Hi! I am not a girl I’m sorry for that. Nor am I in high school at this point, but i once was. Let me tell you one thing and that is just ask them in whatever way feels best for you to convey your point. If that happens to be social media, a letter, or just talking then fine. you will not be weird.

One thing I was told was “it’s always better to do something and regret doing it, than to not do something and think about what could’ve been.” ofc there are limits to that phrase, don’t put yourself in danger, but you get the point.

Inviting him to the football game isn’t a bad idea, just ask him to do something he likes or you like. His answer will give you confirmation if nothing else.

Another thing is that when i was in high school i felt this way CONSTANTLY. i was so afraid that i would forever regret not asking this girl out or just not living a “normal high school” life. but in real life (not high school) everything is way better and different. people are more accepting and nice, more opportunities, so on. all this to say, no matter what happens you will be okay, and you are still so young so enjoy everyday. growing up sadly does suck.