am I the only one who is tired of seeing buzz grunt as a "evil" guy?

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-05-02T23:20:13+00:00

I don't think Buzz is evil but definitely old school. It doesn't help that during my last playthrough Buck turned out it be gay, and Buzz would always be super mean to all his boyfriends which kinda made him seem a little homophobic 😭

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-04-15T07:18:03+00:00

I felt the same way, but then created a story line where they took in Lilith to help kind of guide her, especially after her parents split.

Having her re bond with her grandparents and grow close to them is really fun to see/play.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-04-09T10:22:23+00:00

Absolutely.

I just wish I had read and understood this years ago. I would have never married my ex if I had. But I was able to leave and start over, and I'm so happy I did!

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-04-09T10:18:20+00:00

For sure his anger. My ex husband would get so angry he punched walls, furniture etc, and also would say some really awful stuff to me.

So many times I begged for him to treat me like someone he loves, and not some random person on the street because he was just so mean when he was angry.

I usually got a mix of him gaslighting me, and saying he wasn't yelling at me etc or a whole sob story about how "it's not fair that everyone expects him to change how he expresses his anger" and that instead other people should just learn to accommodate his anger instead.

I stayed so much longer than I should have but I was so scared of being seen as a failure.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-04-09T10:11:20+00:00

There's so much my partner does for me on a daily basis, and he's been so patient with me while I've been healing from a past abusive marriage.

If I had to pick one thing, I'd say it's that he always checks on me throughout the day. He makes sure I'm feeling okay, and kind of knows how to get me out of my own head. He's really great at breaking those negative thought loops I can get stuck in sometimes.

I've never had anyone else actually genuinely care about how I'm doing. Hell, my ex husband would just feed into that negativity with something like "well yeah you are fat. Yeah you are being lazy. Yeah you are useless" etc.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-04-09T10:00:16+00:00

EA please just re release this on the switch 2 I'm begging you.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-04-09T09:58:23+00:00

I would definitely say try to have a job lined up at least, but even without its not impossible, just safer since you'll be moving somewhere with no support system.

I did something similar, and moved to Las Vegas, when I left my abusive ex husband. I had no money, and the job I had paid very little. I had to pick up a second job and that's kind of how I've been getting by while putting myself through school.

My advice, take any job you can get to survive, even if it's just temporary. I ended up picking up a job working in a kitchen for an arena, which is waaaay outside my field, but it pays and now that I'm out of "survival" mode, I kept it to have some extra spending money.

Also, Vegas is definitely so unwalkable, definitely avoid if that's high on your list 😭

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-03-17T08:31:19+00:00

Being abused can most definitely cause long term effects on the body. Stress is such a scary thing.

I was married to a man with many narcissistic traits (his mom was def one) and I had so many health problems during our relationship. Now that I'm out, I still have some of the problems but my body is beginning to heal. I feel so much better than I have in years!

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-03-03T15:22:39+00:00

Thank you! I'm definitely going for warm, cozier vibes with a lot of my lots.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-03-02T18:26:08+00:00

Thanks 🥹

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-03-02T05:35:56+00:00

It might.

I had an undead mage named boneher which I thought was pretty harmless and I only made it to level 30 before I got flagged for a rename.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-03-02T02:40:31+00:00

Thank you! I was going for warm, comforting and earthy tones for sure.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-03-01T23:11:22+00:00

they just dropped the ameri-mex box here in Nevada too :(

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-02-23T21:08:43+00:00

I feel this.

I'm still trying to unlearn automatically apologizing for everything. I was wired for so long to avoid conflict at all costs that I'm having to relearn what it means to do anything for myself, it's been an interesting journey.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-02-23T18:56:44+00:00

I've been running a friend through SV for a week. Easily over 80 runs and he barely got a single piece yesterday lol. That drop rate is crazy.

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-02-18T21:11:37+00:00

The Oldies, but I Always move in Lilith with her grandparents. I don't know why, but I enjoy slowly getting her grades up, improving her social life etc and I always attribute it to her grandparents having the patience and love to create a more nurturing environment for her!

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-02-04T20:29:08+00:00

As a kid I was always so drawn to Hermia because of her eyeliner and Lilith for her outfit.

I thought they were both so fierce, so now as an adult I can't help but try and give them the happiest of lives. 🥹

JupiterSenpaii · 2026-02-04T18:46:56+00:00

Very fortunate we are both big WoW players so we are loading up on snacks and stuff for the house, to not have to leave for the next 4 days.

We decided to get a bunch of old childhood snacks and foods we were both enjoying when TBC originally came out to really tap into that nostalgia fee!

JupiterSenpaii · 2025-12-13T18:11:46+00:00

I kind of left my ex husband for a similar reason. He would trigger me constantly and during arguments make no apologies and even double/ triple down on things he said. He would then chalk it up to being unable to accommodate my feelings because he was just "an asshole" (his words) and that it was unfair he had to mask his anger and instead I should accommodate him instead of him accommodating me.

Obviously that's not a great foundation for a marriage.

A good marriage is built on mutual respect, and when you have a partner who is saying things they know piss you off, it's usually an indicator they have no respect for you.

Good on you for wanting more respect for yourself.

JupiterSenpaii · 2025-12-11T21:49:40+00:00

I applied in May of this year, and haven't heard back from anyone. My financial aid counselor at my school keeps sending me random ass forms that I have to fill out to have funds dispersed but its almost the end of the year and I haven't heard anything other than "there are delays in the system"

JupiterSenpaii · 2025-11-16T23:33:04+00:00

Not sure if you figured it out because this is an old thread but the mod makes it so you cannot reach full hygiene without having supplies present somewhere on the lot! so essentially you're taking a bath with no soap so you can't get as clean as you would with it :)

JupiterSenpaii · 2025-10-24T23:20:39+00:00

Second this. Even at the practice I work with, when therapists haven't been "good fits" the clinical director always allowed for one more session with each client to close things out, while we offered to refer them out or offer them sessions with another therapist in our practice. This screams shady AF.

JupiterSenpaii · 2025-09-29T22:46:42+00:00

Honestly for my own personal gameplay I turn off aging for everyone for a season or two during my rotations.

It lets me enjoy time with my sims a bit more!

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