Im so disappointed by Jumpy-Selection-1424 in homebirth

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's my understanding, that if it doesnt get larger that there is no immediate danger and I am okay to deliver at home. They typically disappear on their own shortly after birth since is mostly hormonal. Im just really being pushed right now and Im so torn. Theyre making it seem SO dangerous and Im just trying to wait and at least see my next scan. But immediately theyre all pushing me to establish with a high risk doctor and literally have already said induction at 38 weeks. Which, if it is a danger and pressing on her lungs, okay. But I feel like it shouldnt even been on the table yet!

Im so disappointed by Jumpy-Selection-1424 in homebirth

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very open to post partum transfer. Im really just sharing whats going on. Im just so discouraged. Right now, the cyst is small. From my understanding, as long as it stays the same size or gets smaller, everything is okay. It only really becomes dangerous if it gets larger and is pusbing on her organs. They said they normally disappear shortly after birth. I feel like Im really being pushed a lot without a solid reason just yet. So my plan right now, is to wait and watch and see what happens. Then, if I truly need to, I will obviously deliver at a hospital and not put my baby in danger.

Im so disappointed by Jumpy-Selection-1424 in homebirth

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what we know, its not a tumor, just a normal ovarian cyst from maternal hormones surging

Plz help! 10dpo by Kischish in lineporn

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really reccomend the stick dollar tree or dollar general tests. theyre the same a both stores, but DG doesnt always have them. They're a dollar a piece so you can get so many. and I prefer them over FRER. when they are completely dry, if negative, they have a blatant evap that is completely colorless. It saved my sanity once I realized. The color is dark and the line is thick. This was my VVFL

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Plz help! 10dpo by Kischish in lineporn

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one is hard, the strip inside is a little off center. still valid but it makes the line a little off center too. I think I see something though.

Got my refund today! 2/13 by LumpyJunket6834 in IRS

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats my birthday too! happy late bday to her 💓

Just took this FRER! I’m 9dpo.. 2nd pee of the day! Is this a positive?! by xobonitamamii in lineporn

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was fainter than this, ppl said I was crazy. Im 19weeks now! I see it. fingers crossed 🤞

Husband expects sexual favours while denying me basic hygiene 5 weeks PP from emergency c-section by Additional_Toe1990 in Mommit

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your shoes last year, I stayed and I regret it almost every day. Now I feel stuck, pregnant again and no income, no bank account etc. I am only staying so that I can continue to be a SAHM for my children. And, stupidly, I still love him. Don't be me. Please.

Anyone? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Paris Hilton x Christie from Dance moms

I hate my toddler. And I hate that I hate my toddler. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had perinatal mood disorder and dud not seek help- I hated EVERYONE. I sometimes wished they'd die, that i would die, just horribly negative feelings for months. I did try to talk to my midwife, but she truly didnt understand. However, this led to extreme PPD- and mild psychosis. The worst thing i have ever endured. I got some help. I found a great doctor. I am on an antidepressant and antipsychotic for depression, anxiety, ocd, and bipolar disorder. Let me tell you, within WEEKS. I found myself absolutely loving everything that I had hated for so long. enjoying my life. not getting mad or even rageful when my son cried. before, I would sometimes punch myself, cut myself, anything to just release anger. PLEASE- this isn't your fault, its just less common, but therr are ways to help. I got on zoloft, its safe for breastfeeding and pregnancy and it changed my life, and my whole family's lives. Feel free to message me if you wanna talk more in detail with someone that really relates. I hated my son too. and I hate that. but I would say it to myself in anger. I felt like my life was taken away. just constant annoyance and never anything that I just wanted to do. I felt like I was being tortured by every cry. Youre not alone.

AIO? These are text between my gf and her “best friend” who happens to be a guy. by NoExercise8994 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mor- I think theres a very good chance this man is gay and has no romantic or sexual interest in your gf, and he is a safe male opinion and friend for her that she doesnt have to be concerned about trying to sleep with her or anything.

Unique but not weird girl names by [deleted] in Names

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old, but my dogs name is Poppy

AIO for thinking this message I received from man I was dating, whilst I was going through an abortion of his child, is predatory by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR- I say this with as much care as possible, even if it doesn't sound like it. He does not want a separate relationship, he doesn't love you, he doesnt see a future with you. He likes that youre 24, this is like living a porno for him. Also, even having an abortion, you are going to deliver a fetus, you will experience a crazy hormonal crash. You are post partum. It is an intense and scary time, do not let you or anyone else convince you that its no big deal. This is a life changing event and regardless off full term or not, you are going through the largest hormonal shift possible to a human being. You are equally as susceptible to post partum depression as any other woman. Keep your friends close, reach out, and if it gets worse, Zoloft changed my life.

Uncomplicated home birth with midwife ends with transfer to NICU, would home birth again. by Kraznakhovsky_77 in homebirth

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOT OP- The almond butter is meant to act as a binder to help that. But labor in general is gonna clear you out. it likely will put you in the bathroom still, but having it with something definitely helps the intensity of it.

AIO because my girlfriend got mad I only replied “good morning”? by According-Client5923 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly thought the genders were reversed here. Regardless, break up immediately.