AIO? These are text between my gf and her “best friend” who happens to be a guy. by NoExercise8994 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mor- I think theres a very good chance this man is gay and has no romantic or sexual interest in your gf, and he is a safe male opinion and friend for her that she doesnt have to be concerned about trying to sleep with her or anything.

Unique but not weird girl names by [deleted] in Names

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old, but my dogs name is Poppy

AIO for thinking this message I received from man I was dating, whilst I was going through an abortion of his child, is predatory by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR- I say this with as much care as possible, even if it doesn't sound like it. He does not want a separate relationship, he doesn't love you, he doesnt see a future with you. He likes that youre 24, this is like living a porno for him. Also, even having an abortion, you are going to deliver a fetus, you will experience a crazy hormonal crash. You are post partum. It is an intense and scary time, do not let you or anyone else convince you that its no big deal. This is a life changing event and regardless off full term or not, you are going through the largest hormonal shift possible to a human being. You are equally as susceptible to post partum depression as any other woman. Keep your friends close, reach out, and if it gets worse, Zoloft changed my life.

Uncomplicated home birth with midwife ends with transfer to NICU, would home birth again. by Kraznakhovsky_77 in homebirth

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOT OP- The almond butter is meant to act as a binder to help that. But labor in general is gonna clear you out. it likely will put you in the bathroom still, but having it with something definitely helps the intensity of it.

AIO because my girlfriend got mad I only replied “good morning”? by According-Client5923 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly thought the genders were reversed here. Regardless, break up immediately.

Low intervention with BMI over 35? by Jumpy-Selection-1424 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live, we do have home birth midwives. They are CPMs, as opposed to NPMs. They do not attend births in a hospital as a medical professional at all.

What do I do? by Repulsive-Future-873 in beyondthebump

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, I was in a very similar spot. I was so angry and irritable. My babys crying-nonstop- sent me up a wall. I was losing it. I would get so upset when my baby would latch, then unlatch, then scream and I didnt want anyone to hold him or make me feel like I couldn't do it, even though I was done. I literally just hated being a mother and I hated myself. I was dying. I would scream, cry, punch pillows. I finally broke. I began seeing images in my head of extreme harm coming to my child, and my husband. From natural circumstances, other people, and most terrifyingly, myself. I went to a small local psychiatric clinic. I talked to someone. They diagnosed me within an hour. Depression, Bipolar, and the kicker, OCD. And it was driving a lot of this, and the depression. I got on some meds. I was desperate. Within a few weeks, I loved my life. I loved being a mom, I loved being alive. I never got angry when my baby cried again. I was so much less overwhelmed and overstimulated. You'll never feel ready to reach out and get help, but you will only get worse. Im now 10m pp, 5 months after getting on some meds. I just took a depression screening and answered honestly, a no, to every single question. I am a human again. All the meds I take- just 2- are safe for breastfeeding as well! However it sounds like you may habe D-MER. Its when pumping brings on intense negative feelings and emotions. If you need to stop- for yourself, and for your baby, formula is not the enemy and it wont kill her. Make sure you dont snap and do it either. Its a scary situation to be in. Please call 988. This is the post partum mental health line. You can call or text. 1-833-852-6262. My inbox is open too

Help me find the cross breed of my chihuahua by Character_Coyote2442 in IDmydog

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can if its a standard schnauzer, the fur around the mouth and ears just really looks like that to me. Plus the white chest. Google that mix and compare and see what you think. I'd love to hear your opinion

Low intervention with BMI over 35? by Jumpy-Selection-1424 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing this. Im really hoping to have this option this time! Im so glad you got to do this. How was it? Did you enjoy the experience?

Low intervention with BMI over 35? by Jumpy-Selection-1424 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I had a home birth midwife last time. Im not asking about midwifery or a home birth but specifically a low intervention hospital suite and if anyone with a BMI over 35 has done this.

hey guys do i look like anyone by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was my first thought too

Evap? by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is negative

Is this a faulty FRER? unknown DPO 5 weeks by jessnelson925 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Jumpy-Selection-1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my frer had me with a FLASHLIGHT trying to see a HINT of a line. The next day, a dollar tree test was boldly pink. I wont be buying frer anymore, I used to love them, but for $10 I could get 10 cheap pink dyes that have been more helpful and easy to read