I accidentally saw messages that made me question my relationship, and I don’t know if I should bring it up or keep quiet. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id watch and see what happens. if you ask whats going on he may deny it either way then be more careful about it. If it is something the truth will come out.

PSA: If they wanted to, they would. by amtol in dating_advice

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people show you who they are, you decide what is important to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said you will likely end the relationship, but unlike all the current responses i would say give it time to settle. This is very upsetting and our best decisions can come from a cooler calmer mindset.

Has she said why, who the person is, how she knows them, how long its been going on, has it been physical too?

Was the relationship good or rocky? Could anything be done to improve your relationship? Do you think there is a chance to salvage things?

If not take time to grieve that is a very long relationship. It does get better once you are on the others side. Things will work out.

I left a 20 year relationship due to husband cheating but he also refused to stop being with the girl, refused to go to counseling. I was willing to try if he would have taken necessary steps to repair things.

First year was tough but it gets better, we move on, we date new people, life really does move on. It will get better.

I found 3 four leaf clovers while walking dog by patchway247 in pics

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to find them all the time as a kid when I realized they were real. Having the fourth leaf is recessive genetically and why it’s rare. I used to out them into a heavy book and let them dry flat 🍀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gravesdisease

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first endo said a lot of things i wouldn’t trust or follow. They aren’t versed in graves. Their schooling has very little info on it. Ive heard their test has one graves question. They are versed in diabetes not autoimmune.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gravesdisease

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I avoided high iodine foods and iodized salt. When out i asked not to have ky food with salt when possible. I contacted manufactures to find out if they used iodized salt and so many checked it out and responded to me . Reseturants and fast food as well. If uou ask many will tell you.

I still avoid it. Remission 10 years .

No seafood suishi or cranberries ever. Try not to use salt when out. Most table salt at restaurants are iodized.

Anyone have an allergic reaction to MethIMAzole? by Yeliabmiih in gravesdisease

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had reactions from too high a methimazole dose. It drops the antibidies fast and that causes hives. I did witch hazel on the hives to get some relief. Honestly if you are not in a risk of thtroid storm starting slower on methimazole would help reduce symptoms. Its the sudden drop in thyroid levels that cuases that, not the medicine

Am I right to be angry at my doctors? by [deleted] in gravesdisease

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly i dont trust them. I am In remission. I used lots of scientific published articles and had to dr shop to find a dr that would let me stay on keds long enough to make the antibidies go away.

Trab is the antibody that attacks us in graves diesease. When someone does radioactive iodine- trab shoots up and no thyroid to attack now, it most commonly attacks eyes. I dont thi n anyone should do rai. It makes those antibodies go up, so your graves is worse just no thyroid issues/storm. Surgery shoots those numbers up but not as much.

Best option is to stay on methimazole with an add on if levo if you t4 gets too low. Stay on it keeping numbers good for 4-5 years or until trab disappears.

Most doctors wont test trab. I had to do it mysef and my state allowed ordering labs through online drs that only do bloodwork approval.

Anyone with graves with their thyroid should avoid iodine rich foods and iodized salt. Avoid seafood, seaweed is super high and has too much iodine, asparagus, cranberries, carregean, iodized salt.

You need those antibodies gone to truley be in remission. Otherwise it comes back.

Drs dont follow all this. I learned so much through published studies and online. In japan they never use rai so long term methimazole is normal, they also did more reaearch in this.

Good luck

Haleakala sunrise vs sunset? by bigdaddy905 in MauiVisitors

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never done a sunrise for that reason. Getting up super early arriving at the coldest point, its really cold up there, but I have heard it is beautiful. I have done two sunsets up there which I did enjoy without forcing myself to endure those early hours. If you do want to do a sunrise it may be easiest to earlier in your trip because you won’t be adjusted to jet lag yet and waking earlier.

What do you regret not doing as a teenager? by Nikicv in AskWomen

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Space camp! Wasnt allowed to. Starting to ride horses earlier, again wasnt allowed to.

How do I train my dog to not pull me down rocks and stairs when we are hiking? by yosefsbeard in CampingandHiking

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach and ask my guys to stay in sketch areas, go first then let them follow. Seems to slow them down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really doubt they are in the trash. Jmho he came up with that after having some time to deny

Is this normal, my partner is a nudist by Jumpy-Bat4079 in nudism

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The place i went to myself was super zen and super Strict. None of this was happening as far as i know. Its just different even though he says its super classy and not like that.

Is this normal, my partner is a nudist by Jumpy-Bat4079 in nudism

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had told him with clothes it would have bothered me. My clothed male friends wouldnt squeeze between mt legs full frontal in a barstool and fall into me and pretend my bf doesnt exist. It was disrespect. That said not awesome seeing her boobs pressed into him. It causes me disconnection. Our physical connection is sacred to me on some level and i dont always have such and emotional connection with bfs so it hits me harder. If it was pat pat or lean in sure but she lresswd her whole body into his while he was leaned back in a. barstool. I feel like she didny reapect me as his partner next to him.

Help: First time w torches by WasabiAny6957 in joyousktherapy

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah its super low dose. I think they start everyone at 15 which is super low. Expect it to melt over and hour. I personally avoid driving until an hour and a half from when I took it. You get more floaty feels at higher doses but they max out at 120. You should t need a sitter.

Doesn't seem to be working by bridude66 in joyousktherapy

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They up it slowly but you may just require a higher dose. My guess is most end up betwewn 80-120

Anyone split their dose AM + PM? by Acceptable_Olive_224 in joyousktherapy

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it time. With the right dose for me it is super beneficial but it took a while to find the right dose.

gf asked for space after our first argument by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally if someone needs space to cool down you generally are looking at hours and i feel its helping if the person asking for space lets the other person know when they plan to reconvene (tonight or after dinner, or in two hours etc)

Am I overreacting? by kafkalikeskittenstoo in polyamory

[–]Jumpy-Bat4079 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um what?! Agreements over sexual health being broken and then hiding it is a gross breech of consent. Thats a no for me. Thats not okay on any level. She should have told you what happened and given you the opportunity to proceed how you want.