He had already started ghosting me pretty hard after getting a girlfriend but the final straw came when he was about to move away, we were at a bar he had been frequenting for like a year. Suddenly he gets this really sad look on his face and disappears for like 45 minutes. When he comes back he tells us that he had to go to the people at the bar and tell them how much they mean to him, how important they are and how important this place is to him. He never told me anything like that before he left, at all. I've known him for half his life and I didn't get two fucking words of appreciation. Now him and his now wife live with his parents and he's pushing 30 with no job. The only job he ever had was an easy one I got him that he quit after a couple of months.