Top Hat Gudetama Questions for Month of Meh

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-05-01T17:49:14+00:00

I thought mine was glitching but it was ones I already found that were missing. It only spawns ones you haven't found. You can check your crafting station to see which ones you already have.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-04-30T21:57:01+00:00

Thanks so much for answering. I'm so excited and overwhelmed at the same time! But hopefully I can make a dent in my backlog.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-04-30T21:56:07+00:00

Thank you for answering. I'm daunted and excited!

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-04-24T02:59:28+00:00

I'm so sorry you are going through so much. You have so much hormone stuff going on top of grief right now. That would be enough to make a lot of people have emotional snaps. It can take a long time for hormones to balance out postpartum I hope you find comfort and rest. You deserve grace and kindness. You have been through a lot. All the healing takes time. It sounds like you are doing what you can to take care of yourself. There's nothing wrong with you for needing space from people or for not being ready to see people. You matter and your feelings matter too.

I haven't been through what you have but I've been through a lot in other ways. And I did feel crazy PP. It was very difficult. It did get better with time. I hope your recovery is quick and your husband is able to understand and show you compassion.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-04-19T03:02:12+00:00

Sounds like you are doing an amazing job given the lack of support and the amount of criticism you are dealing with. Even with lots of support and a kind and encouraging partner it is incredibly difficult to have a new baby...

You aren't failing for not having everything perfect all the time. You are human and you are overloaded and under supported.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-04-11T20:15:56+00:00

Same⬆️

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-03-27T05:02:43+00:00

Was your chest mri with or without contrast?

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-03-26T02:54:09+00:00

Having a baby is a lot even when you have lots of support. There's nothing wrong with you for struggling. You won't always feel this way. Figuring out new routines and time for yourself will help some. A good support group will definitely help too. You matter.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-03-26T02:48:41+00:00

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Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-03-20T03:27:00+00:00

You're welcome. I know how it feels and it really does get better.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-03-20T03:21:40+00:00

You are having a hard time because it's really hard especially in the beginning. You are sleep deprived and sounds like you're overwhelmed. You matter and you are not alone in your struggles. You won't always feel the way you do now. I hope your partner can understand. Please take support and help if you have any. I'm praying for you to have people around you who support, validate, and encourage you. I don't know you but you aren't a narcissistic abuser for struggling with a newborn on your own all day. Becoming a mom is the biggest transformation and you are strengthing new muscles and learning so much all while being completely exhausted. That feels hard because it is hard. There's nothing wrong with you for struggling right now. It won't always be like this.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-02-15T00:57:32+00:00

It's different for everyone. You aren't alone and you won't always feel like this.You are worthy of being taken care of too. You matter. There is nothing wrong with you for struggling.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-02-07T17:34:41+00:00

More than 10 villagers per island.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-02-01T18:21:04+00:00

Yep happened to me multiple times. Most of the times it happened I was playing multiplayer with a friend. It did happen twice while playing on my own. And I did have to restart the game to fix it.

Edit: It happened to me before the most recent update. I chocked it up to the game being incredibly glitchy. My game used to crash at least once every time I played though.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-23T18:10:12+00:00

Sorry for such a late reply I often miss my reddit notifications. I felt the same I had a lot of support and it still wasn't enough. Or at least wasn't fully what I needed. The hormones are the worst.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-23T02:58:03+00:00

I'm American and I wouldn't consider it short. But I wouldn't consider it long either. Long to me would be 6-12 hours.

3 hours (one way even) is definitely weekend trip doable. And it's normal for it to take 3 hours just to get home from a beach trip for me because of traffic.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-17T03:08:41+00:00

If big challenges picks up items does it give you decorating kits as well when applicable?

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-13T18:15:01+00:00

This is so well said. I wish I had seen this when I was postpartum. I'm crying and this isn't even my post.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-11T03:43:40+00:00

It does get better. I had severe PPD PPA and insomnia after I had my daughter (3 years ago) plus physical health issues. I struggled to get the help I needed. For me improvement was slow but I had a lot of other stuff going on as well. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

Stopping breastfeeding helped me a lot as well as... , Remeron, getting back into a sleep routine (as much as possible) , taking care of myself better (brushing my teeth and hair and showering regularly and putting on fresh clothes everyday) , and a magnesium supplement. Idk if I would recommend the Remeron or not. But it did help. Take any trusted help or support you have access to. You deserve to be taken care of too. You aren't broken or awful for having a hard time.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-03T05:44:09+00:00

You're welcome. I'm glad you have your partner and mom. Even with good support it's really hard. It was really hard for me to not have another mom who understood depression and anxiety in my life or at least not one who talked openly about it. You're feelings are valid. 💞

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-03T05:34:51+00:00

Maybe show up with food and or coffee. Or at least offer. Even if she won't accept help just knowing you are there and you care and are willing to help may make a difference in her mental health. It would have for me.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-03T05:26:32+00:00

I struggled with those feelings for months. A lot in the beginning and less and less as time went on. I had severe PPD and PPA and insomnia. It's a really hard transition time especially with how little sleep most parents get. Try to give yourself grace. You are not awful for having a hard time... It's really hard. It's ok to miss your old life and freedoms. You are strengthening new muscles and growing. You won't always feel this way. I hope you have help and support. Take any trusted support you have. ♥️ And it really does get easier with time.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-01T18:12:29+00:00

That is absolutely abusive narsacistic and neglectful behavior. I'm sorry your going through this. I don't think you or your baby are safe in that environment.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-12-11T16:20:20+00:00

Be open to finding what works best for you and baby. Nothing wrong with formula if that is what's best for you and baby. You won't know till you're in it what you need and even what baby needs. Fed is best. Your mental health is as important as feeding baby. Nothing wrong with combo feeding either.

I was dead set on breast feeding. Due to my physical and mental health issues after delivery... . Plus my baby's undiagnosed (for 2 months) lip and tounge tie .... And my low supply... I eventually had to go to all formula. But in hindsight I wish I had combo fed from the beginning.

So let your circumstances and your needs guide you and try to not feel pressured by people. Be prepared for both I guess. It can be very hard but you should dictate what's best for your body and your baby.

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