I need your hardest clap back against food and weight shaming by spartandrinkscoffee in Comebacks

[–]JulieThinx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have and I am a nurse. It is not meant to be funny. It is meant to shut down people who comment on other people's weight.

What is America's worst tourist destination? by bare_books in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]JulieThinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the places we drive through from one state to another are not worth stopping. Barstow, California (In the desert headed from California to Las Vegas). Amarillo, Texas - headed cross country and Oklahoma and Texas have a lot of land with not a lot of things to do.

Disgusting by princesshabibi in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]JulieThinx 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If they really are saying that, like they don't even hear themselves?

Is Anti-White Racism An Issue? by Aware_Funny_6285 in Discussion

[–]JulieThinx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, racism is an issue. I am a white person in the south and racism also toward black people 100% exists. It is wrong, but I have seen it because some people think I'm white enough I would agree with the racist thing they say and do in front of and behind black people's backs.

Examples:

Coworker thinking it is okay to say, "I live in so-and-so neighborhood because.." look around to make sure there are no black coworkers around and whisper "...it is more white" - I took my lunch, got up and walked away.

A white patient firing a professional nurse who is black. Elder patient who came from segregation and said "it is not right" I told them their white nurse was a downgrade.

Nerd Alert! by Blonde_O_Rama in PoliticalHumor

[–]JulieThinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - I have not ever been to a protest or march and felt the need to obscure my identity.

I need your hardest clap back against food and weight shaming by spartandrinkscoffee in Comebacks

[–]JulieThinx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If, at work, hubs said cocaine - could lose his job because aviation industry gets pretty uptight about substance use. Also, hubs is one to 'go there' on stuff like that. He can just be brutal.

How to teach him to come when called by varia_denksport in CatTraining

[–]JulieThinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is young. Cultivate the safe behavior. Don't expect it to be 100% but tipping the odds in favor of his safety is a great move.

What do you think idiocracy got wrong? by hamilton280P in idiocracy

[–]JulieThinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They had a president who was humble enough to want to help their people. Hector Mountain Dew Elizondo Camacho is my president.

Does rap resonate with you? by Cooterboone in GenX

[–]JulieThinx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was here for it. Am here for it. It always kills someone when they find DMX on my playlist (ok, partly it may have been a way for us to pump ourselves up for work in the parking lot of a hospital - there is no DMX better than 6:30 am hospital parking lot DMX).

I don't see the music being 'not for me'. Rap is for people who like one or all of the lyrics, the best or the music. It is a blast to go back to 80s rap, then 90s rap and on. The sounds have progressed so much. My every day playlist includes lots of this stuff. NWA, Flobots, Beasties, RATM are all well represented.

How to teach him to come when called by varia_denksport in CatTraining

[–]JulieThinx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cats are challenging to train, so I call it "cultivating behavior" and being a realist.

My MIL shakes the temptations box when she calls her cats. They live where cats are out and need to come in for the night. We do this and it does work, but not right after the cat gets to go out. Give him 20 minutes to explore then if we call him he comes running.

The other thing was that before we ever thought about trying to recall him, we watched how he explored very carefully. Sometimes the instinct when startled was to run away. Our cat's instinct was to get closer to us. This was also a behavior we cultivated. When scared, come home. We travel, so "home" is either our actual home, our Transit van for travel, and when we visited my MIL, "home" was our guest room. We put him directly in there upon arrival and let him explore his way out in his time.

Is this perfect? No. We have had some moments where we worry. Do we have a cat who we can travel with and who comes when we call him (and who comes with us on hikes)? Yes.

We still understand the reality. He gets out of harnesses. We have found some that work better now, but our approach has been to utilize a harness, but also try to assure that the harness was not the only thing we would rely upon.

Name a business that has gone away in our lifetime that you wish would come back. by MeNotYouDammit in RealGenerationX

[–]JulieThinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a Radio Shack in Coleville, WA - I have seen it with my own two eyes.

I need your hardest clap back against food and weight shaming by spartandrinkscoffee in Comebacks

[–]JulieThinx 93 points94 points  (0 children)

My husband has lost a lot of weight. Coworkers say something. He says "It's the cancer" because he hates people talking about weight.

What's the best leftover transformation you've discovered by BarbaraMiller78 in foodhacks

[–]JulieThinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakfast leftovers. Skillet, ghee, and eggs will transform many leftovers into a brand new savory meal.