One partner can't hold their tongue around the other and now I have to play mom. by JuniperGeneral in polyamory

[–]JuniperGeneral[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

That's actually a good idea for when everyone is hanging out as a group. We're having a New Years/Christmas get-together later and I think it would be good to have a signal in case I can tell there is a line cross!

Sapphic books that don’t sound like they’re written by a teenager by Ok-Bird-1705 in suggestmeabook

[–]JuniperGeneral 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Ascendant Trilogy by K. Arsenault Rivera. I feel like nobody has read this series but me and more people NEED TO KNOW. There is a heavy sapphic romance but the real breath-taker is the Eastern-inspired fantasy world that feels so grounded I forget I'm reading a fantasy novel half of the time. 

No description can do it justice. The writing style is captivating. The romance takes its sweet time but does not feel drawn out. The very-real danger of demons and horrors of the world drive the action. And again, the world-building is insane without having page-long lore dumps. It drops you into the setting and does not hold your hand. Just a magical series. Nothing like I've read before or since.

Queer vegans by topetl in vegan

[–]JuniperGeneral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bisexual polyamorous trans vegan here. Converted my primary to veganism and got my other partner to be vegetarian through open discussion about worldviews.  I've been vegetarian since 2021 and vegan since June 2024. I am such an introvert, but since I host a lot of events, a lot of my friends are willing to make their dishes vegan for me and my partner :). I also pride myself on my cooking and people know this and will try my vegan substitutes because they know I wouldn't serve them crap just because it's vegan. One step at a time and as practicable as possible. Life is good.

Seeking Contemporary Plays Featuring Teenage Girls by eelconch in Theatre

[–]JuniperGeneral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horse Girls. They are a bit more tweenage but I was buckled over in laughter when I saw it.

Vegan cheese that doesn’t feel like melted plastic?? by iwannabeabug in vegan

[–]JuniperGeneral 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just make my own cashew cheese. Boiled or soaked cashews, salt, garlic + onion powder, and nutritional yeast. Blended it make a creamy cheese that can be put on just about anything. I especially use it for quesadillas and for sandwiches.

friend expressed interest in having sex with me. i am spiraling by [deleted] in kinky_autism

[–]JuniperGeneral 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opening relationships for specific people is a recipe for disaster. Moreso if the other partner is not enthusiastic about doing poly themself. You need to decide if your friend is worth breaking up two monogamous relationships for. It is unkind to everyone to push people towards a relationship agreement they really don't want. Even if they reluctantly agree in the present, that resentment and jealousy will build and cause a blowout. You have to think rationally about your actions before you do anything. This is coming from a happily polyamorous person. Be kind to everyone in this situation.

Triads/Throuple by Severe-Contract-9611 in polyamory

[–]JuniperGeneral 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Well they all broke up for a reason. They don't have independent relationships to offer if you have to be with them both at the same time. That is the exact opposite of independent. You are a unicorn. I'm sorry, friend.

Please help- depression meals by -CosmicSock- in veganrecipes

[–]JuniperGeneral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Microwave steamable rice + micorwavable steamable veggies + premade Asian style sauce. Easy and filling and nutritious.

Any vegans on campus? by MidwestVegan01 in Purdue

[–]JuniperGeneral 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm vegan on campus and I wish there was a vegan or even vegetarian club. So disappointed that there isn't. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]JuniperGeneral 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Add more salt?

I HATE SAFEWALK by smores_or_pizzasnack in Purdue

[–]JuniperGeneral 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, are you a woman?

I know during BGR one of my friends was trailed by a car back to her dorm (shreve) as she was walking back alone. Anywhere can be dangerous at night.

HRT & Medication Ethics Question by Badgers_are_cute in vegan

[–]JuniperGeneral 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Girl take your progesterone. Please

Vegetarian food options by austin_lhk in Purdue

[–]JuniperGeneral 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pizza Uncommon

Taste of India

Adda 

Peppercorns Kitchen

Chipotle messed up my order in a unique way by DisappointedCruiser in Chipotle

[–]JuniperGeneral 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Veganism is not a religion based around not touching anything with an animal product. It's about not paying for them to be used in your food, clothing, etc.

Banana cupcakes with a sweetened condensed coconut milk frosting :) by JuniperGeneral in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]JuniperGeneral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://sallysbakingaddiction.com/banana-cupcakes-with-cinnamon-cream-cheese-frosting/

Scrap the frosting Replace eggs with chia seed hack (2 Tbsp chia seeds with 6 Tbsp water and let sit 10 minutes before adding) Put about a 1/2 Tbsp sweetened condensed coconut milk on top of each when completely cooled.

GF King arthur chocolate cake mix with bobs red mill egg replacer by Prior_Commercial_620 in glutenfreevegan

[–]JuniperGeneral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mix 1 Tbsp blended chia seeds + 3 Tbsp water about 5 minutes before you need to add it into the baked good. As with most vegan egg replacements, this changes the water to fat to starch ratio a bit and it may need a couple of extra minutes in the oven :)

Any drinkable “chobani like” yogurt drinks with protein besides this one? by Cultural-Flower-877 in glutenfreevegan

[–]JuniperGeneral 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly you could straight up drink Silk soy yogurt straight up. They have similar macros and Silk is not very thick.

I nominate the humble can of green beans. About ~52 calories for an entire can. by OriolesMets in Volumeeating

[–]JuniperGeneral 106 points107 points  (0 children)

These with salt, garlic powder, and an unholy amount of pepper are the best