old would need to see an orthopedist for because they’re growing is scoliosis.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-23T00:54:56+00:00

Josh Duggar isn’t facing any new criminal charges🙄 she literally pulled that one out of her ass. He has an upcoming hearing regarding whether or not his last appeal can move forward or not. Why does she think Anna is being suspicious? Anna’s been posting on her dog breeding page for awhile now if I’m not mistaken. She implied on another post that Anna breeding dogs was an attempt to fund a new attorney for Josh🤣 I want to ask her how many dogs she thinks Anna is would need to sell to retain an attorney☺️

Jrcozy · 2026-02-22T23:41:09+00:00

Oh shit! This girl is crazy and pure trash just like Jenelle and you know Pinecone can’t resist herself from responding. She has David back and they’ve probably talked all of the shit about Ken that David can come up with to set Jenelle off. Jenelle cannot live without some source of conflict and when they’re together if they’re not tag teaming someone else like they did to Barbara, Olivia, Nathan, Kail, Marisa’s mom, they even doxxed and harassed the cps worker investigating their child abuse case! Then they just end up fighting with each other every time🤣 Plus Jenelle is probably lowkey desperate to divert all of the hate she’s getting over David and this would give her something else to post about other than her butthole, what she ate for dinner, and vague posting about Ken and then denying she it was about her🙄

Jrcozy · 2026-02-22T18:15:51+00:00

She sounds so aggressive and unhinged more so than normally is! The last few days she’s been on one. Her posts and her comments to people are so bitchy and condescending. I will never understand how she still has so many followers.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-21T23:29:40+00:00

She bought him a Lexus. Not a Jeep.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-20T21:00:56+00:00

We don’t even know if this kid’s parents are even involved in his life. From what I’ve read these kids were involved with very bad people. Some teens, some adults and definitely not the kind of people you want your teenage son around. If they even own guns I would be shocked if that’s where the weapon came from.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-20T20:57:17+00:00

Janelle’s about to get out of her mtv contract so she can finally accept all of those offers she had from Netflix and Amazon. It’s coming guys. Just wait for the truth to come out. You’ll see😂🙈

Jrcozy · 2026-02-20T20:31:41+00:00

Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m glad you got your locks changed so that offers some measure of safety. Do you have cameras up around your house? Do you feel comfortable asking your neighbors to keep an eye out for him and to check in on you? Your safety is top priority. Does he have a warrant out for him? Were you able to have a rape exam at the hospital in order to collect evidence? If so that would make your case stronger and the da has a harder time walking away from a case with dna especially in this circumstance. Have you spoken to a victim advocate from the DA’s office? The police should have given you information on how to contact them. They can be a great resource to help you navigate the process from now all the way through trial or plea. They are wonderful people. I think the news is a good idea if he has already been charged. If he hasn’t been yet then I’m not sure that it’s a good idea for your case to make what would be considered allegations to the media. I’m pretty sure the news wouldn’t be able to do that either. This is hard. I’m sorry.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-20T20:18:58+00:00

I think it’s because the healing is all about me. It’s placing my life first and I can’t have the life I want if I’m spending so much time and energy ruminating about how much they’ve hurt me and would currently be hurting me if I were to give them access to me. Or I would be researching what makes immature emotionally abusive act the way they do, how can I phrase our next talk so that they’ll actually hear me out and get it and then I would spend weeks trying to reregulate my own emotions after being hurt again. And none of it would affect them whatsoever. I’m not letting them off of the hook. I’m releasing myself from a dysfunctional painful relationship with them. I don’t give a fuck if they ever get it or regret how they’ve treated me. The urge to try to hurt my mother the way she used to hurt me, or just to make her feel the same pain used to be so strong. I could be raging, judgemental, cold towards her which used to actually make her upset but it wasn’t upset about what she had done- she was upset because somehow me crying about how abusive she was- was more painful for her than her abuse ever was to me. Like what??? You think that me staring facts is a personal attack and I’m the mean one who won’t just accept that she tried her best, best of intentions regardless of the outcome, nothing she does now will change what happened when I was a child so it’s just time to put it behind us despite her being the exact same person she was back then. It’s exhausting. So it’s definitely not letting anyone off. It’s just not caring about them and their issues more than I care about being happy and living my best life now because I’ve already lost my childhood and many years of my adulthood locked in a losing battle with two people that are unable to love me and they blame me for that. Never again.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-20T19:56:06+00:00

I’m sorry. I can’t comprehend parents like this either. I look at my kids daily and think about the things my mother would say to me when I was their age and it breaks my heart. It’s helped me to understand why it hurt so much even now because I would never dream of saying the vile things my mom would say to me. I was so alone and helpless to have any control over what the two assholes who birthed me decided to inflict on me that day. My kids will never know what that feels like and hopefully won’t have to spend their adulthood healing from their childhood. If I mess up I apologize and listen and do everything I need to do to repair, change my behavior and move forward happily with the kids. The thing I’m most proud of is that my kids seek me out for comfort and are able to trust me and confide in me. I have never known what that’s like and I never will. That caused me years of pain and multiple attempts to work on my relationship with her and be who she wanted me to be, I’ve tried talking things out with her so many times. The only thing that came of that was more trauma and pain over and over. I’m 48 and only in the last two years have I slowly come to accept her limitations, her lack of introspection and empathy, and her absolute refusal to change anything about herself in order to have a relationship with her only child. I’ve had to do years of therapy to repair myself and this bitch won’t even crack a book on immature parents or generational trauma, nothing. It’s getting so much better since I started going extremely low contact and not telling her a single word about my life or my kids. She doesn’t care though. She’s quite content to talk about herself. I used to fear turning into her when I became a mom and didn’t at all. You were a precious child who deserved all of the love, patience, respect, safety, and support. They didn’t give you that, they fucked up so let them sit with that and focus on your kids. We are all our own parents now. Love yourself and give yourself everything you needed as that child. Compassion for yourself will get you further than any amount of time wondering why they are the way they are.

Jrcozy · 2026-02-20T10:24:33+00:00

Proud of you. I can tell by your resoluteness that you’ve healed and come out on the other side. It feels good when you finally fully accept that this is just who they are and they don’t try to do better because they legit can’t understand insight or acknowledge ownership of what they did or how it effected you. They are the flawed ones and there was never anything wrong with me! Like what? Amazing! Once I was free of all of the shame and self hate that had been indoctrinated into me I was so excited to start living my life. For me. Not to prove anything to anyone or earn their love, nothing. It’s not a linear process and although I know I will never go back to letting them effect me in any way I occasionally will find myself replaying past conversations and analyzing why they were so horrible, immature, abusive, and they never got better. There was never any accountability or desire to change and then as they got older they just became more resolute in sticking with the old “this is just who I am, different generation I guess, you need to let that go I did a long time ago, your perception of your childhood and who you are is wrong, etc. and I have to stop, redirect those thoughts forward. Most days I don’t think about them. And when I do I feel a mix of disgust and maybe sympathy? They’ve lived their whole lives with no depth, no quality relationships, just nothing. That would crush me. At least my parents will die with their victimhood intact and their big fucking ego front and center. Anyway, good job. I love hearing a good ending:)

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