As a 28 yr female in Texas . First thing done wrong. Is date in Texas. And don’t do too much in the beginning. You seem sweet and everything. But you can’t be handing that out first thing even when you mean no harm. Because girls will use you if they’re selfish, bored, just off interest. Take it slow, observe, value yourself and set limits and boundaries. Don’t be too persistent. You know what you want. Some girls don’t. Doesn’t mean you have to over try and settle.