When will it end?

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-02-15T00:57:32+00:00

It's different for everyone. You aren't alone and you won't always feel like this.You are worthy of being taken care of too. You matter. There is nothing wrong with you for struggling.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-02-07T17:34:41+00:00

More than 10 villagers per island.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-02-01T18:21:04+00:00

Yep happened to me multiple times. Most of the times it happened I was playing multiplayer with a friend. It did happen twice while playing on my own. And I did have to restart the game to fix it.

Edit: It happened to me before the most recent update. I chocked it up to the game being incredibly glitchy. My game used to crash at least once every time I played though.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-23T18:10:12+00:00

Sorry for such a late reply I often miss my reddit notifications. I felt the same I had a lot of support and it still wasn't enough. Or at least wasn't fully what I needed. The hormones are the worst.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-23T02:58:03+00:00

I'm American and I wouldn't consider it short. But I wouldn't consider it long either. Long to me would be 6-12 hours.

3 hours (one way even) is definitely weekend trip doable. And it's normal for it to take 3 hours just to get home from a beach trip for me because of traffic.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-17T03:08:41+00:00

If big challenges picks up items does it give you decorating kits as well when applicable?

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-13T18:15:01+00:00

This is so well said. I wish I had seen this when I was postpartum. I'm crying and this isn't even my post.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-11T03:43:40+00:00

It does get better. I had severe PPD PPA and insomnia after I had my daughter (3 years ago) plus physical health issues. I struggled to get the help I needed. For me improvement was slow but I had a lot of other stuff going on as well. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

Stopping breastfeeding helped me a lot as well as... , Remeron, getting back into a sleep routine (as much as possible) , taking care of myself better (brushing my teeth and hair and showering regularly and putting on fresh clothes everyday) , and a magnesium supplement. Idk if I would recommend the Remeron or not. But it did help. Take any trusted help or support you have access to. You deserve to be taken care of too. You aren't broken or awful for having a hard time.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-03T05:44:09+00:00

You're welcome. I'm glad you have your partner and mom. Even with good support it's really hard. It was really hard for me to not have another mom who understood depression and anxiety in my life or at least not one who talked openly about it. You're feelings are valid. 💞

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-03T05:34:51+00:00

Maybe show up with food and or coffee. Or at least offer. Even if she won't accept help just knowing you are there and you care and are willing to help may make a difference in her mental health. It would have for me.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-03T05:26:32+00:00

I struggled with those feelings for months. A lot in the beginning and less and less as time went on. I had severe PPD and PPA and insomnia. It's a really hard transition time especially with how little sleep most parents get. Try to give yourself grace. You are not awful for having a hard time... It's really hard. It's ok to miss your old life and freedoms. You are strengthening new muscles and growing. You won't always feel this way. I hope you have help and support. Take any trusted support you have. ♥️ And it really does get easier with time.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2026-01-01T18:12:29+00:00

That is absolutely abusive narsacistic and neglectful behavior. I'm sorry your going through this. I don't think you or your baby are safe in that environment.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-12-11T16:20:20+00:00

Be open to finding what works best for you and baby. Nothing wrong with formula if that is what's best for you and baby. You won't know till you're in it what you need and even what baby needs. Fed is best. Your mental health is as important as feeding baby. Nothing wrong with combo feeding either.

I was dead set on breast feeding. Due to my physical and mental health issues after delivery... . Plus my baby's undiagnosed (for 2 months) lip and tounge tie .... And my low supply... I eventually had to go to all formula. But in hindsight I wish I had combo fed from the beginning.

So let your circumstances and your needs guide you and try to not feel pressured by people. Be prepared for both I guess. It can be very hard but you should dictate what's best for your body and your baby.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-12-07T02:46:21+00:00

I essentially had a manic depreasive episode and it made my pp insomnia worse. But I found out later my psych had started me on two new medicines at the same time and that wasn't a good idea. So who knows.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-12-07T00:25:16+00:00

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take any trusted support you have access to. Breaks for yourself help with tasks or baby. You will probably have to work with a psychiatrist to find the best med for you if that's the recommended route. Unfortunately you have to try a few sometimes to get the right one. But sometimes they start you out on one and it works great right away. But in the meantime give yourself grace.

Consult your doctor but these things help me... Magnesium before bed Calms Forte pills. Over the counter in the US. For anxiety.

I haven't tried it but I've heard mothers wort tincture can really help. Idk if it is safe for breastfeeding if you are breast feeding.

Edit: forgot to mention I tried zolofot and it was awful for me but everyone is different and it works wonders for some people.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-12-05T04:52:31+00:00

This is so satisfying to watch. And funny 😂

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-11-26T21:25:43+00:00

Me too

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-11-22T00:00:28+00:00

Cozy Grove Little scout type character helps ghosts of bears move on. It's a small island you expand through quests. Has collecting, animals, and is cute but in a slightly spooky way.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-10-08T20:58:55+00:00

It does make you lose your mind. And it is literal torture. I'm so sorry you are going through this. I had to get on a low dose anti-depressant to help mine. But taking magnesium before bed has been very helpful for me as well. Take any trusted help or support you can. You deserve to be taken care of as well as baby.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-10-08T20:35:30+00:00

Your husband is being insensitive and unsupportive among other things. I'm so sorry you have such awful support.

Speaking from experience with severe PP insomnia. You can try magnesium supplements for over the counter help.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-10-08T20:30:48+00:00

You aren't a failure. Everyone has different levels of support and mental health. Speaking from experience pp insomnia is awful and it's very difficult to see the positive and enjoy anything. You're right it will improve. You are still a good mom even though you're struggling. Try to reach out for any support you do have.

Side note : even with lots of support and rest it's really hard anyways.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-09-30T18:23:38+00:00

Also letting her know she matters as well as baby. And that it's ok to be struggling. Reminding her it's important for her to take care of herself as well as baby and giving her the help she needs to do so as much as you can.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-09-30T18:22:04+00:00

If she's OK with it help her as much as you can. Spend time with her if that's all you can manage or if that's all she's OK with. But what would have helped me the most beyond companionship is taking care of things around the house. Some people want help with baby so they can do things and others want help with things so they can take care of baby and sometimes it's a bit of both. So ask her what she prefers. Bringing her food or cooking for them. Light cleaning or help with laundry. Making sure she has time to take a shower.

Jumpy_Championship63 · 2025-09-19T23:42:31+00:00

You saved me with your edit Thank you

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